Search Results: waiting for him to be single

Ight so I’m part of the “boys” to an extent. Yk the one girl the boys always got around whenever they hang out? That’s me. Anytime I party it’s with the homies.
I started catching feelings for this one dude in the squad but when we were both single we were close buddies and he would tell me “BAS” (females ain’t shit) and I’d tell him the same thing back but male version.
Anytime he makes a joke, I’m always the first person he looks to to see if I found the joke funny. Whenever we party at my house we always end up falling asleep side by side (more like my back against his chest), bodies pressed up against each other. He got a girl, moved in with her, been with her for a good 2 years now.
It’s been a minute since I last saw him. I recently just threw a party and invited all the homies (obviously him and his girl included, his girl denied he didn’t) I ended up getting way too shitfaced and falling asleep early. When I went down in the morning I accidentally took this dude’s seat on the sofa so he told me to move to the right so he can sit where I was sitting. These two seats were the only connected seats on all our sitting spaces. There was a good 7 other seats he could've chosen. When he sat next to me we shared covers and he’d have a part of his body leaning on me. Still making eye contact with me first anytime he throws a joke. Always cheesin my way. Anytime I would compliment him he’d stare dead in my eyes and give me the cutest shy smile.
Maybe he’s just friendly like that? He never shot his shot when he was single even tho I would always hint at him to. We were the oh they would be such a cute couple kinda friends but I don’t know if he ever saw me like that. He has a whole girl waiting for him at home. Does this dude feel sumn for me or am I tripping?

As in is open to dating anyone to get to know them as a potential boyfriend or girlfriend but is very strict with sex itself. So the dating is really about getting to know each other as people as potential boyfriend/boyfriend not seeking out sexual satisfaction.

this is not a biographical question... I’m just wondering why MANY people are against dating around like it’s dirty or indicative of low moral lack of loyalty increased risk of cheating etc, when really dating should give you a cushier to get acquainted

I wonder as well if casual dating people wpuid stay far away from those who are not on a date to sex pipe line.

And I Get it sex is a way for some people to get acquainted and that is fine but I’m guessing those people don’t feel sick about casual dating.

Seems to be high correlation with date around and fuck or date exclusively and wait camps... I wonder how often they can mix it up.


I think if I was single, I’d date around a ton lije 2950s style date a diff guy on a diff day bit the date is not code for hook up. It’s literally go out in a date. I kinda really LIKE the idea of like booking dates as appointments lol... 🧐 but then I am hyperactive am no good with ambiguity and I do best with structure 😌 so this may be more a personality thjng than sayjng approach. I’m thinking of sanity not landing the right bloke, per se 😇