Why do I always get paired up or hooked up birth big or chubby guys?

[Anonymous]

Every time my friend try to introduce me to guys they’re mostly chubby or fat. Some of them are cute. I never had a good look or a guy I like ask me. Accept for a friend of mine (also chunky and tall. Never understood why he preferred my tall fat ass over the thin, fit hot girls). He always followed me around in elementary school and asked me about a lot but I said no. Anyways, my friend showed me a photo of the guy that wants to meet me and I was disappointed. He was a fat. He’s a fat guy. I told her I don’t know but my friends to just give him a chance and he finds me so attractive and beautiful. He thinks my 250lbs, 5’9 ass is attractive? Just bed I’m a chubby woman I only should date fat, chubby men? My ex boyfriend was chubby and 5’4. He was a jerk.

I pulled her to the side and asked her why are her and other hooking me up with only fat or chubby men? Who does she think I am? She bluntly said, “A ungrateful shallow woman to her friends that were trying to hook you up with a sweet guy? Don’t you want a nice boyfriend for ONCE? Besides it’s best if you stick with your own league. I’ll be honest good looking, or fit, lean guys aren’t going to want to date a woman that doesn’t care about her health or no offense, overweight. Some like them, but most prefer a healthy women. You need to stop watching those movies and fantasizing about them. The 6’4 hunk with a gorgeous 5’5 woman. They’re not real. We’re trying to do a nice thing for you. Honestly you should have given your guy friend a chance back in high school. It sound like he was in love with you. I wanna treat you like a queen and you guys could’ve been married by now. Anyways, just give this guy a chance. He treats women with respect, and he would you like a queen, no matter what side. Just stick with your own league and stop being shallow.”
Why do I have to only stick with overweight guys just because I’m overweight?

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10 mo

It’s stupid because my friends are slim or fit. They’re 4’10, 5’1 and 5’5 and they all have cute or good looking boyfriends. Why can’t I have that. I’m jealous of my slim, fit 5’5 friend. She is stunning and gorgeous and men hit on her. She has an amazing boyfriend that’s 6’6. Why can’t I have that?

[ohsheeT]

Because it's a lesson it's trying to teach you stop just be happy have a good time. Relax make somebody's day. And when you can do that that's when You will find the person you're looking for enjoy the experience. Ok so this keeps happening because in your mind you can't stop thinking about it or talking about it.

So this is what you will always get.

So the lesson is many. But your first one should be. Have fun do not judge. As a matter of fact. Every date you go on you should be treating the guy as if he Is the guy you're looking for the perfect date and be happy. When you talk to you girlfriend about it be positive , do not say negative things. When she ask tell her It was perfect. It was the best time it was this. It was that everything that perfect guy would be. And that's when it will happen for you. That's when you will get what you are looking for but when you're negative, you're negative bottom line. What comes out of your mouth happens in life? No matter what it is, no matter what you say in life it's going to happen, change it up.

Be the best you can be because I guarantee you. That guy you just did is talking to the same girl about you. And how the date went

[RHK36]

That size isn't chubby, it's obese. Honestly your personality and delusion that you deserve better is crazy. If your personality comes across as this already then other guys will sense it as well. Lose weight and change your mindset will probably lead to better results.

[Asker]

I’m trying to lose weight but my fat ass can’t get it off

[Cormac995]

Right? She could be an 11 and I wouldn't date her with a personality like this.

[Cormac995]

You're welcome for the desperately needed reality check by the way.

[Anonymous]

If they're not trying to pair you up with someone you're attracted to, I'd try to do it on my own. Make a profile on Tinder, another dating app or try to find someone in RL. There are fit guys who do like bigger women too, you just need to find them. I've dated women of different sizes as a fit guy.

[Staximus]

You're 5'9" and 250. You're fat. Chubby and fat guys are in your league. If you want some guy with a perfect body, you have unrealistic expectations. If you don't want chubby or fat guys, lose weight.

[Asker]

It’s stupid because my friends are slim or fit. They’re 4’10, 5’1 and 5’5 and they all have cute or good looking boyfriends. Why can’t I have that. I’m jealous of my slim, fit 5’5 friend. She is stunning and gorgeous and men hit on her. She has an amazing boyfriend that’s 6’6. Why can’t I have that?

[Staximus]

You can have a guy who is 6'6" but don't expect him to have a perfect body

[Asker]

What’s that supposed to mean?

[Staximus]

It means exactly what I said genius

[Staximus]

You're not slim or fit, don't expect a slim or fit guy

[Asker]

We’ll my friends can’t talk because those bitches have good looking or fit men because their asses is slim or fit. I have a cousin that’s a fit girl and her husband is a big bit fit guy.

[genericname85]

cause the majority on there is that. it's the same vice versa. most people just are unattractive. as a guy on dating sites, you always get matched with obese single moms way older than you. never with women you might actually wanna date.

[Cormac995]

Is a fat woman, complains only fat guys will date her. Can someone explain the math to her?

[Asker]

They’re being unfair to be. They’re boyfriends are cute/good looking and they hook me up with fat guys or overweight men. Just because those girls are slim and good looking and hey get the good looking men and they introduce me to fat men?

[Cormac995]

They're introducing you to people that are on your level and interested. If you want the attention of men that look good you need to look good so lose the weight or stop bitching, you're lucky they're trying to set you up at all. That's more than anyone has ever done for me so stop being shallow and excersise.

[Asker]

They have good looking boyfriends!!! Just because they’re slim or fit.

[Cormac995]

Yes because good looking guys don't date fat chicks. Stop blaming others for problems your brought on yourself. They aren't bringing you fat guys to be rude they're only bringing you fat guys because that's all your good enough for and they can't find anyone who isn't fat to date you. Stop being an ungrateful bitch. You're being a crappy ungrateful friend. Odds are they've shown your picture to every guy they know is available and all the good-looking ones saw a pick of you and said nope.

[Asker]

We’ll I’m NOT dating fat guys! Why are you being so mean to be? I can’t believe my bestie said I’m an ungrateful shallow brat to her bestie that tried to hook me up with a kind guy. Bitch didn’t have to roast me like that. She told me, “That’s the last time we EVER do anything kind for you! At least there’s a guy that actually finds you beautiful but you’re too fucking blind to see the inside. It makes sense that you stick with your own league. Most fit or good looking guys aren’t going to want to date a fat girl, especially the one that’s being obnoxious and ugly! I’m telling the guy forget you and I’ll tell him everything. There’s a sweet, kind and generous man that wants to fucking meet you but you go screwing it up! I hope you’re happy! She pushed me to the side and walked off. Bitch! She shouldn’t be talking! She has a good looking boyfriend!

[Cormac995]

1 Ok don't date fat guys and get a cat you hypocritical, spoiled ungrateful bitchy brat I swear to god your friends must have the patience of saints the only reason anyone would keep someone as miserable as you is pure pity. I don't want to hear shit about me being mean with all the shit you've typed in this post get out of here with your projective narcissism.

2. You don't deserve a good-looking guy you can't deserve a person and that shows your entitlement. People can deserve love though you clearly don't, but you can't deserve a person.

3. It's only roasting if they're doing it to be mean your friend wasn't mean she made a factual comment, and your fat ass can't take it.

4. I wouldn't even matter if you did deserve a boyfriend your inferior on a biological level. Men want a healthy, fertile woman it's basic biology just like woman want a man who provides and is strong and protective. If you want to be sexually appealing lose weight if you don't then fucking suck it up and accept your going to die alone with your ridiculous expectations for the low quality of woman you are. Between your weight and personality, I'd call you 2 being incredibly generous because of your personality ones are the elephant man but your personality is so repugnant I'd sooner fuck him and I'm straight. You are ugly on a factual level suck it up and change that if you don't like it and stop blaming others because you don't have the self-control to stop stuffing your face.

When you're dying in the hospital bed at 40 just remember you brought every bit of this misery on yourself and if you can't accept that then your going to be single forever. Get exercise, stop eating so much and go to therapy.

[Asker]

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[Cormac995]

Then lose the weight so that doesn't happen.

[Anonymous]

You think that's bad. Stop being selfish for a second and put yourself in those guys shoes. How do you think they feel being paired up with you? Don't you think that a bit of a blow to thier ego as well?

[Asker]

Watch your mouth! I can prefer fit guys if I want too!

[Opinion Owner]

Prefer? Yes. Whine because they don't want you? No.

[zagor]

You weigh 250 lbs and you wonder why you get fixed up with fat guys...

[Asker]

I shouldn’t have too. It’s not fair that they only pair me up with fat boys. I want a cute boy for once

[qwerty2469]

Nobodynis going to read all of that. It's probably because younare fat. Misery loves company and your friends are being realistic

[Asker]

We’ll I think they’re being shallow for only pairing me up with fat guys when they have hot boyfriends

[qwerty2469]

Lose some weight and get a better personality and they will hook you up with higher value men.

[Josef_89]

It means that you get their attention

[Asker]

My friend’s attention? They always get the cute guys