Why don't fat guys like fat girls?

[Anonymous]

This isn't meant to offend anyone , but I'm genuinely curious on why a large amount of fat men I've met , have never asked out or wanted to date a fat woman. I'm pretty slim myself , but I have noticed that lots of fat men have no issues calling other women fat or mocking fat women, and only going after skinny women , this seems hypocritical in my opinion. Especially because the majority of these fat guys whine when skinny girls don't want to date them, but they won't date fat girls themselves. Is this an issue stemming from insecurity or what?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Yes,. it is hypocritical to bash fat women, but i can understand why they aren't attracted to them.

Like you can be ugly and prefer hot people, just because you're ugly doesn't change the fact that you're attracted to conventionally attractive people as well.
Im average and still prefer attractive men lol

[BuchitaBuchys]

And fat women aren't always so kind to chunky men lol Theyll reject him for the 6pack Adonis too haha

[NyomiMcClinton]

I actually see the opposite more bigger men date women who are big like them especially in my culture.

[Anonymous]

Cause they don't even like themselves.

[Chico_brah]

Because fat guys are still attracted to attractive women. The same goes in the reverse. Being overweight is unattractive. If we ran with your logic, then half of porn would be filled with overweight women. The reality of the situation is that everyone no matter attractive or unattractive can appreciate beauty.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Thats sexist and fat phobic.

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys Not sure if sarcasm because I know you hate my type but if you are serious... How? It's logic.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Haha I dont hate you're type.

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys Lol. Figured it was sarcasm but I know you're always pushing to say that being overweight is fine and how you don't like the standard of women being lean and stuff.

[BuchitaBuchys]

WHen? When have I said that? lol I benefit from thin being in as Im skinny af lol

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys Lmfao. Maybe I'm going crazy dude. I thought you used to push the stuff all the time. I don't know. I'm still kind of hungover.

[Asker]

I agree , being overweight is unnatractive. I don't praise men or women for being fat , but I simply find it funny when fat men will mock and refuse to date women who are the same size as them. I understand being attracted to certain body types , but some of these men just expect models while weighing 300 pounds and won't accept any less without trying to get into Shape first

[Chico_brah]

Oh definitely. I'm not disagreeing that it's not all around hypercritical. I sort of just answered the title of the question I guess. My girlfriend has very nice body but then again I don't think I'm so bad myself. I wouldn't expect to have a girl with a nice body if I looked like shit.

[BuchitaBuchys]

I am not trying to push for "fat as sexy", but yes I do think we shouldn't treat them like crap, and that yes they should be allowed to model without labels like "plus size model", and yes there should be more representation of them.

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys Meh. I could debate the whole plus size model thing all day if you want. In short, I think that capitalist America doesn't give a shit about those things for a reason, and frankly, they shouldn't. Capitalism doesn't give a shit about feelings. Capitalism doesn't give a shit about anything but value and green. An advertising firm's goal is going to be to sell their product. Clothing and apparel look best on the most attractive builds and bodytypes. By default overweight women don't really fit that mold. It's not going to make their product look good if they show a bunch of average and overweight women wearing them. They would lose money in almost all circumstances. I don't think that fat women should be degraded by any means but I think they should be encouraged to lose weight. I think plus sized models sort of make overweight women feel content with their lesser state when in reality they can look amazing if they made a diligent effort to do so.

[Chico_brah]

Like my sister is obese. Dude.. my sister has a georgous face. She got the best genetics from our whole family tree facially. She would would be a complete knockout if she lost the weight. I went to a wedding yesterday and she was there and I just felt bad for her. She hates the way she looks and she's getting bigger and bigger by the day. I've done everything I can to help her. I really have but it just has to be her at this point. She has to do it herself. Nothing else I can do. The last thing I'd want is the media trying to convince my sister that she should just settle and accept this lesser self. I want the opposite. I want her to feel a motive to lose the weight so she can better herself.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Im not saying to force fat models on the scene lol But there are times when it makes more sense to show fat chicks, like maternity ads, instead of having skinny women with bellies added, just get a pregnant or fat lady.

Also, I still think representation is important.

Does your sis have big tits though?

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys Yeah she does.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Are they fat boobs are real boobs? like if she lost weight shed have them

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys yeah she was thin in high school and had big boobs

[BuchitaBuchys]

Pics? lol jk why are you all up on your sis like that...

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys what do you mean? Lmao. I mean she had big boobs in HS. I lived with her so of course I'd know that. I just want her to lose the weight.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Lol why? so she can be your hot sis again? haha

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys So she can be confident and start dating again.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Lots of men like big women

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys She's not confident dude. She hates the way she looks and when you hate the way you look, you aren't a very happy person. She is very overweight and this impacts her health as well. The vast majority of men aren't attracted to her size.

[BuchitaBuchys]

So if she were confident and dating as a fat person, you wouldn't care if she lost weight?

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys She wouldn't be confident dating as a fat person. That's just the reality of the situation. I still wouldn't want her being fat because its detrimental to her health.

[BuchitaBuchys]

So if she was healthy and confident and dating, then youd be ok with it? lol

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys Sure but that's not reality dude lol. She won't be happy and content with her looks until she loses the weight because I know my sister very well. She won't be healthy if she is overweight and eating shit foods because of logic.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Thats fat phobic dude

[Chico_brah]

@BuchitaBuchys Lol no it's not. It's logic bruh.

[BuchitaBuchys]

haha i know.

[Chico_brah]

Lmfao. It's hard to sense sarcasm on gag so give me a break bruh.

[BasicFlake]

Fat guys mocking fat girls is hypocritical, you're right there. As to why fat guys might not want to date fat girls, or vice versa, that's just human nature. Aspirations tend to be aimed high. People rarely aspire to have something which is deemed lesser. People aim for what is exclusive, what is of value.

[Asker]

Very true , most want to upgrade or "date up" , instead of going after someone in their league.

[BasicFlake]

If people only aspired to achieve things within their immediate grasp then progress wouldn't happen. It is in reaching for the stars that we get ourselves off the ground. You have to aim high, even if you fall short.

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

Because men have built this beautiful America for women... And most of those women have turned fat Which is very unattractive... And ruins America... Matter of fact it ruins the world...
Yuck yuck yuck look at that hungry hungry hippo canipple can't feed that Land whale enough... Just keeps eating like Kirby... I don't like fat women... fat women need to eat less... hit cardio at the gym more... Normally when it comes to fat chicks I try to avoid them... If I am ever EXTREMELY DESPERATE dealing with a fat chick she's paying for the date... Because I'm not paying for pounds in pounds and pounds and pounds in pounds and pounds of food to feed her hole.. And if I'm stupid enough to f*** her... I wear 2 condoms... I also hold my breath so I won't smell that stinky fat p****. If we meet it has to be really late around 12 or 3 AM with everyone's sleep so nobody can see us... I can't be seeing with a piggy... That's like Kermit the frog... Getting caught smashing Miss piggy.!
Before I meet her I make sure I go to the grocery store and ask for a paper bag So I have something that will fit over her fac If I f*****... Unfortunately they do not make paper bags big enough for the whole body to be covered... So I have to Pay extra to buy heavy duty glad the trash bags all black Party size To use while f****** so there will be no physical contact. I have to do all this without anybody saying so I moved like a ninja In the darkness... Then ghost like casper... Then I would pray to God to forgive me for smashing a hideous Humongous cow.. Crossing my fingers no soul has seen me commit such an act. In order to do this I also need 50 billion dollars in cash or sent to my account... And it would need to be in order to save a family member's life... Besides that I would not smash a fat chick.

[Andro36]

Wow I've seen lots of fat American men. Not really something to die for. Getting fat is not exclusively a women's feature

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

Getting is worse for a woman... because they start looking like a man... fat men still look masculine... and often are still strong.

[Andro36]

Oh no. Sorry to disappoint you but fat men are gross. They look less masculine

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

I'm not trying to defend them fat dudes... they need to hit the gym... but regardless of what you say... fat dudes still get hot chicks and smash hot skinny women.

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

Whether you think they're gross or not... fat dudes do okay and marry hot women especially if they get money... and success..

Unlike fat females... many guys wouldn't marry a fat chick if she had millions of dollars.

[Andro36]

I've been fat girls with very hot guys...

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

Those guys just want to smash something but they don't stay... They don't stick around because they're embarrassed... Fat hawks are for the night.. But really really dark Knights where nobody can see

[Andro36]

This website is prove of that... They praise far girls over slim ones

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

High quality men don't want a fashion this is the reality you can't try to argue this down to your grave... But Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos aren't trying to Bang some fat chick

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

I suppose it is possible for Elon Musk Jeff Bezos Bill Gates and Warren Buffett to be banging fat chicks but if that is happening it's extremely secretive... That would be more top secret than their latest inventions.

[TheNinthCircle]

A lot of fat ass dudes are delusional for some reason and they think they can land dime pieces.

[Bandit74]

Fat girls probably have more options for sex than fat guys do.

[Asker]

They do, because more men have fat fetishes then women do.

[Bandit74]

That and men are also more willing to lower their standards on looks if they are getting it easy.

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

A fat woman in a wheelchair with no legs and arms has more options than most men... Because men are driven sexually and will smash anything... They won't wife anything but they will smash anything... And most likely fat girls are getting smashed by hideous men or broke man or a successful man man and those men are sneaking away like a ninja in the night hoping nobody sees them with the fat chick. Any guys that are smashing these fat chicks just no guy is watching you and they shake his head in shame. God wants you to smash hot women he gave you the ability. Get on your knees and pray to God for hot women sexy women and stop Picking low hanging fruit.

[Anonymous]

They probably don't want to be fat either.

"majority of these fat guys whine when skinny girls don't want to date them" You just made that up. There is no fucking way "majority" of fat guys whine because skinny girls don't date them.

[Anonymous]

That's strange because the only women I see fat guys with are fat women unless they have money and/or fame I see fat women with guys of all body weights all the time though

[Asker]

I never said fat guys actually were able to get with a slim or average weight woman , but that seems to be the only type they try to pursue or want.

[Opinion Owner]

They're not overly shallow I guess. Fat women are usually almost all the time are the least shallow, while guys of all body types are also less likely to be shallow because I always see guys of all body types with legit fate women and never the other way around unless the legit fat guy has money

[skylimetoon]

harder for sex. only one can be fast otherwise who's going to do the work.

[Anonymous]

Same reason short girls don't want short guys, poor girls generally don't want poor guys, etc

[abc3643]

Would you date a fat guy?

[Asker]

No, I'm slim and would like someone with a similar body type.

[abc3643]

So, if you were fat then you "would like someone with a similar body type" and only go for fat guys?

[Asker]

If I was fat , I'd work on my weight before trying to date someone who weighs little enough for me to crush them during sex. Its that simple

[abc3643]

So, your answer is "no".

And so we've reached the conclusion of our "teachable moment"...

Regardless of your size, you would prefer a slim person.
It's the same with everyone else... including "fat guys".

[Anonymous]

just because they are fat doesn't mean they should have low standards.

[itisi_ethan]

Cause Fat Guys Can Pull it Off As DadBod While Fat Girls Are Just A Fetish.

[Asker]

Dadbod isn't fat , its more husky or chunky. I'm talking about legit fat dudes , not ones resembling Seth Rogens body when he was heavier

[itisi_ethan]

I don't know. i Dont Usually See Fat Dudes Out in Public Tbh

[Christsdisciple15]

definitely stems from self hate

[IamJohntheGoat]

because nobody likes fat anything

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

I like fat cats... Lol what besides that I don't like fats.

[Mexicoman101]

They are overly optimistic

[archiz]

Fat people are less attractive in general

[Regular1]

Same reason fat chicks don't like fat guys.

[Juarez]

I always thought it was the other way around.

[Toxic_Skyler]

I don’t know

[Anonymous]

the same way you don't date short guys..

[Asker]

I do date short guys. Smallest I've dated was 5'2