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My crush seemed as infatuated with me as i was with him. Until a friend told me he's a good kisser and he's had a lot of girlfriends. I don't 100% trust the source but im not gonna ignore it either. So i thought there was no hope and he was a player until i read this article

"Men who date a lot of women usually have bad intentions.

There is a double standard in society when it comes to dating a lot of people. When women embark on an endless journey of dates, society often sympathizes with them, attributing their lack of success to the cliché that there are no decent men out there. The woman is often viewed as the victim who just can't catch a break.

When men engage in the same behavior, the perception is that these men are womanizers, unable commit, flawed or solely out for sex.

Women tend to mentally write these types of men off. This is not always fair.

The reality is that many men date multiple women for the same reasons women date a lot of men. They are looking for "the one." A lot of these perceived players are simply playing the numbers game, hoping to find that special someone as quickly as possible so that they don't have to endlessly date anymore.

While women sometimes assume these men are playboys who are having the time of their lives, in reality, most of these men are exhausted and would love nothing more than to settle down with the right girl. They just have not found the right woman yet and will keep trying until they do."