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This person (25F) and I (23M) have been talking. She works as a supervisor at my nearest grocery store where I live. During the many times we've seen each other very rarely will she smile or initiate a "hi" (but I'm not saying that doesn't totally exist). Most of the time I go out of my way to chat with her. I know some things about her via the answers she gave me to my questions. She's a Gemini, I'm a Capricorn. But that's pretty much the only thing I know personally about her. She didn't even ask about my last name, what ethnicity I am, or my phone number or social media info. (She knows very few things about me other than the fact that I used to work at Whole Foods and that I am now taking online school.) I recorded a few TikTok videos jokingly talking about how I met this girl and made some jokes about a particular, really cranky guy from a commercial that sells pillows. I told her jokingly that I was his godson, she said, "Oh yeah! I remember you!"

But lately, she's kinda been ghosting me, limiting to just short chit-chats. I don't think she's all that interested. She's likely lost all interest in me. Even today my aunt honked at me as I was JUST going to talk to this girl, but she didn't even notice me or the car honking.

I did ask if she's down for the gym or the movies, she said while she appreciates me asking her out, she cannot go out.

With that said, I gave her some flowers/roses on Mother's Day and she really appreciated it. But she didn't say anything when I hid a Valentine's Day card inside with some chocolates in a bag.

Sometimes I feel like an a—hole for not going out of my way to talk to her today. But few days ago I was exiting the store, she was just glancing at me for a second and didn't even do or say anything. I feel left out, excluded, psychologically burned out because of her betrayal. She acted so f—king nice to me.

So here's the situation, basically this girl and I started talking platonically online. We're both pretty bad texters. We spoke for about a year until we met in person. We had two fantastic dates where she expressed desire to have a relationship with me.

In the time since those dates, she told me that she doesn't want a long distance relationship but has said she wants us to contact each other if we are ever in each other's area. The communication has totally died to the point that she doesn't respond to my incredibly occasional texts. I recently graduated from law school and she couldn't even be bothered to send me a congratulations text when I told her.

There's bad communication and then there's this... this is just pathetic and insulting.

Part of me wants to call her out on this and ask if she wants me to stop texting entirely, the other part thinks I should just assume she wants me to piss off and just let things go.