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I have been in the hospital for 2wk with pregnancy complications. I ended up having an emergency C-section. In that time my husband was supposed to get the flat ready for when I came home with the baby. Put the cot up get babies things out tidy up & paint the bedroom. I came home to discover that he had done absolutely nothing at all. Had me do everything days after having surgery. Husband won’t do anything to help me with the baby, refuses to help in the flat. Calls me lazy makes me feel like I’m worthless, this is all while he sits there on GTA V all day long as high as a kite, while commenting how hard his life is how exhausted he is sat there doing nothing all day long. We’ve been together for 14yrs married for 13yrs this is our first baby together. My question is, should I leave him & make a good life for me & the baby? I’ve had enough now, I don’t deserve this all I’ve ever done is love that man give him everything he ever wanted in life but all he does is make me feel unloved not wanted & like I’m dirt on his shoe. My marriage now depends on what you say, because sometimes I think I’m overreacting to the situation so I’m asking for your honest opinion no hate please just be honest thank you ❤️❤️

Let's call my ex boyfriend for LUKE

Yesterday me and my best friend were texting about work and she suddenly texten this👇, but I tried to play it cool=

She= By the way, would it be okay if I come in contacted with Luke again? I don't want to do it behind your back, that's why I'm asking☺️

Me= As friends or a date?

She= Friends

Me= I was going to say that no matter what, you don't need my permission for that. Sure it's uncomfortable, to be honest, but I would never stop someone from being friends or anything with someone.

She= No, I know that! But I still wanted to ask you because I didn't want to go behind your back, you're still my best friend❤️

Me= That's my honest answer. Well thought out, that's my honest answer anyway.

She= And if you had said no, I wouldn't have contacted him

Me= Cute, but it's okay

She= Okay, good to know❤️
Me= yes

Story = so in 2023 me and this guy Luke dated from May- August, but broke up because he says he had issues with his family and work and is so stressed and can't jungle everything rn or give me the kind of man I want rn. So I thought that I should not be a burden and just accept his excuse and break up. During the first week we were dating , I had asked my friends if they knew him. my best friend sayd she knows him and that they had a small crush on each other when they were teenagers and he had kissed her on the cheek and run. I felt uncomfortable and even tho I had began to like Luke a lot, I was ready to end it, but then my best friend sayd that I don't need to end it because they don't have feelings for each other and that I should not let it come between me and love. So I trusted her words, but still felt uncomfortable and wanted to hear Luke's side of the story too if he likes her or if they were together of something long ago. He sayd no and a assured me that it was just a small crush back then and he doesn't feel anything for her. So I trusted him and felt less ucomfortable.

God I was blind...