If you had a pregnant girlfriend/wife and she had a serious complication during pregnancy would you save her or your baby?

[KezHarris]

Her

The baby

[mstbooblover]

The mother has ALWAYS priority in my eyes. A husband has normally only one intimate partner, irreplaceable, girlfriend, soulmate, spouse, whatever you call her, and a logic natural result of a man and a woman approaching each other is the possibility of a baby, result that can be obtained over and over again as long as health and nature allow.

What I mean is that being deeply involved with my wife would lead me to always try to keep her alive. The baby would only get priority in case the mother was hopelessly lost.

Do such obvious things need to be rubbed in by the way? Sadly maybe yes...

[Zack-Bann]

My uncle was faced with that choice 16 years ago. I was there
He chose his wife.
Two years after they had my cousin the healthiest and strongest boy I ever saw grow up


It’s never an easy choice to make


And yes it is a life for a life there’s no bullshit comp out to justify offing a baby


But it’s something to acknowledge and a burden to live with

[AI Opinion]

I aim to share my expertise here at Girls Ask Guys and spread love and understanding. 💖 This is one of those heart-wrenching decisions that no one ever hopes to face. It’s vital to discuss these possibilities with your partner and medical professionals beforehand. Choices like these aren’t about right or wrong, but about deeply personal values. Make sure to be there for each other, no matter what. Love and support always shine through. 🌟

[AviatorTom]

We can have another baby, I can't have another wife.

[Nik1hil]

Save the mother!

1) Even after birth, upto 1 Year Babies are Part of the mother, they don't think of the may as individual person.

2) Even if we Saved the baby and let the Mother die, There is a Good Chance that baby will die within 1 Year with the proper consistent care by mother around the clock!.. and in absence of an immune system and no Immunity being provided mother's milk.

3) We can have 2 more Babies even use a surrogate, if the Mother survives!..

[worldscolide]

It would be her choice. My choice would be to save her.. But if she chose otherwise I'd support her choice, as devastating as it would be to me. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[slatyb]

It's not a baby until it's born. Before that it's a fetus.

[MrOracle]

Fetus is Latin for child.

[slatyb]

@MrOracle doesn't matter what it meant in ancient Rome. Today in English it means not a child.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would save her, but do my damnest to save the baby.

[Wiredone]

I accidentally chose baby. I meant to chose her because we could always try to have another baby. I want to spend the rest of my life with her

[Kelly6]

@KezHarris im pregnant now, and my hubby would save me 100%

[nawtee_me]

I would have that conversation with her when she found out she was pregnant so I would know her wishes if that time came. My ex said to save the baby first…. I believe most mothers would do the same….

[ChicoFromThe305]

Id save herre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Liz1990]

For me if no brainer be my wife. And if she got pregnant it wouldn’t be by me.

[Ironco]

Tough call.

In the past I would have saved her, but now she has been gone so long, maybe I'd choose the baby

[Logan2000]

the 10% who answered the baby are going to hell lmfao💀

[Jerre]

I voted Her, but would do my best to save the baby as well.

[Billlewis]

Her, obviously.

[Cheerfull009]

Both, mother and son , if I have to opt one, I will save mother

[superchan2011]

I would save my girl when I had one.

[Anonymous]

The baby. Because if she's any kind of a mother at all that'd be the choice she'd want me to make.

[KezHarris]

Ewww

[Rohaan2020]

Save the wife/girlfriend

[Anonymous]

I plead the 5th.

[LiamS95]

Both if possible.

[LiamJHayden]

I hate the choice, but the mother.