Are you bothered if your friends or family members date fat girls? Why?

[Anonymous]

As a plus size girl for most of my life, I'm not at all a stranger to the phenomenon of "cute guy is really attracted to me but afraid of being the guy who is dating a fat girl." I'm not interested in any guys who wouldn't claim me publicly, but I've seen it happen before. I've also noticed how some guys will tease their friends for dating a bigger girl? Never really understood that, as I've never had that experience with my girl friends. I'm not attracted to many of my friends' boyfriends, but I would never be disrespectful and make fun of the way they look or anything for the most part. I can't really fathom caring about what their partners look like, as long as they are treating them well and being good partners.

Would you give your friends shit for dating a plus size girl? Why do you care what your friends' girlfriends look like? Someone please explain to me why a man would care what his friends do with their dicks, in terms of how she looks! lol #confused

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[Anonymous]

As a guy that really likes bigger girls I obviously would not give anyone else a hard time. But yes, it happens all the time. Anyone that makes snide comments about my girl will be promptly told to go to hell or worse, it is none of their concern. A gentlemen would never make such a comment, and there is no reason to associate with vulgar men. The same is true for women, a lady would never criticize, and I have no use for trash girls either.

[Bhavin2184]

Nope.. one of my older friend did a marry a healthy girl they always know each from school time. Personaly never tease him for it and was happy for him

[Wulfheard]

Not at all. I've dated large women exclusively and I'm married to a very, very, large woman so I understand the attraction. I would also think that "FINALLY, someone with the same taste in woman as me... So, lets get some pizzas and hang out... 😆

[Anonymous]

My only major dating or relationship experience in my life, was dating a girl that was a little bit on the fat or chubby side, I feel I lowered my standards in a good way, due to having been alone and single my whole life prior to dating her, my desire for experiencing the mental and emotional aspect and companionship part of a relationship, was stronger than my urge to experience the sexual and intimate part.

[Asker]

That's your experience - some men love sex and intimacy with plus size girls, and many of them aren't lacking any options :)

But this question is about how you would feel about your friends being with a bigger girl, not about whether or not you're into it.

[Opinion Owner]

I feel like I have no opinion on that because, whoever they go for is their business or their choice

[dudeinohio]

My girlfriend is a big girl, so naturally I won't judge at all

[Toxic_Skyler]

I don’t know how they are compatible but to each their own

[Anonymous]

I don’t know but maybe they don’t like having to watch what they say around them as in fat jokes and such

[Jaredsmith]

I date fat girls and my friends are disgusted

[In_Trance]

Doesn't matter to me