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The following post Cones from Quora. And the Topic is Abortion and gender disappointment.

Alissa From Quora

"I’m having a boy and I’m not happy about it. What should I do?

I felt exactly the same way when I was pregnant with my son. I was extremely upset for months thinking of hypothetical things having a son would possibly mean (i. e. high car insurance premium, forgetting my birthday, forsaking his family for his future wife). I did not cope well, and can you believe some self righteous, arrogant relatives actually shamed me for it? That is quite an unproductive thing to do, so I will not do the same to you.

My advice to you for the time being is just to concentrate on having a healthy pregnancy, take prenatal vitamins, keep up with your prenatal care and try to avoid becoming sick. A baby boy is very attached and loving toward his mother when he is small. If you try again for another child, perhaps consider going to one of those specialty IVF clinics to guarantee a girl. I wish you all the best!"

Do most women feel this way?

Between periods, pregnancy, childbirth, hormonal fluctuation, menopause, etc it seems like a 24/7 nightmare

My girlfriend has a recent friend, that she barely knows, that she recently had an unplanned abortion.

While having dinner the three of us, my girlfriend without reason started treating her harshly and with condescend. Like she didn't know shit about pregnancies or that if she wanted to know how much is to split the bill she can divide it by herself.

After that I was so disgusted that stopped meeting her for the last week.

That said I told her not to do such things plenty of times in the past. And while it seemed she had improved, from time to time she acts like this. Which makes me super uncomfortable.

So maybe I'm sugar coating the situation, and I need an honest answer. Do you think my girlfriend is a bad cruel person who I shall stay away from?