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Search Results: having great sex
Am I overthinking friends with benefits?
In my 1st friends with benefits with someone I’ve known for around 12 years. been having good sex for around 6/8 weeks, he made the first move. we have a great laugh together and cuddle before and after, hold hands a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you get SAD aka the January blues?
SAD Seasonal Affective Disorder - a kind of temporary depression that occurs at particular times of year. January can be a depressing month for many people, especially in cold climates, with short hours of day light,...
DonkeyDan
Guru Age: 49 Should I give in and enjoy myself?
So I've been married 7 years. We separated a few years ago after I walked in on her giving another guy head. While apart I met a woman who is smoking hot. She messaged me on Facebook after seeing me drop off my kid at the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do men have such a strange and conflicting perception of women and notions of how to treat women that range from worship to hate?
Before I transitioned into a girl I always hated hearing men talk about women. When I used to hang out with guys and pretend I was anything like them I would get so uncomfortable when they started talking about girls and...
ElizaPam
Yoda Age: 31 Does it make me a bad person for falling for someone else while still in a relationship with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend and I have been having issues for awhile. I've started to have feelings of what if this isn't meant to be around this time last year but pushed them aside and said we can work through these if we love each...
Anonymous
(25-29) Mixed people are the pinnacle of beauty
It is without a doubt that most mixed people are going to be considered more beautiful than those who belong to one ethnicity. Previous, small scale, studies have suggested that people of mixed race are perceived as being...
DelayedMist
Xper 5 Age: 20 In praise of some desirable (yet unsung!) qualities in a woman
If you look out into the world of popular culture, media and academia today you can get a sense of what the general zeitgeist or “society” suggests is of great value in a woman. This includes things like physical beauty...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do both the political left and the political right love having the government control people's bodies so much?
This is going to be another one of those posts that pisses people off. Hold on to your butts cause here's your Trigger Warning. Anyway... I grew up classically liberal. I voted for Obama twice (even though I think he...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Guy I’m dating said I disrespected him?
(30) f dating (42) m for a month and recently stayed with him last weekend, the weekend was great and we had a lot of fun etc. We get on very easily always laughing, never any awkward silences everything just seems...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he hoping for sex or genuinely wants to help?
Long story short, I was having casual sex with this man 6 months ago. We were both on the same page so it worked good. Besides sex, we also connected as friends; being new in town he was the first person I met and he...
Anonymous
(36-45) The Truth Behind Being An Exotic Dancer
Exotic Dancers Are performers, like any other dancer/performer. Despite popular belief, they are not sex workers of any kind. While there are some cases of dancers who will accept offers for more, the majority do not. For...
How can I ask if this is just “for fun”?
I went on a first date with a guy and it went great. We ended up closing down the bar and went back to his apartment to keep the date going. We made out, but nothing else. We have another dinner date scheduled for Monday....
Anonymous
(30-35) The dream that changed my outlook on life
Yesterday, I had a dream about a man who I went through a mutual breakup with two years ago. I thought I was over what could have been - and then that dream forced me to compare my current partner with this man, who has...
Anonymous
(18-24) Hello setbacks my old friend... I've come to wallow with you again!
I guess I'll start this off with - I hate that I'm writing this but I'm feeling pretty apathetic & numb to everything at the moment... not in a depressing & sad way just more so in a lacklustre & defeatist kind of way....
WhateverMayBeWillBe
Yoda Age: 37 What do I do for the meantime while patiently waiting for what I truly want?
So basically my whole life I’ve been told that the love of your life and success comes when you least expect it. That’s totally understandable but what exactly do I do for the meantime? I’ve been having so much trouble...
Sarahdelacruz
Xper 5 Age: 30 Why do I keep getting ghosted by guys I like after they find out that I’m a virgin?
It really makes me so sad and insecure. It’s been way too many times and I just don’t know what to do anymore. I have great conversations and connections with guys but once they find out that I’m a virgin they just ghost...
Sarahdelacruz
Xper 5 Age: 30 I am NOT defined by my Scars "A Survivors Account"
Caution is advised, continue at your own risk. It is not going to be pretty. Rape is a horrible crime perpetrated against men and women , that has a life long effect on its victims, long after the legal system is...
He left me for another girl twice? Is there something wrong with me? ?
I dated this guy before and he and I got along well. We had a good relationship. 3 months down the line he told me he doesn't wanna speak to me anymore or see me because he’s found another girl who he wants to take...
xolaurenxx
Xper 6 Age: 27 Are we not compatible?
So I recently started dating my friends with benefits and so far I do like spending time with him, we have a lot of fun together on dates and the sex is great. But I'm used to dating sweet guys who pay for our dates in...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to get comfortable having sex/being with someone smaller than me?
So, I'm about 5'8 and on the thicker side. Maybe a bit chubby if you will. But I'm pretty and am not insecure in that sense. BUT the new guy I'm dating is about my height, maybe slightly shorter and a bit smaller. He's...
Anonymous
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