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So to begin with I felt kinda sorry for him because he was in a car accident, ended up partially paralysed and his wife left him.

However, he later told me he’d had at least two other accidents where he’d been driving about 100mph. The 3rd one happened because he hit a tree driving at 120mph, which caused him to be wheelchair bound. This was just after the birth of his 4th child about 4 years ago. So immediately I just think it’s selfish that you’d risk your life like that knowing you have a wife and 4 children that you could potentially leave behind.

Now he’s in the process of divorce, he’s told me all about how she’s been toxic and deliberately damaged his car a few times. He also told me she’d said she wishes he’d died in the accident one of the times they were arguing. And she also voiced she wished she could sleep with a celebrity. She also told him that one of their kids wasn’t his.

For me, all of that immediately then put me off because it sounds like there’s been toxicity in that relationship, but I wonder if he put so much pressure on her that she snapped. I’ve tried to suggest that he should work things out with her as they were together 17 years and I think she maybe had attempted to fix things at one point, but he was too stubborn. He’s now adamant he’s ‘moved on’ and is wanting to date me, I’m beginning to wonder if it’s a ploy to rub things in her face and get back at her.

thoughts?

Just to make it clear, I’ve never met this guy in person before. I’ve only seen a photo of him. And I’m not sure he’d know who I am unless my ex ever showed him a picture of me, because I’m not on social media or anything.

Anyway, I was walking down a busy shopping high street to go to a shop today and I just happened to spot this guy sitting on a bench. He made eye contact with me and stared my way, but I quickly looked away as I wouldn’t really expect him to know who I am.

Then on the way back along the high street I passed him again and this time he almost kinda shifted his body about on the bench as he saw me and looked up at me again.

On my way back to the car I’d crossed the road and he spotted me again, as he saw me crossing he stood up as if he was going to cross the road towards where I was. Again he was looking over my way.

Do you think he knew who I was? I had my sunglasses on, but feel there was quite a bit of eye contact going on.