He flirtswith me but then is rude to me?

[Anonymous]

he's 16 I'm 15. So he'll flirt, be all blushy and shy , be very touchy for absolutely no reason ( like randomly trying to hold my hand or he'll juat randomly touch my thigh or something like that ) he also stands veryyy close for also no reason and make sexual jokes and get mad when I say I'm talking to a guy Like he was mad all night when I said I was talking to guy but he also teases me about my appearance, mocks my voice then todat he said " thank god I'm bi so I don't gotta deal with someone like u" so it's like? And he'll make a lot of comments being like you wish u could have me but then he offered to fake date to get this werid guy to leave me alone he also askes what I look in a guy, why I don't date things like that he's also always wanting to hang out alone like go bother ur friends yk?

[BasedBaeBecca]

Perhaps he's unsure of his own feelings towards you and struggles with how to act towards you. This could explain the mix of flirting and rudeness that you've described.

He's also still a teen, and may not be as mature and emotionally intelligent as you are. Some of the things you mentioned sound like they're meant as jokes, but he's too young to understand that they might actually hurt your feelings.

If his actions make you feel uncomfortable, try to communicate your feelings to him and set some boundaries regarding his behavior towards you.

[_Maya_]

So he flirts with you because he likes you. That much is obvious. The rude part is because you don't take the bait. He gets mad or rude because you don't reciprocate the flirting with him. At least that is what I take away from what you wrote in the descriptive. Not really uncommon at your age which by the way says you are 19 years old not 15. Just continue to ignore him. He will tire from it eventually and move on.

[baylua]

He might ask for threesome later cause he's told you about being bi.

[Reem12345reem]

he wants to fuck u