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I consider myself as not judgmental at all. I mean, I still have some weak moments but overall I try not to judge people because no matter how they look, how they act, what they've done, you don't know what is in their mind and what burden they are carrying. Also you never know what life would offer you and when you'are going to be in a similar situation. You just never know.
I am sharing all of this because I a lot of people around me are so judgmental. I have a few friends that are like me but the rest of them judge. I don't say they are bad people, not at all but sometimes it bothers me when they comment on someone's look or behavior. It feels just like a negative energy to me. And I almost always reply smth like: "So, why do you care?", "I think there's nothing wrong with that person", or even the opposite " I like that dress and I don't think it's ugly like you do." Although I have no energy anymore to response to commnets like this especially if my boyfriend or my mother says it.. or explain why it is not OK to be judgy. It is draining and I think it doesn't help at all. I am also wondering what is the benefit of it? To feel better? I don't think judging people makes you feel better.

To everyone, lgbt, not lgbt, wherever.
Why is gender such a big deal, do you agree that it is? or isn't

there's something I must be missing because I treat everyone equally and get weird looks and boys girlfreinds get shitty with me for "being nice to there boyfriends" apparently this equals "flirting"
But okay than.

And if we really want gender equality like men can be feminine, women can be masculine.. than why do we have so many people that feel they were born in the wrong body...
is it like you are implying girls MUST wear makeup to be a true girl
and boys must be masculine to be a true boy?
Whats so bad about someone born male at a young age wishing to wear dresses and makeup.. but not identifying as gay or a transgirl?

Why does society think personalities equal gender? and why do people in general think this way about the genders.

not tryna offend but this whole gender sht confuses me because I act masculine a lot, sometimes feminine but rarely.. but I'm super shy.. and straight.. but REALLY masculine and everyone thinks im transboy.. or demiboy but honestly Idrc for genders
oh well
--if TLDR
than just answer the question