Do FAT people get annoyed when you are honest with them?

[Anonymous]

I have this gamer friend who is addicted to gaming and junk food , but is cool otherwise

She gets pissed every time I advice her politely to do some exercise and get healthy

Her mother is concerned too that she may end up having health issues later on, but she believes being over weight is "healthy" and we are all "Fat-Phobic" .

I have no idea how to deal with it ngl!

[Anemone978]

Fat people get annoyed not because of the truth, but because you think they don't know that they are too fat.. obviously they know these things... it is their body, they just don't care or they would do something about it. And you telling them what to do and to change is what is annoying.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Has nothing to do with the fact that she’s fat.


To put it bluntly, mind your own business and stop trying to change how other people choose to live their lives.


Doesn’t matter if you think you’re doing the right thing, you’re being annoying.

[Asker]

You won't " mind your business" if it's your daughter or good friend
I love how it's seems good to not piss someone off and rather watch them suffer

[NotTacocaT6969]

They’re not suffering.

You just can’t accept that people can be happy living differently than you.

We all die regardless.

[Asker]

Yeah not being able to walk is "living happily" cool

[NotTacocaT6969]

Calling them fat is not how you help.

That does the opposite.

[artgorgeous]

Yes, she is fucking lazy fatass worthless woman. Don't give her any advice, she obviously does not want to hear it and she does not need it. She already made her decision.

[NamerOfStars]

You "have no idea how to deal with" not offering unsolicited criticism? Unsolicited criticism about an overrated danger, no less?

What are you, four years old?

[Asker]

Your rage seems you are 9 year old lol

[noemiii]

Best way to deal with it, is not at all. I know you mean well but the only person to spark a change in someone, is themselves. If she doesn’t want to do it, that’s her problem. And yes, your concern will come to her as an attack because she’s not past the denial stage. She will hopefully realize eventually.

[noemiii]

And it has nothing specifically to do with being fat. If you told someone who starved themselves they’d react the same way, someone on crack, on alcohol, someone who was dating a man who cheated, literally anyone who has a lifestyle they’re accustomed to and you’re trying to tell them to do otherwise would likely react to that.

[Asker]

Thank god , a positive comment at last
And yeah I get you.. let's just pray she realizes it soon enough
Thanks for the comment! You have a good mindset I must say!

[Anonymous]

Nobody, fat or otherwise likes being told have to live generally.

[Anonymous]

Ugh, people like you need to learn to mind your own business. There is far too much of that nowadays.

[Asker]

You at least can't tell a mother to mind her own business when it comes to her daughter's well being

[exitseven]

They probably already know that they are fat. Being reminded of that would be annoying

[HelpfulWoman]

Leave her to it. Take a hint

[Asker]

Yeah probably that's what I am gonna do.. I get insulted every time I talk to her about this upon her mom pleading me to do so

[Anonymous]

Ach die lieber Gott meine kopf...