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These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women
. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind, this could be worth a read:

1. Long (fake) nails
2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Big earrings
5. Provocative clothing
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content)
7. Questionable.. questions (e. g. "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using sex as a proxy for feeling loved and adored
11. S. I. G. N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Need to be right)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e. g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" )
14. Materialistic
15. Their actions don't follow their words
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things
20. Habit of lying as it could escalate over time
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'
23. Shit Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.”
24. Ultimatums
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure (s).*The issue is many don't seek professional help and/or properly work on themselves so they carry that mental/emotional baggage into their relationships.
27. They're often passive aggressive

Successful pairings, is something that I've thought about for many years, and I'm very analytical.

Just to be clear, I am talking about adults dating adults, sibling order, and tendencies from childhood that follow us into adulthood.

As a youngest child, I've felt least connected to Eldest children, as it seems they are the more pushy, more opinionated, despite that I was older by 10 plus years.
Better connected to middle children, with no explanation why.
And most connected to youngest children. Youngests seem, to me, to be more patient, more open minded, and the most willing to listen, by and large.
I've never dated an only child before.
There's one exception to that rule, and she was an utterly spoiled, youngest, brat. She had to be the center of attention. Everything had to be about her, and she was the most needy woman I've ever dated.

My current lady love, who is making pull out my hair in clumps, is an eldest, and I'm thinking history is repeating itself. And yet I'm so incredibly in love with her. It just seems, as an eldest, she is used to calling the shots and telling others what to do. Despite that I'm older than her.

Anyway, please think twice about it before answering the poll. Give the question fair consideration.