5 Things That Cause Misandry

[ADFSDF1996]

Misandry is a issue that many people refuse to talk about, everyone talks about misogyny but only a few people talk about misandry. What causes misandry? Well it's many things.

1.) It usually starts when they are little.

We all remember this "girls only" clubs or "boys only" clubs. Well this is the start, this kind of mentality starts to divide males and females. It turns it into a "boys vs girls" thing.

2.) Certain pieces of the media show misandry.

You often see commercials were men are depicted as "fools" or movies and tv shows where men are depicted as being violent towards women. A lot of young women(13-19 years old)see this and start to believe that all men are like this.

3.) Exposure to SJWs/feminists.

This is the factor that plays a major role in making misandrists. The feminists/SJWs usually pick on the younger females, in order to indoctrinate them with man hating ideas. They usually make the younger women believe that men are some sort of burden and liability to them. Thankfully a lot of young women don't fall for the SJWs lies.

4.) Various young women are forced into thinking that masculinity is bad.

Whenever a misandrist sees a masculine looking man, she says "he looks too manly" however if she sees a feminine/androgynous looking man she'll say "oh my, he is so hot!". I'm not saying there is anything wrong with androgynous men, I'm saying that masculine men should be able to proudly embrace their masculinity without being shamed, because there is nothing wrong with masculinity.

5.) Bitterness.

Maybe the misandrists might have had some bad experiences with men and assume that all men are the same. They are also wrong to think like that. They refuse to acknowledge that most men are actually good people.

I think both men and women need to stop hating each other and start respecting each other. Men and women are meant for each other, in order for humans to survive men and women need each other.

[Idonthaveausername]

The biggest point you left out is divorced single mothers who openly bash their children's fathers early on in childhood. Hearing things like "He's an evil man" and "That piece of trash never pays child support" lead a child who never had a male role model growing up to believe that all men are what their bitter mothers are claiming men are

My mother was one of these feminazi misandrists you speak of. I thought all men were evil and lazy and was scared to have a male teacher in second grade because of it. Thankfully he turned out to be an awesome teacher and I eventually realized how bitter and mentally ill my mother is

And I'd have to say that my experience in daycare was from the boys declaring summer 3-4 grade as "boys vs girls" and the girls didn't want to be a part of it, so we retaliated to get them to leave us alone. If the boys weren't being assholes, then there wouldn't have been a problem. There are more boys clubs than girls clubs who act like this. We never excluded boys who wanted to make friendship bracelets

[Imhotep99]

Which two feminazis downvoted this?

[Centurion20000]

The more of this ?

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The more you get this.

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[btbc92]

For once, you are spot on with this one. Yes, this is how the majority of it starts. But if I had to categorize it from the most likely to least likely cause it would be this:

#3
#2. After the exposure of #3
#5. However, you should add that it's due to resentment, which is a better title. Then add that bitterness is the ending result.
#2
#1. Being the least likely. But quite possible.

In this order, I believe has the most impact. However, masculinity is to be determined, because people categorize masculinity differently. An example of this is: All men look at porn or all men want sex. Those are stereotypes and is not always true, nor should it be branched with masculinity. Until we all understand what that means, it means differently to different cultures and people. While I agree we all need to learn to respect each other in an ideal world, but this isn't that world and isn't going to be because we all have some form of selfishness. Until people change the way they are coming off, you will continue to have jerks, manipulators etc that will always win and feed into misandry. Misandry is not a woman problem but a man problem, just like feminism and misogyny is a woman problem. Please don't take it literally, if you understand this reverse psychology I just placed.

In other words, if men learn to how to treat women and not the garbage they see on porn, the peers etc, and treat them fairly WITH respect and understanding, the women will eventually become receptive and just as understanding. The reason why I say men is not to point fingers only at men. But because men are supposed to lead and show how they are a leader. Women learn from men and are receptive to the leadership skills she can rely and count on. However, at the same time, while this is happening, women also needs to treat men with respect as they are equally of higher authority biologically wise. And learn to be as much as a team player as he should be. It will take time, but each person is unique and different. But with people's stubborn ways, they refuse to change. All you can do is be a better example to others.

[ADFSDF1996]

Nice detailed response. However when it comes to masculinity, I'm referring to physical appearance.

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996

I know. But I'm just pointing out how others are confusing it.

[ShadowLing]

Well it's shown women on the pill are actually turned off by more Masculine features. I think it has something to do with the pill tricking the body to think it's pregnant. Google it

[btbc92]

@ShadowLing

Yes. But it's not the pill. It's due to our genetics and the sexual choices of our parents and grandparents, etc. Not because of hormones.

[PatriarchalOppressor]

There's an extremely simple way to avoid misandry. What's that you might ask? Never give a woman any legal or financial power over your life. How have women traditionally established life destroying power over men's lives? That's easy. Marriage. Trillions have been forcefully transferred via the state from men to women through alimony, asset division and child support in just the past few decades alone. Unfortunately, men refuse to wake up to this greatest of all con games - this marriage trap. Hundreds of thousands of men, in 2017 alone, will wake up too late to this truth to save themselves.

Socialism is forced wealth and power transfer from those that have it to those that demand it for themselves - and women LOVE socialism. Tis why we have Affirmative Action, Title IX and now Affirmative Consent. Tis why men pay the majority of taxes yet the majority of state and federal spending on health, education and welfare goes to women. Tis why men receive much harder sentences for crimes in the judicial system. Tis also why we have a male only draft and a 100% all male front line combat force - exploiting and disposing of men for women's advancement, rights and privileges over men.

The misandry you folks seem to recognize is just a mere scratching of the surface. Male disposability and cultural misandry are so embedded in our culture that most don't even see it. Why? Because it's right there in plain sight - the best hiding place of all.

[Stallion76]

it comes from one womans bad experience with a man, and she wants other women to be miserable with her, Hence misery loves comapny. Now she has followers, and now she feels important, because now others look up to her. its really simple.
How to handle it, just be yourself, I hear it all the time, but as a man, I do what comes natural. Istand strong, tall, and firm.
A woman is not needed but is wanted, just lust like air vs clothes, Air you (NEED) air but you (WANT) clothes, you dont need clothes to live, but you do need Air to live.

[9R1NC3S5]

I'm a big girl (not literally).
Men can do what women can do, as a woman can do what a man can do! Only difference is we carry children and they don't. Haha on them for not experiencing the most beautiful thing life can offer.

This whole feminist BS, is just that BS!
Yea, considering all the strides us ladies have made over the last 50+ years, there is still a lot of work to be done. Such as income matching. But, I'm not a psycho bitch and I get it. Other ladies are cranky and need to get over it, move on. Focus on shit that more important. Yeash! #firstworldproblems

[alphadoggystyle]

No thats not the only difference between men and women, men are vastly superior to women and there are many things we can do that women cannot, we are stronger both physically and mentally compared to women, we are also more intelligent and creative, as well as more logical and rational on average. Childbirth is not something majority of men want to experience, men created civilzation so we can be proud about that but women mostly did nothing except give birth

[Djaaaay]

Opinion owner... But if feminism has its way , you won't be given birth any time soon. Feminism has an agenda , its lesbianism.

[Talkalot]

@alphadoggystyle Not true. Come on man.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

Not all feminists are misandrists (idk if thats a word but now it is). Just to put that out there.

I do think people who in no.5 have had bad experience. Not all men are idiots, same goes with women. Misogynists have had bad experience too.
Both could be something to do with media and upbringing.

And also to put out there which my also get bad comments is that there are feminists that believe in equal rights for everyone not just women.
And that a lot of mysandrists do put a bad name for a lot of other feminists.

Watching the hate flood into this comment.

[ADFSDF1996]

People always assume that Egalitarianism is feminism but it's not. If you find a "good feminist" then she isn't feminist, she might be a Egalitarian. I actually wrote a take explaining why feminists/SJWs aren't Egalitarians.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

I dont know what an egaliitarianism is. But not all feminsts are evil actually feminism is a movement for equal rights for all. Have you seen that suffragettes film? Theyre the i believe the start of the movement and theyre feminists and theyre are not mysandrists.
Just the media and other people that dont understand twist what feminism is, which is a real pain in the butt.

[ADFSDF1996]

Feminists are not the same anymore.

[ADFSDF1996]

Maybe feminists use to have a good cause but now they are something else.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

Well you're talking to one now, my mother and i believe my sister is one but we dont hate men, we both believe in equality for all.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

You must be talking to haters and not met the right people.
There are a lot of extremists in the world even in those that claim to be feminists.

[ADFSDF1996]

Ever thought that maybe you aren't feminists but Egalitarians (Believe in true Equality)?

[FuryOfTheDragon]

I dont know what an egalitarian is?

[ADFSDF1996]

Someone who believes in true equal rights.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

I don't know
I just believe that women can do what men can do, men can do what women can do, other cultures can do what other cultures can do. And that there will always be haters. But if you're bringing peace in this, well thats a different subject.

[ADFSDF1996]

Misandrists are known for wanting a matriarchy while Misogynists want a patriarchy. Egalitarians want equality for men and women.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

I want equality for aliens and robots too and haters to stop but i know peace ain't gonna happen any time soon

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm referring to human rights.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

Yeh human rights who would not?

[ADFSDF1996]

That why I respect Egalitarians, they believe all people have rights.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

Thought you was against it. Hard to tell. Its the interenet

[ADFSDF1996]

I support human rights, that's why I respect Egalitarians.

[cth96190]

I find it darkly amusing how the masculinity of white men is said to be 'toxic', but that talk ends and women demand that men 'man up' and go fight/kill/die to defend the women when the barbarian untermensch who were welcomed in by some of the women begin to destroy the civilisation.
Why would we do this?
So that you can stab us in the back, or sit there and do and say nothing while Feminist loons stab us in the back, the moment that the immediate threat to your safety has been overcome?
In what universe would that make sense?
This former soldier and current martial arts instructor is more inclined to kick back and enjoy the show, as women find out what a rape culture really looks like.
Let the patriotic masculine white men know when you have had enough multicultural 'enrichment' and then maybe. . . maybe. . . we might be inclined to talk terms.
"Some men just want to watch the world burn." - Alfred Pennyworth, The Dark Knight (2008).

[cth96190]

To the two females who voted down my comment, what you and other Western females are about to experience is called collective karma.
White women have spent the past 60 screaming abuse at white men and using their access to leftard politicians to produce laws that discriminated against us and, sometimes, criminalised normal male behaviour. Look up Nottinghamshire's new law, which can charge a man with an Orwellian thought crime for the heinous act of speaking to a woman.
Now, the poisoned tree that the female collective planted 60 years ago and watered with male tears is about to bear fruit. You said that you wanted this. You fought hard for it for 60 years. Enjoy your enslavement by a Big Sister state and sexual enslavement by Muslim men, whose average IQ is similar to a Fahrenheit room temperature (see the IQ map of the world).

[weirdusername]

Misandry does exist but I notice men caused it, I used to take up for them but I can't anymore. I think men also project their own behavioral problems on us, they say we don't know what we want it's really them, they say we play games it's really them, I am a 29 year old woman, many experience with men, many marriage proposals, know exactly how to treat a man and I swear men are weak and afraid of the perfect girl, this is when they act stupid and just make no sense, this is what cause misandry. To men is to dislike them believe me, I used to love them when I was promiscuous or just a flirt who paid more attention to career, then settling down came along weirdness of men reared it's ugly head.

[ADFSDF1996]

Men's rights activists are actually fighting misandry from the feminists.

[Talkalot]

You were originally correct in your assessment, but somewhere along the line you went down the wrong path as you were negatively influenced (what this very article suggests) and you didn't even realize it. I'm not really sure you ever liked a real man, but you've certainly met the wrong ones.

[north2south]

i have never heard any woman say "eww i dont like him he's too manly"

[ElissaDido]

I looooooooove men and I have been in Girls only groups and we used to play girls vs boys in school.

[FatherJack]

" I looooooooove men " Sadly , you are in an ever shrinking minority of women , thank you for being positive towards the much maligned man !!

[FuryOfTheDragon]

@FatherJack i like masculine men with beards. They are b-e-a-utiful

[FatherJack]

Even my daughter , when she was 8 remarked " Why are boys & men always made to look stupid & bad , when the girls are always the good & clever ones? " Enough said... deliberate toxic social engineering purposely designed to cause conflict. Agenda 21 in action !!

[danii_024]

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[FatherJack]

Why the female downvotes? There is nothing negative towards girls / women at all in the comments... simply my own daughters observations !! Some people need to think for themselves & get a friggin' clue !!

[Assholeman16]

The girls downvoted you because you triggered them

[FuryOfTheDragon]

@Assholeman16 i ain't triggered and i haven't downvoted lol

[Assholeman16]

@FuryOfTheDragon "ok"

[Pyrofox]

great take pretty much sums up the answer to all the posts the women population. Make about "why can't I find a good/nice guy anywhere. Well this is the reason.

[Elarra]

Lol, anyone besides me notice that many of the male comments that agree with this are subsequently followed up with an attack against women?

[Djaaaay]

Opinion owner. Interesting !!

[Smarter]

you ever once think women do the same attack men?

[Elarra]

@Smarter Did you ever once see me say that they don't? No? Great. Move on please.

[TomasLyy]

I agree with the last statement but tbh women have a right to feel that way, with so much domesticated violence and single moms and overall sexism, also sjw is personally, to me, a wrong term to use, its just making fun of the real activists for civil rights etc, unless you disagree and reply with something like triggered, but there are those who take it too far and as for masculinity don't worry there's plenty of girls who dig it

[ADFSDF1996]

SJWs are not civil the guts activists, true civil rights activists do not blame an entire group for their misfortunes.

[pooper89]

I think this kind of thing starts with a bad experience or succession of bad experiences. For example, she gets cheated on multiple times

[Talkalot]

It seems one person, with a very bad experience, doesn't agree with you.

[pooper89]

@Talkalot fuck em

[TheRebelReturns]

Great take my friend. Here's a song to go along with all the winning you just experienced.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jwgy-YOkCNI

[SovereignessofVamps]

If people can't decide for themselves without using the media, then that's sad.

[JenSCDC]

I love how a guy claims to know what women think when they see a man.

[ADFSDF1996]

Notice how I didn't say all women, I'm specifically referring to the misandrists.

[JenSCDC]

The fact still remains "how would you know?"

[ADFSDF1996]

The things they say and the things they do.

[FuryOfTheDragon]

You haven't met all women so therefore you dont know

[Djaaaay]

Opinion owner. Women claim the same. Nobody knows anybody period unless you advertise yourself to them or teach them how you're true colors are.

[Talkalot]

Which guy? You need to be more specific.

[Unit1]

Misandrists won't find a good man as much as misogynists won't find a good woman.
At least I hope it is so.
Or it is so IF the good man or good woman has some self respect of course!

[Browneye57]

It's real but not as pervasive as some would have you believe.
Just give these bitches a large margin of avoidance. They're toxic. As we like to say, hope they like cats, cuz they'll never find a man.

[cth96190]

Invest in cat food and cat toy manufacturers. Those businesses are about to have a boom time.

[FatherJack]

Even the most mediocre woman can still easily land a man & they know that !!

[Browneye57]

@FatherJack Yeah, a man they really can't stand cuz he's just a beta chump. They're never happy. A quality guy wouldn't give her the time of day.

[cross98]

lol the men in the comments are the main ones picking fights with anything involving females.