Why do some guys like fat women?

[Anonymous]

I know this question has been asked thousands of times. I've read a lot of them. But I just don't get it. I can't fathom it. Maybe the energy of the answers doesn't equate with the answers I see about why some men like thin or fit women.

Tbh, what I've seen of the men that do like fat women, they aren't that great looking. They appear like awkward dorks who don't dress well etc. Like they look under socialized or lack self awareness etc, so it's kinda no wonder men like that like fat women cuz it's all they can get.

I know I sound really mean n terrible by asking this.

But is it a control thing? Like fat women are easy cuz they're lonely? Or easily manipulated cuz they're desperate? Is it cuz they can't walk far, let alone run away? Do they like the body funk that comes standard with fat rolls? Like, EW. 😕

I mean, really? I just flat out don't think I'll ever really understand it.

[notwoke]

because these men have self esteem issues and can't handle the pressure of having a woman or even approaching a woman who is desirable to other men. they need to get a woman that they feel is not at risk of fleeing to another man. Unfortunately what they do not understand is that often these overweight women are dealing with self esteem issues also and want to be validated by having other men chase them. And men will go with a total wart hog if they think if means easy sex. It's a really fucked up dynamic

[Asker]

That's what I'm saying. The men who like fat women seem like total dorks who can't get anything else so that's what they go for. Like how many 5 figure or even 6 figure earning men in business suits do you see going around with a fat sloppy woman? I sure haven't seen any.

[notwoke]

there are some. Ugly smart nerds with good jobs but still no confidence

[Asker]

Is that what it is? The guys are lacking confidence so they go for fat women cuz they're less likely to reject cuz they're lacking confidence too? Codependence n insecurity is why?

[notwoke]

absolutely

[Asker]

Is that why when you ask em directly that they can't seem to give a straight answer? Cuz if you ask a guy who likes a fit woman for example, he'll tell you all sorts of things n go on forever. But a guy who likes a fat woman will be vague and not give many reasons at all.

[notwoke]

you understand conpletely

[AMS700CX4u2]

My wife's measurements were 36 24 36 when we met but was 4'11'' so the 36's were close together.

[AMS700CX4u2]

We are both 72 years old and she weighs 122 lbs

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Because when it comes to liking someone, physical appearance is irrelevant. I like many people of all races, sizes, and both sexes because of their personality.

Now, if you're talking about physical attraction, I have no idea. I have no idea why I'm physically attracted to women with the upper body the size of the average track star, and lower body the size of a large horse. It's hard to explain physical attraction to people, and the men who are physically attracted to obese women probably can't explain it either.

[Asker]

See that's what I'm getting at. I just don't get how anyone finds fat people physically attractive. I mean, that has to ring with anyone before anything else gets started. It's just the way humans are. They gotta be attracted.

[urgirlaria]

I think it's because there's some genuinely good guys out there. I don't think every guy out there that likes plus size women are ugly. I think you're projecting here. I say you should love everybody, as long as they treat you well, regardless of their body size. You'll find a lot of positivity and love if you stop judging others.

[Asker]

Says someone who has no idea how gross fat women (and men) are. I mean c'mon. You know their hygiene routine is non-existent. Unless a person actually enjoys a smelly piggy fat human being for a partner, why the heck else would they go for somebody like that? Ew.

[DianaWest]

why you being a bitch for? did your man leave you for a fat woman, lol? keep crying. men like what they like. they're all different and have different preferences. fat women don't need to be single for their whole life and die alone because it'll help you feel happy.

[DianaWest]

second theory i have: you're actually a bitter man that fits your above description perfectly.

[Asker]

Well lete ask this. If you were a guy, would you go for a fat woman?

[OlderAndWiser]

Beats the hell out of me! I like petite and fit women.

[Wulfheard]

I'm so tired of seeing this stale bullshit about social awkward nerds with low self-esteem liking fat women... That's a stereotype that has hung on for way too long. Unfortunately too msny of you relationship/physical attraction "experts" still cling to that patently false premise... I love fat girls and I'm not a nerd nor am I socially awkward. I'm in shape reasonably good looking and I just have a sexual preference for hot fat girls of all sizes and weights... There are millions of guys out there just like me and we just find a larger woman physically more attractive than your typical skinny gym bunny chick. Sorry to bust your bubble but stereotypes are generally wrong because they reflect the worst in any given situation. They are used or believed in by small minded people who desperately need to point to something that they see as flawed so that they can feel superior.

[FluffyHope]

Amen to that. My ex liked bigger women and girls were after him all the time. He’s hot! Now granted I’m overweight and say I’m fat because I wear 2XL bottom and XL tops and people tell me I’m not fat but trust me I know what I look like naked. 😂. Love your response. Some people on here just suck based on their comments. It’s fine to say you’re not attracted to overweight people but to throw in they stink, they’re lazy, etc. is completely unnecessary and hateful.

[Anonymous]

Iknow this question has been asked a thousand times, but yet, you have some important need to ask again.

You can't fathom why men want bigger women, and the men that like bigger women aren't good looking and are dorks, and the women are desperate and/or easy.

"I know I sound really mean and terrible by asking. "

No, you don't sound mean or terrible for asking. You sound mean and terrible by phrasing it as a question to get your digs and jollies, because you're a shallow asshole who's discovered a way to belittle others anonymously.

You're a disgusting example of a 45+ year old wannabe man who's never grown up. Talk about dork. Go crawl back under your rock. You're an embarrassment to modern man you Neanderthalic buffoon.

[Asker]

Wow. Triggered much? Sounds like you like a fat sloppy stinky woman.

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. Just like pointing out dickheads with bad attitudes. Goodbye fool.

[Huntingnfishin]

Nothing wrong with some meat on their bones! I don't like feeling a womans bones when we're having sex. And honestly fat or ugly chicks are willing to do more to please me

[Vampirelover_12]

They like meat. Unlike those gay men who only go for bones.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm as confused as you. I always assume the dude is just going for what's easy to get in bed.

[VikingWarLord]

I have no gawdam clue, they gotta be under some sort of major mind control spell.
That is just disgusting

[FunkyMonkee]

The bigger the cushion, the harder the pushin'!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/YjC0vMIrOAk

[Jintendo18]

I mean how fat are we talking? A little chub on a girl to fill out her figure isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

[Asker]

Refer to the sloppy fat image. Like that. Or bigger.

[Jintendo18]

Yeah nah lol

[Asker]

Yeah see, that's what I mean. A big "nah"

[Jintendo18]

A big FAT “nah”

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

It's all they can get

[Asker]

That's kinda what I was thinking

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

Yeah... I put the best answer.

[Hangry06]

People like to eat ass and this schocks you more? Tf lady you're about 35 or something

[vald9inches]

Thats obese in that picture but i do like girls from skinny to chubby

[yyyuuuiii]

Because they can't get in-shape women so they settle for fat bitches.

[Anonymous]

depends what they are looking for

looking for someone to actually date

or just to fuck

[Asker]

So that's all that fat women are good for is for fucking not for long term dating?

[Anonymous]

Cause they are more willing to be freaky in the sack.

[Asker]

You mean less likely to say no to sex cuz they're lonely and desperate?

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty much... butt will try pretty much anything

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

Nah fat women lazy in the sack.

[Asker]

Yeah prolly

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Because there is a lot more to love.

[Asker]

So you like em fat n stinky?

[Dchrls78104]

More likely than not, it's their preference.

[Asker]

But why? And how would they think a fat woman is a turn-on? I mean, would the guy be a gross person themselves? And "staying in their league" by preferring a fat woman?

[Dchrls78104]

There was a singer in my country years ago who would lift very large women as part of his act on stage. I guess that this means that there are a lot of men who are into big women: they want a woman with 'q little more meat on their bones'.

[Asker]

Well fat women have more fat. Not meat. If it's meat they want, a body builder woman would be where it's at cuz she has lots of muscle. Lol

[nawtee_me]

sounds like you are hating here...

[Asker]

Do you like em fat?

[Anonymous]

People just have different preferences

[Citizenkirk]

Why not

[Asker]

Cuz fat women are gross. I bet they stink too.

[Mediterraneansoul]

Nice Trolling

[fireforeffect]

I have no idea!!