Hello, I'm 19 and in the air force. So, I asked all of my female friends for dating advice. Just to give some background information. I never had a girlfriend. I've been single for a very long time and it seems like everyone my age is dating except me. They all said "just wait and a relationship will eventually come around". I told her that i message girls on IG to no avail 99% of the time. When they text me this, I thought to myself "I have been waiting for like years and nothing has been coming around with nothing coming in sight". So, should I just wait then? This means that I won't approach random women, no messaging random girls on IG, and etc. I used to just let things happen and I also got nothing.
Soooo, yes and no. You are only 19, so there is plenty of time to get a date, but if you really want a date soon then there are a few things that might help. You should meet people, a girl can't get to know you if you never meet the girl, but don't try to force a relationship to happen. You are young and in the Air Force, so probably fit, so just be yourself and talk to a few girls in person. Also, girls love a guy in uniform
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Where does this girls love a guy in a uniform coming from? It's a myth
It isn't a myth, but it also isn't a miracle worker. Women do like a uniform because it is a sign of commitment, fitness, and heroism. Also, uniforms usually fit well and tend to look well groomed.
No, but my dad and a friend are. Also, my cousin is a cop and I know somebody that is a firefighter. Also, I was raised in a house of women and all I have heard my entire life is about how hot men in uniform are. Maybe I am wrong, but that is just what I have heard
They are completely right, trust me it happens when you least expect it, you are very young, you have plenty of time, i found my true love when i was 26 , nothing wrong with it, so stop challanging time and yourself, just because everyone does it, doesn't mean you have to do it. Do you think your friends that have a relationship RIGHT KNOW are meant to be forever? Trust me... relationships at your age are rarely meant to last an eternety. Focus on your priorities and let nature do the rest.
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Anonymous
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The more desperate you show you are tge more tgey will run away from you. We dont like desperated guys. Try just friendships , normal talks and if you two vibe there will be an obvious and natural connection.
Are women worth the trouble. Have as much sex as you can but there is no girl out there waiting for you. When you turn 32 they will be all over you because they will be dried up, obese and uglier than when they were 18 but who the fuck would want them then?
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Anonymous
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If you keep waiting, you'll only get older and not a girlfriend. They don't know how to find love. Do yourself a favor and be proactive. If you want something, go get it. No one is gonna hand it to you.
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