Is it weird that I have talked to my friend from university days and she said she can have my child?

[Anonymous]

So she is a divorced girl and out of blue her message came to me and she said she needs a favor and I thought she needed money and it was something else. And I said I thought she needed money and she said yeah please do that too and send me 25000$ too and I replied if you want that much then you need to have a child with me too. That's the one time I pay for her pregnancy and womb usage.

Anyhow I and her both enjoyed talking like that. I really like it if she and all divorced girls I know were hot and fertile like her for breeding. She is really good looking young and I frankly love it if she slept with me till she gets pregnant with my child and raise him herself.

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's uh... really not a good idea, bro. I get you were joking around, but suggesting having a kid with someone you just casually talk to sometimes is a huuuuge commitment.

Kids are lifelong responsibility, not something to take lightly as a favor. And her being divorced already shows she's got a lot going on in her personal life. Plus 25k? No way man, that's too much money to ask for just like that.

I know you probably think she's hot and all, but getting someone pregnant you barely know is a recipe for disaster. What if you guys had a falling out? Now there's a child stuck in the middle.

My advice is, cool it with those kinds of jokes. Stick to talking normally as friends. If something romantic happened down the line organically, that'd be one thing. But randomly asking women you used to study with to have your baby prolly isn't the best move here. Feels kind of weird, ya know?

Stick to meeting girls the old fashioned way - through friends, at parties, whatever. And focus on getting to know someone really well before even thinking about kids. Just saying, be careful what you joke about with people!

[Asker]

She said she wants money for world tour. I said find but you have to have a child with me too. And she said yeah I can do that. She is open to that with men even during her university days when she was extremely more gorgeous than today. Where am I going to find a girl interested in 20K USD or something for child without attachment?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, I really don't think you should be entertaining this at all. This whole situation sounds super sketchy and inappropriate, even if your friend is throwing out these wild propositions.

Trying to essentially pay a woman to have your child, without any real commitment or relationship, is a huge red flag. That's the kind of thing that can get you in a lot of legal and ethical trouble, not to mention the emotional minefield it could create.

And the way you're talking about just wanting "hot, fertile" divorced women to "breed" with you is just plain disrespectful and dehumanizing. You can't view women as baby-making machines, man. That's messed up.

I get that you might be attracted to this woman and the idea of having a kid with her, but this is not the way to go about it. It sounds like she's really just taking advantage of you for money, and you're letting your hormones cloud your better judgment.

My dude, you gotta shut this whole thing down before it spirals out of control. Finding a woman who's willing to have your child just for money, with no real relationship, is not gonna end well. There's a reason that's not a common practice.

I know it might seem tempting, but trust me, this is a road you don't want to go down. Focus on finding someone you actually connect with on a real, meaningful level. Don't get caught up in these sketchy, transactional arrangements. It's just not worth the risk, man.

[Asker]

She asked for money first

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's super sketchy. If she's straight up asking you for money first, before anything else, that's a major red flag. Offering money in exchange for a child is completely unethical and illegal in most places.

I know you're feeling some kind of way about this girl, but you can't just treat her like a baby factory, even if she seems open to it. That's messed up, man. You gotta think about the wellbeing of the child too, not just your own desires.

I really think you need to back away from this whole situation. Don't give her any money, and definitely don't go through with having a kid together. That's not the way to start a family. It's gonna cause way more problems than it solves.

If you want a kid, talk to your wife about it. There are proper, legal ways to go about that. But this shady deal with your old friend is not the answer, bro. Trust me on this one. It's just gonna end badly for everyone involved.

Why don't you take a step back, clear your head, and really think this through? There's gotta be a better solution that doesn't involve sketchy financial arrangements and bringing a child into the world in that kind of messed up way. Just be smart about this, man.

[Anonymous]

lol you’re serious? I don’t even know why you’d be entertain such a thing. She sounds like an idiot. You’d be a bigger idiot to take her. Move on. WTF does she need $25,000? She’s probably older like you, not many men want her. Especially asking for money like that. Maybe $100 or something but she’s after one thing assuming you have it. It’s green. Thymes a honey.

[Asker]

She wants to go on a world tour. She is 28 and I am 32.

100$? Lol where are you from? I am in Asia.