My fiances bestfriend is rude to me and touches me up, is this normal behaviour what could it mean?

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My fiance I've been together with for 2 years (dated when we were younger too for another 2 years) has a bestfriend, I'll call him Luke.

Luke has a fiance who's really smart, friendly and has an amazing job.. he's been with her for a long time, however he still flirts and I have heard him say things about other women whilst his partner hasn't been there etc and has been disrespectful. He is also sexist in general, and just that sort of guy, however despite this he is fun to drink and chat with and I do care for him as he's my fiancé's bestfriend.

Anyways, he's made comments to my fiance in the past saying 'why can't my fiance be like her' (saying he wishes his fiance was like me, I drink etc and she doesn't so I assume he meant it like that as he likes to party and stuff) he makes jokes about me and tries to wind me up, has said sexualised things about my body, before last time we met and he shoved a bottle in-between my boobs as I was wearing a low cut dress which was definitely crossing a line it was very random and just things like that. When I've made sexual jokes to my fiance or in general he's replied like that can be arranged

Last time we met, his fiance wasn't with him and whilst my fiance was in the bathroom he pinched my butt as he walked behind me which he's never done before.. it made me jump, then later that night, we were outside speaking to someone and she brang up this girl who is apparently really dumb, then he goes a head and says to the person we're talking to that I'm as dumb as the girl their speaking about.. personally I wouldn't be doing any of the things above to him and it is a bit annoying, plus I really don't appreciate being called dumb.. I have a bit of social anxiety and sometimes it probably makes me act like that.

Does this guy dislike me or something? Thoughts

My fiances bestfriend is rude to me and touches me up, is this normal behaviour what could it mean?
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