Should I leave my husband?

[Anonymous]

I have been in the hospital for 2wk with pregnancy complications. I ended up having an emergency C-section. In that time my husband was supposed to get the flat ready for when I came home with the baby. Put the cot up get babies things out tidy up & paint the bedroom. I came home to discover that he had done absolutely nothing at all. Had me do everything days after having surgery. Husband won’t do anything to help me with the baby, refuses to help in the flat. Calls me lazy makes me feel like I’m worthless, this is all while he sits there on GTA V all day long as high as a kite, while commenting how hard his life is how exhausted he is sat there doing nothing all day long. We’ve been together for 14yrs married for 13yrs this is our first baby together. My question is, should I leave him & make a good life for me & the baby? I’ve had enough now, I don’t deserve this all I’ve ever done is love that man give him everything he ever wanted in life but all he does is make me feel unloved not wanted & like I’m dirt on his shoe. My marriage now depends on what you say, because sometimes I think I’m overreacting to the situation so I’m asking for your honest opinion no hate please just be honest thank you ❤️❤️

Leave right now, don’t look back build yourself the life you deserve

Give him another chance even though he’s had more than enough chances

[Anonymous]

lol so in 14 years you never noticed all of this? People don’t just turn into something overnight. I’m sorry somewhat to hear how he’s been acting, but at the same time I’m not because you knew this for 14 years but you still chose to get pregnant by him. So you’re somewhat at fault as well for picking a man like this.

[OneViewpoint]

This is one hell of a time to start asking this question. You've had 14 years to see who he is? And yet you allowed him to impregnate you. I'm gonna make a wild bet that he did not turn into a pot smoking gamer while you were in the hospital for 2 weeks. Now you're connected to this human tree stump for life. He's the father of your child.

Heal up. Get through post partum. Then make a rational choice for you and the baby.

[Nikki1989]

First, I am so sorry for everything you are going through. What you are experiencing is not normal, and you are absolutely not overreacting. It is not only unacceptable but also dangerous for you and your newborn child that your husband is refusing to assist, being emotionally abusive, and ignoring his responsibilities while you are recovering.

[Anonymous]

Not yet but in the future yes. You need to prepare the ground. Gather up money secretly. Try and make sure any leases are in your name while any debt is in his. When you are ready get a restraining order taken out against him for DM.

[Anonymous]

He's a loser with no character. People like that don't change. Having said that, I would suggest that before you leave him you have a talk with him and set some very clear expectations, and give him a chance to live up to them. I doubt he will, but I think you owe him the opportunity to be a better husband and father.

[Anonymous]

Yeah shouldn’t have married or had a baby with a loser like that to begin with. You knew he’s like this so I don’t know why you expected anything else.

[JesseP1nk]

I would suggest to think it through. NEVER make big decisions when you are emotional.

I think you should go to marriage counseling so both of you can tell what you guys want and expect from other person.

[Anonymous]

Why did you get pregnant? You are stuck with him in some form for 18 years.

[Ariesman81]

Nah... you fucked now

[Anonymous]

Has he always been a loser?