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How do I get over my past and family?

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here's my story: (sorry for bad English as it isn't my first language)

i was born under toxic parents. my mom, who never had her own life till now and was obssessively dependent on my dad.

as for my dad, he spents his entire life on cheating with women and hating his wife and children. he even had an illegitimate child with one of women he cheated with.

they divorced when i was 28.

i was bullied ever since i was 8 throughout high school because of my personality and mental disorder. currently i understand why those bullied hated me so much.

during that my parents payed no attention to my life, instead they blamed and gaslighted me for everything.

i am going through 5yrs of theraphy and feeling so much better! i am finally able to have small talk with people, also i am married to my husband 3yrs ago.

now my current problem is:

1. how do i separate my mom? i persuaded her many times that we should get our own life and that she doesn't have a right to control me whatsoever. she go berserk and said "how ungrateful and spoiled rotten girl you're!! i have done everything for you and is this what i get!! you fucking bitch!! look at your brother! how sweet and thoughtful he is!!"

2. how to overcome fears working? yes, i had bad reviews from both fellow employees and employers from previous job.

How do I get over my past and family?
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