Being a girl must be fun. Being a man is not

[Anonymous]

Not gonna say "i hate being a man" as much as I would like to.

I am saying "it's fun being a girl" with an implication, that life is better being a girl. And I have not been a girl yet and I doubt I will go that way. I am too old for that now.

Girls are basically the center of society and have access to many diverse and fun things compared to men.

If you are a man, have you ever stopped and dived into "what are the girls up to?"? Then you'd know girls have a lot more possibilities than men unless you are rich or you'll go through being socially alienated.

What fun do girls enjoy, that men can't? In no particular order:

Girls are blessed to be born with the body and it's contents, that shape the girls "rig" to be attractive on a fundamental level. Girls take huge advantage of this almost like an exploit to 10x enhance their beauty. It is no wonder that even many girls are into other girls and not into transgirls. Men don't have that in their biological blueprint.

Girls can maximize that with make up and a vast selection of clothing options. The clothing stores dedicate no more than 10% of it's space towards "men's sections" and the biggest portions towards ladies. Men's section consists of what? Jeans, shorts, sporty/lounge pants, cargo pants, hoodies, t-shirts and suits. Girls can choose all that from men's section plus very many things including but not limited to stockings, skirts, dresses, ponchos, kimonos, forearm sleeves, heels & stilettos, high boots with zippers, short and fluffy fur coats, blouses, hanboks and many more things. Is it any surprise, that men do cross dressing?

Girls can get sex by just asking. And they can get plenty of matches online.

Girls can get away with not making good money.

Girls can be attractive and cute and boys are seen as gay or weak or sissy if they replicate that.

Girls craziness is excused.

Girls can get free meals, gifts and sometimes money. And never see that sucker again.

Girls can do many fun things with their hair and have bigger hairstyles selection than men's generic "short and styled" unless they want to rock some hairstyles, they can do that too but girls have a much bigger selection.

No one is expecting you to have the strength to singlehandedly lift car engines or delivering deadly punches.

It is fine for girls to be quiet, introverted, passive and lazy. Men will move mountains for them. Good f---ing luck boys, who happen to be the first 3 in dating. Your hands will be there for you.

Men do all the work in dating for girls, so that all the girls have to do is say yes (or no), look pretty and show up.

And then people act like transgirls are the sickos. No, this is exactly why they have turned into transgirls and it shouldn't be a surprise that transgirls are becoming more common. Watch this. It is one example of many.

So like what? Men are doomed?

Men of course can attempt to do that too but they'll face significant obstacles such as being socially alienated for cross dressing (and not finding the fitting sizes because women's clothings are quite smaller, so a XL on their clothes corresponds to S for men. How do I know? I tried), being deviants or being plain unable to do the same. And so have the transgirls became what they are.

At this point, why shouldn't i turn into a transgirl? What's my excuse? I don't really have any. Why inhibit myself like that when i can probably rock it like they do? Except I am not that young anymore.

[Investigator]

"The clothing stores dedicate no more than 10% of it's space towards "men's sections" and the biggest portions towards ladies. Men's section consists of what? Jeans, shorts, sporty/lounge pants, cargo pants, hoodies, t-shirts and suits. Girls can choose all that from men's section plus very many things including but not limited to stockings, skirts, dresses, ponchos, kimonos, forearm sleeves, heels & stilettos, high boots with zippers, short and fluffy fur coats, blouses, hanboks and many more things. Is it any surprise, that men do cross dressing?"

Most men are interested in functional clothing, i. e. clothes that serve a purpose before they look a certain way, while most women's clothing is purely decorative and might provide some protection. I agree that male clothing options are rather limited, but there also isn't really a need to change. Skirts and blouses might look nice, but they have very little utility; there's a reason women carry handbags while wearing dresses and that means A) the weight is unevenly distributed on one shoulder and B) the body becomes unbalanced and encumbered if her purse has too much stuff in it.

"Girls can get sex by just asking. And they can get plenty of matches online.

Girls can get away with not making good money.

Girls can be attractive and cute and boys are seen as gay or weak or sissy if they replicate that.

Girls craziness is excused.

Girls can get free meals, gifts and sometimes money. And never see that sucker again."

A lot of this stuff is true in part, but not in the way you'd want it to and even then it only applies to a small subset of women--not all women, all of the time.

A) Women get propositioned all of the time, so they have to learn how to gauge interest from men and which men it is safe to reciprocate interest from

B) Women can get away with not making if they provide something in return; there are no free lunches.

C) Women can be attractive and cute in a "harmless" way because that triggers a defensive instinct in people; men are the thing to be defended against, so "women as cute" doesn't make as much sense when applied to boys.

D) An excuse is not a justification and it also tends to work against them; this is not something to be proud of or that you should want as a tool

E) Emphasize on the "can", because a lot of men have or are wisening up to women's misuse of dating as a "meal replacement tactic" and its starting to backfire in a major way. If all men assume most women are just going to use them to get free food, they are either going to ask for sex from the off or demand to pay half. If you know that the whole point of getting her food is to give her a reason to sleep with you and that is no longer on the table, then what is the point of going out to eat? Now, you might say "because it's a nice gesture and shows that you care". Okay, sure, but that doesn't mean she does or even appreciates your effort. It could just mean you're the latest sucker in a long line of fools.

And then there's this long-winded essay provided in the Discord chat picture that I've transcribed, "I love being a woman. I love doing my nails, brushing my hair, plucking my eyebrows, going shopping with my friends, having girltalk, putting on makeup, doing a skincare routine, wearing heels, spending hours finding the perfect outfit, sewing, knitting, baking, spas, fruity drinks, cocktails.. all of it as a woman. Like seriously anything. doing it as a woman, being seen as one, brings me joy."

If this works for you—as in, actually works for you; you're not doing this stuff just to "fit the role"—have at it. This sounds like my personal hell. Maybe doing the skincare routine is nice and knitting/sewing is good for hand/eye coordination and baking is good practice to learn cooking generally, but everything else is just... no.

In conclusion, you've taken all the elements of the lives of exceptional women, the kind of women who are envied by average woman and adored by most men, and made them seem like the rule, as if they apply to all women, in all forms that have a "woman" moniker. This is categorically incorrect and you should know this. No, you're not going to transition from a below-average man (if that is your starting point) into a hot chick, that's delusion. You would be a hot guy if being a hot girl were a possibility, but even "attractive" transwomen (who were attractive as men and pass for women) still flirt with the uncanny valley every now and then, so that's no guarantee of success... and then you have to deal with all the fallout of transition.

Every way you slice it, the core of the issue is that your self-esteem is in the toilet and wanting to be a woman because "then life would be easier" is a cope, and a bad one. Self-reflect, work on things you can improve and go from there, rather than wishing to be someone or something else.

[rigmarole]

You just sound like a loser... For example you say things like "Girls can get sex by just asking"... As a guy I've been in situations were I was drinking a couple of beers with some friends in a parking lot. I went back to the store to grab a few more, picked up a girl on the sidewalk in front of the store just by talking to her. She hung out and talked for a little bit, had beer with me and within about 10 minutes was giving me a blow job behind the store... Real high barriers right? Or for example you say "Girls can get free meals, gifts and sometimes money"... Plenty of women give stuff to guys they like or are friends without asking for money. Girls tend to like gifts and like to give gifts to people in their lives. Girls also tend to discount things for guys they find attractive that were nice to them... You'd be surprised how far just being genuine and nice to people will get you in life. For example I was picking up a couple fruit trees from a nursery a couple weeks ago. A Spanish girl was driving me around on the golf cart. I just had a friendly conversation with her will I was shopping and treated her like a human being rather than like the help so she knocked 25% off the sale price just cause. Pretty much everything you talk about applies to guys with the exception of dressing up like a girl, and typically guys don't like to do that.

[pallmallconnoisseur]

Funny, I say the same thing about men. Men don't have subreddits dedicated to masturbating on pics of random unconsenting girls holding "18" balloons. Guys don't have forums where women share suggestive pictures of their male family members without consent. Guys don't have sites dedicated to creep shots. Men aren't the face of the prostitution or pornography. Being sexual isn't something thats labelled as empowering for men. Oh to be a guy, to be able to be walk outside and not be a walking sex object. Would be nice. I won't deny that men can also be sexualized without consent, but the disgusting content I've come across, subreddits dedicated to guys sharing female family members with thousands of members, the prostitution industry etc, has disillusioned me. I like being a woman, but it isn't fun.

[BumbleStix]

@pallmallconnoisseur Oh to be a woman, and not to be statistically more likely to die from violence, or to be a victim of nearly type of crime at higher rates. Not to be expected to be both a server of equality, and the man breadwinner in most western civilizations, and the dominate power throughout most of the rest of the world. To be the one most likely to die in war, or to be called upon when such an action takes place. Or to be responsible for the actions of every other man, because the few bad ones, or those with the power are somehow the definition of all men. Or to be the ones working the most difficult jobs, with the highest rates of injuries or deaths, while at the same time having to service some false sense of "equal pay" when its largely about the type of jobs certain people pick, as opposed to any sort of real gender disparity. To be the one less likely to have government aid or support, or pushed aside because "he's a man". To have expectations of hiding feelings, of being strong, or being a provider, or being emotionally stable, or playing every type of leadership role because somehow its the definition of a man, while at the same time surrendering those roles to women who make up the majority of the wests most educated now. To have every type of action you downgraded, because we must support minorities (who have the actual power). Oh your mother abused you, or your female teacher sexually harrased you, its not even worth mentioning, because in most cases people assume you are just a sexual delinquent anyways, because that is just being a man. Lets just concentrate on the needs of women, instead of men, because God knows there is no such thing as a feminist who wishes men to die, or entire movements based on subreddits about that, or even overtly shown in media on a daily basis.
Sorry, we all have our problems, and it barely covers any of them.

[pallmallconnoisseur]

@BumbleStix nowhere in my comment was i denying that men have their own unique and bad experiences. I'm talking about the downsides of being a woman since this person think its fully a bliss. 👍 But saying "or to be a victim of nearly type of crime at higher rates," feels like you're minimizing targeted violence against women.

[BumbleStix]

It is simply a statistical fact, just like the majority of murders in the USA committed by the Black community, often against itself. Roughly over 50% of them each year, in comparison to their population size, which is 13%.

[pallmallconnoisseur]

@BumbleStix we went from men to black people... the hell...

[myTake Owner]

Yeah. Let's talk about Baseball next.

[pallmallconnoisseur]

Yankee fan, you?

[myTake Owner]

Not into baseball but into the girls 😍

[Girlygirl364]

@BumbleStix I can tell your some white American guy by your statements just a stereotypical piece of entitled shit

[BumbleStix]

@Girlygirl364 Black Nigerian Lesbian actually.

[BumbleStix]

@Girlygirl364 and leave me alone colonizer! You have no place here! Wakanda is not yours!

[provokeesmokee]

Bro, if you're trans it doesn't matter how old you are. You can transition how and when you want.

But if you think being a woman - especially a transwoman - is going to be easier on you than being a man, you're lying to yourself.

Even transmen find they enjoy better privilege as a transman than they enjoyed when presenting as a woman.

But, if you're deadset on transitioning, then that'll be worthwhile. Because you being you is the most important.

However you're in for an extremely harsh time if you think it's that easy to transition. Especially in America, where it's obvious you're from due to your lack of education.

[myTake Owner]

Yaaaaaay!

[nik0102]

@provokeesmokee what gave it away he is from the us?

[Avicenna]

@nik0102: Europeans are nowhere near as into the trans nonsense. They generally believe you are what you were born.

[provokeesmokee]

Lmao, bro, you realize drag was a huge thing in Europe during the World Wars, and trans people exist in Europe?

You need to get out more.

Trans isn't some trend, it's a very well-known gender identity.

Facts don't care about your feelings, bud. Maybe get outside a bit more, meet more people, read more books.

[boobliker]

here here I feel the same

[zeitgeist057]

Ok, the "girls" you are referencing with all these "benefits of being a girl" is not your typical woman's experience. What you are referencing is something like 10% of women, and of those 10%, only about 20% of their lives. Because most of what you are focusing on is beauty and the questionable privileges that come with it. Some of what you talk about is true, like a wider variety of fashion specifically designed for them, but not all women care about fashion, and so that "benefit" isn't even seen as such to them.

As you can learn from talking to or observing real women, most of them are not "supermodel gorgeous", even though the majority of what you see on TV or your instagram feed are. 90% of them are just normal looking women. Who are not getting free meals. Even those who are, are not getting every meal for free, they still have to pay rent, have a job, &c. Even if that job is being someone's plaything, it's still work.

Who's buying their drinks?

The other part of this is age, as you will often see both men and women talking about, there are prime sexually attractive "breeding" years roughly 20-30 years old. (~20% of their lifespan) Before and after that, they aren't getting all these benefits you speak of. That's just biology, the way our species is designed to be born, develop into adults, have babies, raise the babies, then pretty much just fade into the background slowly and decompose. Just like other species, only our lives are a bit more drawn out. Most baby animals can walk after a few minutes to a few days, it takes us MONTHS.

But I digress. Take a representative sample of 100 female subjects, of all ages from newborn to deathbed elderly, and probably about 10 of them (10%) are getting the benefits you describe. Maybe even less. And those "benefits" come with a lot of downsides, too. Like harassment, threat of rape, actual rape, and general hate from both genders. Sounds like you got a little taste of that trying out drag, and it's not just because you're dressing up as a woman, it's like that for women with vaginas as well (though less so, because they're not dealing with repressed homosexuals/homophobics who hate you for giving them a chubby.)

I am much happier being a human who pays for my own food and drink and doesn't have to worry about strangers trying to drug me and jam their genetic material into my orifices.

I will say if you want to be a T-girl, which it sounds like you're on the fence about, be aware it comes with its own set of difficulties. Your best bet if you want to do it seriously is move to a place that is going to be more accepting and have a community, like West Hollywood, CA. It sucks, but that's the reality of the shittiness of the world. Unless you want to be a warrior and fight every damn day. You're still young enough to give it a go for another 5, maybe 10 years (gag gives your age as a range, so I don't know how old you are exactly).

I think men have it way easier, it's fun to be a man and enjoy women. All the fun stuff you said about women, I feel like it's more fun to appreciate a woman who is all dressed up and did her makeup or whatever, than to have spent all that time. I prefer to spend 5-20 minutes getting ready. I don't want to shop like that and another thing is women's clothing is quite often poorly made compared to men's quality which is more durable, comfortable, and practical. I like to buy clothes for romantic partners and am often frustrated at how difficult it is to find real quality goods for women (at least non-bespoke, reasonably priced goods).

[Anonymous]

Yes girls are born with their assets and men have to earn it by having status, but girls also lose it faster then men who start gaining it later in life.

Men have been providers in the past and women caretakers. Being a women is not that fun when you have a period every month, you have to give birth at some point, you are weaker and sexy gender and that makes you an easy pray. And in return while women do that men have to have a steady job and be strong to help lift stuff or protect. Also men like to help lift stuff for a weak woman, it feels good to be needed and to help.

Being crazy is not excused, you get called emotional and illogical, even women can't show too much emotions. Men don't want to deal with a hysterical woman.

So we have makeup to glam up, guess what men have beards that can literally alter the way your chin looks. The weakest chin and fat under it can be hidden and that can make you look manlier.

Yes womens clothes have more of a veritey, but why. Beacuse most men don't want to bother with all that. They have jeans and a few different shirts and that makes it easier for them. Women put more into looks and choosing an outfit that would bore a man out.

Having sex if you just ask for it as a woman, yes you would most likely get it but then you would get called a whore, if you have too much bodies you would be a roastie, unmarrigeable. Sex is a want, not a need, you can masturbate just as a normal women (not a hoe) would.


We need men like we need women, both can have fun. Women are more into beauty hobies and men have sports and video games.

Trans women are not women, they are just perverted men who want to live their perv fantasies while usually being envyous of women to the point of hating them for being what they are and them never acheaving that ever (the difference is in the genes and you can't change nature), people (espessialy america) have to learn how to be happy in your own body, it shouldn't be a trend to be trans.

Best course for you is to learn how to be happy as a man

[Psyduck98]

I think that might be going to far for the trans thing. I don't think that men trans to women are seeking a pervert fantasy. Think of all the back lash they must get for wanting to be a women to feel like they aren't a man. I'm a 100% women born that way just fyi.
Also I agreed with everything else you said.

[Opinion Owner]

@Psyduck98 but isn't it funny how most times when the word gets out of sexual crimes being done its the trans or gays (not the focal point here). The reality is still that they will never be women, they can be trans women tho. Many are envious of women to the point of hating them. What do you think about the fact that because they will never be women they want to change that we women weren't called women anymore but rather birth-givers, just so they can feel better? Did you ever see posters of the LGBTQ with a literal real life pe. do bear on the streets where children walk, what about orgies in pride parades where children are near (not to mention that fucking on the streets is degenerate af on its own), did you ever see trans people teaching kids in kindergarten, kindergarten what sex is and how to do it. Transness has became a trend and shouldn't we rather teach people to be happy being what they are instead of sending them through operations to change themselves.

[Opinion Owner]

@psyduck98 Thank you for agreeing with other stuff tho :)

[davado88]

thumbs up

[Varanus]

You are conveniently ignoring all the things that suck about being a woman and cherry picking the privileges that only apply to the most physically attractive women, and only during a brief couple decades of their life.

If you want to know what life is like as another gender, you have to learn to ignore the loudest, flashiest, and most obvious individuals, and dig into what the average person's experience is like. That means ignoring the privileged old money white guys, ignoring the fake lives of instagram models, and capture a slice of life of how regular people experience the world. See the loneliness and desperation and depressingly huge suicide rate of men. See the fear and body shaming and lack of bodily autonomy of women. Notice how the opinions and feelings and thoughts of each gender are devalued and dismissed in different circumstances. See how the forces that shape our ideology and behavior from early childhood color our lives.

And regarding transitioning. If you think it will make anything in your life easier, you are woefully, horrifically mistaken. Transitioning is a hard road, and you'll face immense pushback, and you'll take on ~80% of the disadvantages but only get ~10% of the advantages you see from the other gender. It's arguably easier with F-M, because you become essentially invisible. With F-M you're obvious, and will face a huge amount of persecution. Going through gender transition because you envy the advantages of another gender is a terrible reason.

[BadApple69]

I’m sorry to say I totally disagree.
Go to a big city…. Walk the streets and pay attention to the women you pass. 10% of the girls (and that number might be high) are cute AND sexy enough to get some of the benefits you are talking about. Sure, stores cater to women name for us guys that’s great. I like my woman dressing nice for me. I like it when she uses a little makeup. That makes her more attractive for ME. Sure a girl can go into a bar and find a guy in 2 minutes to have sex with but is that what life is about? Most girls don’t do that because (although they like sex) they want love, security from a guy they can trust. Not a 2 minute hookup.


Let’s talk about downsides:
Periods… you bleed for a week with cramps (that sounds like fun)
Child birth… I have been in the room to see this… NO THANK YOU!
Birth control… most men put this task on the woman to handle.
Friends…. Men make and keep better friends then women do. I have dated a few women who’s “ best friends” tried to steel me the first chance they got. Men have much more loyal friends. Not that men can’t be snakes in the grass they can but women seem worse.


If your goal is to convince yourself to be a trans just do it. But know that most of what you said is non-sense.
Being a guy is amazing. Being a girl is amazing too for other reasons.

[Anonymous]

Goddamn people can't formulate a coherent argument these days! So basically, you're looking at your pathetic dating life and comparing it to Chad Thundercock and you're saying, "Oh poor me! I can get a date! I sucks being a MAN! It must be so much fun being a GIRL!" And yet somehow you're completely oblivious to the fact that you're using your sad, pathetic self as the archetype for what constitutes a man and the smoking hot girls in your post are supposed to be the average woman (they certainly are not). Why on earth go through all the trouble of saying "I know! I'll be a HOT GIRL instead!" when it's FAR less completely unrealistic for you to be a less pathetic MAN? You know--seeing as how you ARE a man after all and we ALL know that not only is a trans woman really a man, they don't even rise to the level of "ugly woman."

If you spent half your energy working on being less emotionally incontinent and then actually put in some WORK to become a decent MAN you might find yourself capable of attracting a woman. Give it a shot. You have nothing to lose but your loserdom!

[ArabianHorseJack]

Id say guys have it easier in a way, hear me out. Girls struggle more with body image because society has this ideal body they should have when in general, it’s dumb because people are different. We also have a period that comes every month that makes some of us act like bitches. Also abortion is becoming illegal slowly so that makes us more prone to getting raped. for instance if you had your period and you were raped at the age of 12, you could die from giving birth without abortion. I’m not the type of person who only says things that are bad with our society and bodies but i take men into consideration too. Sure y’all have a bad emotional society. You can’t show sadness because it apparently considered weak, y’all are blamed more for nasty things done to girls, y’all get used for money, and so on. Now if a lot of parents raised their sons right then i probably wouldn’t be typing this but i am and it’s a world we live in. i can understand how guys think girls have it easier and fun but in reality a lot of us think it’s a living hell. Some guys would’ve rather been born a girl and some girls would’ve rather been born a boy but if that was switched then you would want to be the other gender. No one is going to love what they are but if all of us stop with the who has it better/easier and actually thought that all of us have it somewhat hard then think of how better the world would be.

[BarryLiverstone]

This makes a lot of sense. Sounds like as a girl there are lots of things that you would worry about? That guys don’t even realize

[Christsdisciple15]

A lot of this only applies to conventionally attractive women and can also apply to conventionally attractive men; Not really a privilege of womanhood

I just noticed a lot of men seem to consider the perspective of women they are attracted to as a default which kinda adds up since these same men treat women who they consider ugly as invisible and unworthy of human decency

[monorprise]

Very true, we simply are not dealing well with bias information given to us by modern tecnoligy.

We think the super rich and beautiful are more common because that all we see but they are very uncommon and unobtainable by most.

[Chthou95]

Nah any woman can get attention. The intenert has made it a lot easier and now all kinds of 9women can find groups of men who want them. Men unless you're really attractive dont get this kind of treatment. Men and women are not the same

[Christsdisciple15]

@Chthou95 how do you know that all kinds of men can’t find groups of women who want them

[Chthou95]

Because women dont notice most men.

[myTake Owner]

I find 50% of girls attractive , so 50% of girls have most of these fun benefits.

[Christsdisciple15]

@Chthou95 and I could say the same thing

[Chthou95]

Men notice most women. We're visual but not in the way women think

[Christsdisciple15]

@Chthou95 incorrect

[Chthou95]

That's fine. You can disagree all you want but men and women aren't the same. We're different in a lot of ways. Getting attention and getting men attracted is very easy for women

[davado88]

jesus made fugly chicks fugly didn't he? isn't it unchristian to critisize the great psychopath in the sky, godbotherer? careful -- jesus loves sending non- sychophants to hell

[AaronKrieger]

Dude, you just want to be a woman, since you want life to be easier, but that's not how life works. Your life will ironically be harder if its easier, since people need obstacles and discomfort to appreciate the comfort in the first place. People without that become depressed.

Also, women's lives are not easier and it's arrogant as hell to assume the other sex has it easier at least in the U. S. There's a lot of pros/cons for both and everyone experiences life differently in regards to hardship.

[MustangGirl01]

Well there’s a couple reasons I would say that being a girl isn’t as fun. . .

Girls have the reputation for being emotional and moody. And that is due to their female hormonal changes that occur every month. Guys don’t have to deal with that.

Also - we have to take harassment. We go walking through the grocery store, on the sidewalk downtown, through the mall, or anywhere really, and we have men catcalling us. They say all sorts of weird things. And they follow us. Now I understand that sometimes girls will do that to guys. But in the first way, with guys usually being stronger and more known for being bigger and more powerful, it literally frightens us so much. Like having these guys do this will legitimately sometimes make us fear for our lives and our freedom. . .

Please tell me, do you quite often fear for your life, simply because you had to go grocery shopping for your family?

[myTake Owner]

Can you pack some weapon for self defense?

[UnicornLobotomy]

Bro did you really just humor the idea of becoming a girl? First of all, biology. Second a girl is under 18, so I hope the word you were looking for was “woman”. But after reading the proceeding sentences that led me to read that ridiculous statement leads me to believe you were serious which abhorrent, mentally ill in a self-injurious and potentially injurious to children. Yeah, you’re too old, but more importantly you are male.

Yeah being a man is tougher. More is asked of us by society. Harsher penalties both on the books and off the books are sure to hit us if we are out of line unless we are billionaires. Man up princess.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

You use all these justifications to demean women 'cause you can't rise to what you believe are society's standards of men. There are ALL kinds of men who are just fine and are NOT perfect, so you need to just BE OKAY with WHO YOU ARE without making this about how girls get to be less. It's not true. I'm a woman and life has NOT been easy one damn day for me, so get a grip and stop making us to be airheads who have no responsibilities. That's so insulting.

[myTake Owner]

That's not the point here.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

All I'm saying is that when you're on the outside looking in, things can seem rosy for the other gender but that isn't always the case. Women have it hard in ways guys will never know. Women are disrespected. Women are paid less. Women have children and usually have 100% responsibility to care for those care, aging parents, and their man. They also have to clean, cook, make money and LOOK AMAZING as if they're superhuman while they're at it.

They're judged by their looks, viewed as a sex toy, a potential assault victim on the extreme end of it. Even at a very young age, men will LIE to them to get sex and break their hearts. People don't take their word seriously no matter WHAT their accomplishments. But I say all of this because I want you to HEAR from REAL WOMAN what life is like rather than guessing or having an uninformed opinion. Be well and happy :)

[SexyBrunetteNY]

Sorry for the typo/error, lol.

[jeffend888]

Put it to you this way.

If you are planning on being a single man, the older you get, life gets exponentially worse every year.

On the other hand, if you create a nuclear family, being a man is not so bad. In fact it's quite beneficial. You'll move up at work, you'll receive a lot of respect from those around you, there will be an ample amount of things to do and you won't be squeezed out of groups of friends and extended family members. People won't view you as a weirdo, loser or a pedophile and you won't have to defend your sexual orientation either.

[ConfusedGirlie1234]

You have made a lot of valide points, but everythig has it's other side.

Growing up, I always had more male than female friends, aand for that I was always ridiculled and labeled a pick me girl. And when i tried being more "girly", I ended up being bullied real bad.

Then, I took up boxing to be able to defend myself, and I am constantly being told that my worth is much lesser than those of my male colegues, and my male colegues often think they're better than me, just because they're guys.

I have had both girls and guys comment rudely on size of my breasts, on my clothing choices, on my looks.

Men stare at me in public transport, girls gossip about me and it's really out of context and awful, so, yeah, being a girl is no picnic either.

I think society in general pushes the idea that being a woman is a party. It is not. But neither is being a man.

[MJtheCoach]

yah but theirs dont last forever either. Since most guys have become so weak they can't stop k1ssing women's a22es!

Dating is so crappy in the west I lived all over U. S and most places in Canda I was lucky if I went on a date once a year. And im not some SIMP L0zer!

Until I went to Asia. I was dating a new 7''s every week. Sometimes a girl on Friday and a new girl on Saturday. Now since these l0zer passports bros have gone to S. ASia they've caused the same issues there.

Girls in S. Asia have all now become entitled.

This is what weak men DO!

But remember girl's entitlement expires after 30 and they becomes miserable!! Look at all these blue F-at misandry feminist.

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[DubiousIntentions]

Oh yeah, those periods every month are a gas. And childbirth? I can imagine not much can be more fun than that. Not knowing if men want to date you for a good get-to-know-you time, or just sex brings lots of belly laughs. Being raped or sold by sex traffickers, or killed by jealous ex boyfriends is so much fun. You should try it some time.

[myTake Owner]

Menstruation - no comment

Childbirth - Tubal ligation and done

Sex diggers - It's easier to tell them apart with having a male brain or just being aware and piecing together behavioral patterns of males

Rape and sex traffickers and jealous ex boyfriends - Bring a deadly weapon

Yah, seriously.

[Anonymous]

Hey being a woman is no fun. If you're not thin enough or smart enough guys don't tend to come to you easily. I'm chubby but athletic and I'm pretty but cut and average and as for my IQ I don't have academy skills but can make cool drawings. I'm not 22 but I am 32... what guy is gonna want that? It's definitely not ideal.

We may get guys eventually in our lives but it's with the guys that couldn't settle down with there ideal woman and we don't get that true love or respect out of those guys 😜.

[Curmudgeon]

From zero to 30, it is definitely easier and more fun to be a girl/woman than a boy/man.

But from 30 forward, this shifts and reverses. And by middle age it is definitely reversed. (Not sure what happens when both are elderly, I will find out I suppose)

You are 25-29? Just hang on a few years more.

[lightninghunter]

I'll just say, 'Hard times create strong men!' Living is not about pleasure seeking, it's time we sacrificed our so called pleasures (short term happiness) for the long term pleasure of our own, our family, our people and our species as a whole. Life is more than dressing up, men are there to provide and protect not fancy dress and do bunny cosplays.

Also, it's not just less clothes that we have, bro. Suits >>>>>> whatever you can think of.

We don't need clevage to be hot. We can have as huge biceps and muscles as we want, women can't have that pleasure. If you have even decent biceps as a woman you'll be termed to be overly masculine. They have their problems too ig.

[Adaeva]

It is nice being a girl. However, compared to men, we have a very short utility Depending on the society from 13 to 25, and in the USA, 18 to 27. Ten years for us and twenty -five years for men After that, we are Christmas cake. Even if not, our value at 25 to 17 is half what it was at 18 to 20. After 30, stick a fork in us because we are done with little or no value except to desperate men we would not even give the time of day to ten years earlier when our value was five times as much.

[Anonymous]

there's no such thing as transgender. Its just bs invented by gaylords to confuse morons into accepting sodomite as normal.
im happy being a man which is lucky since we dont have a choice. We are what we are and you sound likea gaylord. Not that that affects my life but when i was a kid sodomites were imprisoned for their perversion but no we hold parades to celebrate it as if perversion is an achievement. It isn't. Just another sign we are nearing the end of the world, unfortunately.
prophecised as good becomes evil and evil becomes geood... from memory.
by the way im no christian however the bible is true and jesus is going to burn the f out of sodomites whether they call themselves trans or are proud or not

[bingbongbangbung]

and sexual orientation as understood in the modern sense was invented by Western colonialists to spread their Christian supremacy on pagan cultures that they colonized

[bingbongbangbung]

so you reject Christianity but then accept it... are you schizophrenic by any chance?

[Opinion Owner]

@bingbongbangbung i know the bible is prophetic because a number of things in it came to pass.
I then inferred the whole thing true including that jesus is god,
On the other hand i have no interest in being christian because jesus is a sadistic psychopath who i wouldn't piss on if he was on fya.
Is that understood, sir? clearer

[Opinion Owner]

@bingbongbangbung or let me put it another way.
my milkshakes bring all the girls to my yard.
theyre like that... yar.
i could teach ya but id have to charge.
my milkshakes
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