Do most women have unrealistic standards when it comes to male attractiveness online?

[Anonymous]

Like I’m a pretty attractive guy. I get girls interested in me all the time in person. Like I could model if I wanted. But recently I did poll online for women because I was thinking of making an online dating profile because I’m quite shy in person. And don’t approach the girls that like me in person because I don’t know them. And I got a lot of women who thought I was somewhat attractive (lowest scale on the attractive side) and some who don’t think I am at all. Really brought me down. I’m thinking of not making a dating profile anymore…

[inhua]

actions speak louder than words

women are notorious for virtual signaling about their wants and desires while doing the complete opposite. it's really one giant shit-test for them to weed out the gullible men from the gene pool

"oh just be nice, just be confidence, you don't need abs, you don't need money" etc.

nah fuck that shit. it is meant to misled men and find any excuse to reject as many as possible

in your case, getting your results online whilst making it known it's you creating the profile will invite a lot of virtue signaling from women who just want to bring your self-esteem down in that moment or lie to spare your feelings

your best bet is to find some other reliable friend to make your profile for you, have him ask a bunch of random women, have him deny knowing you personally i. e. "this is just a random dude" and then you will get their true opinions

[Anonymous]

Most women confuse their perceived value with their actual value. Thus in turn they also misconstrue the level of the man they can attract for sex, with the level of the man they can attract for commitment. The lies we tell ourselves and each other build our own false realites, and in order to avoid the raw truth, we paint more roses upon or own iris which leads to us being unable to see anything true.

[Anonymous]

Most women have unrealistic standards to men in general. But yes, it's magnified online because women are creatures of thier senses and feelings. They're taking it all in when they meet a guy and JUDGING him on EVERYTHING. This gets narrowed online.

This is why I'll tell any guy who will listen you pics are PARAMOUNT on a dating app. You don't have to be the best looking guy (though that'll clearly help) but your pics has to be the most interesting.

[Asker]

Nah, forget that. I’m not there to entertain people. I’m not going all out for a girl who didn’t even knew I existed. I don’t think online dating is for me then

[Opinion Owner]

Who said go all out for a woman that never knew you existed. I always say to guys "Never show a woman any more energy than she'd show you".