I know this question has been asked thousands of times. I've read a lot of them. But I just don't get it. I can't fathom it. Maybe the energy of the answers doesn't equate with the answers I see about why some men like thin or fit women.
Tbh, what I've seen of the men that do like fat women, they aren't that great looking. They appear like awkward dorks who don't dress well etc. Like they look under socialized or lack self awareness etc, so it's kinda no wonder men like that like fat women cuz it's all they can get.
I know I sound really mean n terrible by asking this.
But is it a control thing? Like fat women are easy cuz they're lonely? Or easily manipulated cuz they're desperate? Is it cuz they can't walk far, let alone run away? Do they like the body funk that comes standard with fat rolls? Like, EW. 😕
I mean, really? I just flat out don't think I'll ever really understand it.
because these men have self esteem issues and can't handle the pressure of having a woman or even approaching a woman who is desirable to other men. they need to get a woman that they feel is not at risk of fleeing to another man. Unfortunately what they do not understand is that often these overweight women are dealing with self esteem issues also and want to be validated by having other men chase them. And men will go with a total wart hog if they think if means easy sex. It's a really fucked up dynamic
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That's what I'm saying. The men who like fat women seem like total dorks who can't get anything else so that's what they go for. Like how many 5 figure or even 6 figure earning men in business suits do you see going around with a fat sloppy woman? I sure haven't seen any.
Is that what it is? The guys are lacking confidence so they go for fat women cuz they're less likely to reject cuz they're lacking confidence too? Codependence n insecurity is why?
Is that why when you ask em directly that they can't seem to give a straight answer? Cuz if you ask a guy who likes a fit woman for example, he'll tell you all sorts of things n go on forever. But a guy who likes a fat woman will be vague and not give many reasons at all.
Because when it comes to liking someone, physical appearance is irrelevant. I like many people of all races, sizes, and both sexes because of their personality.
Now, if you're talking about physical attraction, I have no idea. I have no idea why I'm physically attracted to women with the upper body the size of the average track star, and lower body the size of a large horse. It's hard to explain physical attraction to people, and the men who are physically attracted to obese women probably can't explain it either.
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See that's what I'm getting at. I just don't get how anyone finds fat people physically attractive. I mean, that has to ring with anyone before anything else gets started. It's just the way humans are. They gotta be attracted.
I think it's because there's some genuinely good guys out there. I don't think every guy out there that likes plus size women are ugly. I think you're projecting here. I say you should love everybody, as long as they treat you well, regardless of their body size. You'll find a lot of positivity and love if you stop judging others.
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Says someone who has no idea how gross fat women (and men) are. I mean c'mon. You know their hygiene routine is non-existent. Unless a person actually enjoys a smelly piggy fat human being for a partner, why the heck else would they go for somebody like that? Ew.
why you being a bitch for? did your man leave you for a fat woman, lol? keep crying. men like what they like. they're all different and have different preferences. fat women don't need to be single for their whole life and die alone because it'll help you feel happy.
I'm so tired of seeing this stale bullshit about social awkward nerds with low self-esteem liking fat women... That's a stereotype that has hung on for way too long. Unfortunately too msny of you relationship/physical attraction "experts" still cling to that patently false premise... I love fat girls and I'm not a nerd nor am I socially awkward. I'm in shape reasonably good looking and I just have a sexual preference for hot fat girls of all sizes and weights... There are millions of guys out there just like me and we just find a larger woman physically more attractive than your typical skinny gym bunny chick. Sorry to bust your bubble but stereotypes are generally wrong because they reflect the worst in any given situation. They are used or believed in by small minded people who desperately need to point to something that they see as flawed so that they can feel superior.
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Iknow this question has been asked a thousand times, but yet, you have some important need to ask again.
You can't fathom why men want bigger women, and the men that like bigger women aren't good looking and are dorks, and the women are desperate and/or easy.
"I know I sound really mean and terrible by asking. "
No, you don't sound mean or terrible for asking. You sound mean and terrible by phrasing it as a question to get your digs and jollies, because you're a shallow asshole who's discovered a way to belittle others anonymously.
You're a disgusting example of a 45+ year old wannabe man who's never grown up. Talk about dork. Go crawl back under your rock. You're an embarrassment to modern man you Neanderthalic buffoon.
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Wow. Triggered much? Sounds like you like a fat sloppy stinky woman.
But why? And how would they think a fat woman is a turn-on? I mean, would the guy be a gross person themselves? And "staying in their league" by preferring a fat woman?
There was a singer in my country years ago who would lift very large women as part of his act on stage. I guess that this means that there are a lot of men who are into big women: they want a woman with 'q little more meat on their bones'.
