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In January, 2015, I was 16 years old, I got a stranger's friend request on Facebook, being the naive one, I accepted it.

We talked about each other (our hobbies and where we live, etc)

In the evening, he said that he loves me (!), so I blocked him, but later, he created a new account to talk to me, and sent me 22 messages (how he loves me and all), so I again blocked him. He was 23 years old by the way...

He started creating many accounts just to talk to me, as time passed, he started saying sexual things to me, how he would f*k me and all that.

I blocked him every time, this continued for A YEAR!
I would tell him that he would get someone better than me, but he would say 'I want you, not someone else!)
I didn't have courage to tell about this to anyone. One day, I had enough and we had a huge fight (which included cursing), he threatened to hack my account, find exactly where I live, kidnap me and rape me (I wanted you to be mine and I will make you mine! - he threatened). He even once said that he would commit suicide if I won't be his. He even made a cut on his leg and created a heart shape by the blood (sent a picture of it to me).

He had even came to my city (stupid me told him my real location before he said he would rape me, and that he loves me) as he wanted to meet me. We haven't talked to each other since the middle of 2016.

Do you think that he is still looking for me and will rape me? I am very scared and I still don't have enough courage to tell about this to anyone...

I am referring to in real life, of course, not strangers on the internet.

I tend to trust anyone who is nice to me and seems genuine on the surface at least until I find out that my trust was ill placed.

Some people look at everyone first with a jaundiced* eye until that person proves themselves first to them, not trusting anything about them until that time.

(*Jaundiced eye. ... Someone who looks upon something with a jaundiced eye is most often perceived as having been harmed or tricked in the past and is world-wise. The word jaundiced is an adjective that means showing distaste, envy or bitterness.)

I have a hard time functioning that way because if I don't trust someone then I just want to get away from them and I don't want to be around them very long.

What is your natural tendency for trust?

Do you first trust someone or only trust them after they prove themselves to you?

I don't like people, strangers in particular. However I'm the most happiest, talkative and friendly/smiley person I know with people I like and care about in my circle only. But for some reason it bothers strangers that I'm not open, friendly or willing to engage with them. I don't like the idea of kissing anyone's ass and never will, not online or in real life.