Misandry Is Very Real, Whether You Believe It Is Or Not

[Anonymous]

Here are important things you should know: I am not a misogynist, I am a egalitarian. I am also not trolling, I am trying to get a point across. If you are going to share a opinion, be polite. Don't insult me, if you disagree with me, leave a polite disagreement and a reason why you disagree. I know this is a controversial topic, but this needs to be addressed more often.

So, I am sure you all have heard of the word "Misandry". A lot of you know it is real and try to make people aware of it, and thankfully a lot of people are becoming aware of it and are fighting it. However there are those that claim it is a hoax, like the feminists who sympathize with misandry. Feminists always say they believe in "equality of the sexes", in reality they are simply masking their agenda in sheep's clothing.

Feminists are trying to get special privileges for women, the proof is everywhere. The media always makes the female more dominant than the male and gives negative labels to men in commercials, movies, magazines etc. Many schools have "girls only" clubs but no boys only clubs. That's some interesting "equality".

A major problem and perhaps the most powerful "weapon" of the feminists are the "white knights", white knights kneel before feminism because they think they can get a girlfriend, they are self hating males, and or they lack the courage to stand up to feminism. So they collaborate with feminism. They think they are gentlemen but in reality they are puppets. A gentleman on the other hand is respectful to everyone but doesn't kneel before anyone. That's the difference between white knights and gentlemen.

The "Not all feminists are like that"(NAFALT) feminists are either feminists that are starting to see the truth, or they are trying to sugar coat their group's morally questionable actions. Those feminists claim to not be misandrists but refuse to denounce feminism and become egalitarians, because they still sympathize with feminism. If you ask them why don't they become egalitarians instead of feminists, they'll either say "feminism is egalitarianism" which is incorrect, or they will call you a misogynist.

Egalitarianism is the belief that all people deserve equal rights and equal opportunities, now feminism has various definitions. One of those definitions is "The advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social and economic equality to men." It would be nice if feminism's action actually reflected it's definition, but unfortunately it doesn't. Feminists tend to abuse their status and make the lives of many men miserable. Feminists are just like the racists who call themselves "nationalists", "separatists", and "racialists" to hide their bigotry. Also like East Germany who called themselves the "German democratic republic" when they were actually communists. Feminists claim they believe in equal rights but in reality they have a misandrist agenda.

The double standards benefit women, whenever there is a talk about sexism, everyone assumes it's men that are the sexists. When obviously both genders can be sexist especially feminists. Male domestic abuse victims seem rare because most male cases go unreported, because if the male reports the case, everyone will assume he is the perpetrator. See how the double standard works there? Make sex abuse cases also aren't taken seriously, even the perpetrator, especially a female one gets a lighter sentence than if the victim were female. Many feminists claim they try address these issues, but their intentions are questionable, feminists clearly dedicate their "cause" mostly to females than males. Double standards are the reasons why many male victims are unable to speak for themselves.

That is all I have say, just remember that true equality isn't giving privileges to certain groups, it's giving equal rights to everyone. If you plan on insulting me for simply sharing my views, then don't even bother leaving a "opinion". The reason this mytake is anonymous is because I don't need cowardly people sending me threats via message.

[Indigo91]

Yeah.. its called feminism.

[Stevegibbons]

Everything you stated is true and because of it I have found myself disengaging from women whenever I can. I am not a gay man but don’t trust women in a way that I could have a romantic relationship with them. I feel that as a man I’m disadvantaged legally and in many other ways to women in our society.

For example, if a woman is upset at a man she can easily accuse him of abuse or attempted rape and trust me the guy will be in deep trouble. In divorces men get raked over the coals. So why would I get into a game that’s rigged in favor of women. Would anyone get into a football game where your touchdown counts for 1 point but your opponents’ count for 7 ?

I am sure there are some very good and decent women out there but the anti men system that we live in does not promote trust in relationships with women so many men like me find it best to opt out.

[Evan94]

People don't deny misandry but the men who obsess with being seen as victims make it less likely to be the case

[myTake Owner]

Many people do indeed deny it’s existence and it has nothing to do with guys who view themselves as victims.

[RetroAlpha]

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