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The situation summed up:

- We're both 21
- We were close during highschool
- We currently don't live in the same country
- We started texting more and more these past few months
- We text about our personal lives late at night
- We send each other new articles or memes on social media
- We tease each other often
- She sometimes doesn't answer my texts within 24h
- She strikes up a conversation when she's on a train or a bus
- She talks about her failing relationship
- She mentioned she's scared she won't find anyone to settle down with (she's kinda insecure)
- She said I should invite her to my wedding when that day comes
- She mentioned how mature I've become over the past years
- She knows I liked her during highschool
- She said I should've told her back then, because "who knows if it could have led to something"
- She said she 'likes' frat boys (I'm not a frat boy by the way)
- She said she misses our highschool friends and life

I'm pretty sure she doesn't know I still like her, but she's sending me so many mixed signals I don't know what to think of the situation anymore. Is she into me or am I in the friendzone? Thanks in advance for your honest opinions!

Like seriously, number one rule on a first date... DO NOT, talk about your past relationships. You are not there to rehash your past, it about trying to make a connection with the other person and building a possible future.

Like seriously, this woman would not get off your past relationship, every time I tried to make conversation go a different way it came back to her and previous heartbreaks.

She starts straight up crying, she is like I am so sorry, it not you, it's me. She excuses herself to go to the bathroom. She comes back and she is like,

"I am so sorry it is not you. Actually, you are being so nice and sweet, and you are very good looking, it's just that..."

"I interrupt her, it's that you are not ready to be dating yet period, right?"

she's says, "I am so sorry, but yes. I just had no idea, until right now."

I said, "Yeah, I get it. You're like the fourth woman I met online, that comes online and thinks they are not going to meet a real person and when they do, they freak out because they are not ready yet."

She says, " Yeah, you are right, but it's not you. I am so sorry; you are so nice and handsome..."

Again, I just say, "just stop, you do not think I do not know I am a nice person? You do not think I know that I am a nice-looking man? Like I have heard that shit my whole life, and I do not need to hear it from you. Obviously, it's not enough for you, so basically after weeks of talking and you assured me you were ready, you basically wasted my time today."

I walked her to the car and wished her well in life.

How many of you have had something like this happen to you?

A competition made for you to filter out and find YOUR husband. What are the events and challenges are in the competition?

After watching the competition, you select the winner based upon your criteria. After a brief courting time up to 12 months, you are married or go into therapy to fix the relationship. Can only bail out if there was fraud. Avoids all the dating messes and ensures "commitment", you are married and that's your husband... no more complexity and dating confusion. Yes, you get to talk to each contestant along the way.

Contestants are chosen by your friends, family, expert judges, an AI match dating program and past contestants. All contestants are vetted for criminal records and meet basic criteria for career, finances, ethics, values, pet allergies, etc.. Basic stressors and compatibility.

What competitions and events would you want to see?

The cost for this service is $5000 to you and $1000 to each contestant. Contestants not chosen can compete up to 10 times to impress other mates, improving their chances of being chosen as a mate. Men can opt out if they are not interested in that woman. Men have control too.

This isn't much different from what people in India do... family selects options, you pick whom you want and figure it out. Not much different than nature, you just get more information and more commitment and cut the BS and wasting time.

Examples:

* Phone communication with women under stress

* Making dinner

* Critical thinking and decision making

* Moving heavy objects

* Hair grooming contest

* Hot dog eating...

* ETC...

Note the only winner... is the one you chose! Just because someone is stronger, doesn't mean he wins, or smarter.