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I ask this question mainly because I see questions all the time on this site of "which girl/guy is prettier/hotter/more handsome" and "rate them out of 10" and then it'll only be a shot of the person's face (and sometimes way too close to their face to boot) and hair and they're smiling or whatever. The point of this question is, isn't it kind of dumb to only post someone's face if you want to know if people generally find them to be attractive? That's why it's so important to, in online dating, also include at least ONE pic of your whole body so that people know what you really look like. People are more than just a face; they're also an entire body, and rating someone is supposed to take their entire personage into account.

You can't do that with just a face. Their face could be 8/10 or 9/10 but then their body sucks and is a 5/10 because they're fat or something; conversely, their body could be a 9/10 very fit or something, but then their face is like 7/10 or something-- wouldn't you want to see both? I feel like questions based only on face are completely pointless. What do you guys think?

I've been working out for a girl all summer to try to get bigger since she's 5'10 and has a fat ass and is pretty strong. (She's a collegiate rower) I've been pretty skinny my whole life but in the last couple months I've gotten 20 lbs. heavier going to the gym EVERY day of the week. Should I tell her that I did this for her, a friend told me she has a crush on me so I think she won't mind. Will it be like cute that I did this for her or creepy/conceited if I tell her I worked out all summer for her hahah?

I'm only 5'7" tall, and I'm skinny to boot- no matter how hard I try, I can't build up muscle mass or even put on any fat. Doesn't make a difference how much I eat, or how many protein shakes I make, I just can't put on weight; and whenever I work out, even if I'm pumping iron 3 hours every day, doing reps with weights which weigh more than twice as much as I do, and jogging 5km every evening, all that it ever does is just make my veins bulge out, all over my body, like some gross, freakish abomination.

And I never stop getting dissed, mocked, belittled and emasculated for it. I am NOT weak. Plenty of these thugs look at me and see me as an easy target, come after me trying to beat up on me, mug me, intimidate me. But I can handle myself- every fight I've ever had to fight, even three-on-one against guys twice my size, I've always won. Doesn't matter though- no-one gives a fuck about how strong or fast or athletic I am. I used to be comfortable with my body, happy with it. but now I absolutely hate it, because everyone else hates it and laughs at it, especially girls.

I'm fairly good looking in other aspects, and keep myself well. I still get approached by girls often enough- but because I'm so short and small and slim and 'have a young face', these girls are always either jailbait high-school thots, or pedobear MILF creepers who mistake me for a schoolboy. Will there ever be any girls out there, in the age range I'm looking for (16-29) who could ever find me attractive, as I am?

Is there anything I could do that I haven't already tried, bar steroid abuse or surgery, to become bigger and bulkier- to look like a 'real man' instead of the 'scrawny midget' I am now? Or should I just give up on ever finding someone who wants me for my body- is it hopeless to try and find a girl (over the age of 16) who'd find me attractive?