Search Results: guys being rude

All two of these terms - alpha & high value - usually go with the below summary

A man who may be wealthy who has multiple women purusing him at the same time. He usually entertains more than one woman at a time (e. g. cheats, etc.). He doesn't necessarily - and oftentimes doesn't - have a good personality (being shallow, pretenious, ignorant, rude, demeaning to others, etc.) and oftentimes only attracts women because of his money.

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A ladies man / or "player" is usually described in the below summary

A "ladies' man" is a term used to describe a man who is skilled in attracting and interacting with women. This person is often seen as someone who is highly appealing to women and enjoys their company. He is oftentimes entertaining more than one woman at a time.

I am talking about like when a guy asks you out and won't take no for an answer and eventually you just have to be rude about it and tell him to get lost.

I hate being rude, but I know for some it is easy. What do you think?

Guys how should a girl handle it when she doesn't want to be rude to you? What should she do if you won't give up?

It could also be any other situation where you are unnecessarily forced to be rude.

Share your thoughts or take the Poll or both... PLEASE

The guy is Muay Thai class A pro-fighter at the local town's sports centre (Muay Thai oriented). I'm a beginner class B.

I don't know him properly, but I've heard some things about him (mostly good) and I have also looked him up at the fighter's page (he seems to be around my age or slightly older). He's really good at Muay Thai (thai box) and has already won a title and other fight matches as well.

I think I might already have a crush on him. :|

We don't always meet (me being a beginner, him a pro) but when we do he always seems to be looking at me, he comments on the way I do stuff (not always the right way, I have much to learn), he's not rude but he's honest, he's also quite playful, he's noticed it makes me very nervous when he (as an occasional trainer) watches me so we kind of joke about that. 😅 It's hard to explain 😅 My first visit there, he actually let me borrow his expensive skipping rope. He's also always ready to say hi (one time I forgot my stuff there so I went back to this sports centre, I didn't know he's gonna be there and seemed so surprised by seeing me dolled up a little bit in my more normal clothes).

I guess I can't really expect more because we don't meet that often. :/ But when we were getting warmed up, I was supposed to pull him over, he of course did let me win (I guess he sees himself as a gentleman, he has that reputation there, girls said he doesn't punch as hard when sparred against a girl). In that moment, when we touched and held each other's arms, I thought I might have felt something but I brushed it off.

I haven't been with anyone for a long time now so I might sound like a little girl again to you.

I will really appreciate anyone who reads this wall of text of mine and shares what they think.

Hopeless romantic 💕

By meaningful I mean for potential marriage, having kids, etc.

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Personally I wouldn't - but then I've only been with 2 guys - because I see such people as untrustworthy, unreliable and unable to deal with life or a little bit of difficulty.

I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of them are unable to do more than minimal skills required jobs & only got lucky with better jobs than sweeping floors**.

Furthermore in my encounters, what I've heard, read, etc such people have bad personalities - immature, irresponsible, rude, ignorant, demeaning of others, etc., egotistical, short tempered, prone to childish behavior, not to mention oftentimes they're alcoholics and/or have issues with drugs - that'd make them very highly undesirable even if they didn't sleep around.

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**I've heard as example, including from family friends who taught what would become NHL players, that the average athlete and celebrity is far from being intelligent. The one who taught NHL players bluntly said they're fortunate to have been talented otherwise as they were struggling with simple secondary education. Ironically celebrity and athletes are notoriously unfaithful.