Do guys really wait for women to make the first move?

[Justneedtokno]

There a person bad timing but I’ve kinda always felt like the initiator if I really think about it. I sent him a message he seen never responded but check my social media. I thought about a follow up but when thinking about all of it, I think I figured it out

[Summeroflove]

Well some do. Many women do make the first move it may just be more subtle or opening the door. However, people who wait tend to miss out.

Now there are men as well who have women throwing themselves at them. But are they all the women they want? Maybe in some cases.

I tell both sexes. Beggars can’t be choosers. If you want someone then show a genuine interest and get off your ass. Because 9/10 waiting ends up in them moving on. Because you’re probably not the only person attracted to them and attraction can come and go easily.

[EmmaMary]

@Justneedtokno

This seriously needs to be awarded the MHO.

[Summeroflove]

@EmmaMary thanks

[Cormac995]

These days? Yes a lot of guys wait for woman to make the first move.

[Anonymous]

There were guys in high school who said they always loved me but I never made a move so they didn't say anything? wtf? Some of them I would have gone out with if they had asked.

[Justneedtokno]

Yeah, I think that it’s kinda odd like do you like me and I have no idea so you’ll never know if you don’t try

[zagor]

Yeah I met a girl from HS at a reunion and a mutual friend had mentioned to her that I told her (the friend) that I had had a crush on her in HS. She said no one ever asked her out in HS and sounded kind of wistful about it.

As a side note, USE SUNSCREEN. She had had a beautiful tan in HS and now, unhhh.

[Justneedtokno]

Yeah, that’s kinda odd and now like a lot of guys from high school have like families and children’s ex-wives all of these things so now I’m moving past that it’s like is it too crazy to go back to college or even pass relationships?

[moviedude714]

I assume you are stubborn and adamant like the majority of women are in which you believe that women should never be the ones to ask a guy out

[Summeroflove]

Snooze you loose goes both ways.

[EmmaMary]

@Justneedtokno

The old saying which goes "Men Are The Hunters, Women Are The Hunted" is quite simply no longer valid and is completely out of date.

[Summeroflove]

The ones who wait are the ones who don’t get to pick who they want. That goes for both sexes.

If you genuinely like someone. Show internet… if someone shows interest that you like show it back… If someone doesn’t show you interest then move on after that

[EmmaMary]

@Summeroflove

How very right you are.

[Summeroflove]

Thanks. I know it’s awkward. It’s scary. Rejection hurts…. But if you never play you never win

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so very much indeed for the MHO.

[DishLady]

Some really do... for different reasons.

[msc545]

It is not like we are really waiting. We do nothing, and if you do something, great. If you don't we don't care.

[Sal_Monella]

With today's woke/metoo climate, it is best.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure there's a better chance of dinosaurs will come back to life then there is of women being the ones to approach a guy or women being the ones to initiate a relationship with a guy

[Wiredone]

Some guys do because they don't know how to make the first move on a woman

[DannyUk2017]

Welcome to "ghosting"...🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[bananathunder]

I usually do. Can't go wrong that way

[wkhan_87]

Some guys are like that, depends on their nature