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There's this girl who works in another department at the building I'm at. I see her most days, and we were aquatinted before I moved to that building since we share work.
Anyway, a few weeks ago, she, me and a few others were shooting the shit. She asked how old I was and if I was single and we shared some dating stories amongst the group. Me more than others, and she made a comment I'm way to nice to women.
She says hi everytime we see each other and we talk some days. She's told me she is single and she recently got out of a 5 year relationship, and she explained why they broke up.
Today, she was giving me a hard time cause I failed at scaring her when I came in, and then us and another co-worker were talking about houses and condos and stuff, and I brought up I was looking to buy a house, but when I talked about costs, I said I need a roommate. The guy said a roommate would be nice, and the girl said or a girlfriend!!!
We talked about some other shit, and at the end she said I reminded her of her ex. A really nice person, but kinda boring and unexciting, just like him. Also like him, I didn't drink, but he did after they started dating.
She made the comment that I need to be more exciting, like open the door for a gal and slap her ass as she walks through. I said I've done that with my ex's.

That's pretty much where it ended.

As far as I've been aware, I've always been straight. Even if a guy looks totally like a woman, the fact that he's a guy and has a penis turns me off completely.

In the case of trans women, I'm only fine with it if they actually look like women, and have a vagina. I'm usually still more comfortable with a biological woman though.

However, yesterday one of my male friends wore some quite short shorts, and I felt pretty conflicted.

They were about mid-thigh in length, and got even shorter when sitting.

The reason I was distracted, he had some quite girly legs. They were 100% smooth, hairless. Literally perfect looking. Just really nice, pale legs.

I asked him if all of his shorts are this length, and he said "yup", so looks like I gotta get used to it.

I couldn't help but glance at his legs from time to time. I did it enough he even noticed and made a joke about it. "I got nice legs, but my eyes are up here buddy", he told me. Embarrassing. And his girlfriend even jumped in to say, "Only I get to stare at his legs!" Even more embarrassing.

And like... I'm not exactly too attracted to his upper body, but his legs just look so perfect and feminine. So I don't know.