There might be something about you she isn’t happy with. I was angry at one of my long term contacts cause she mocked me for my conservative attitudes towards sex and gender and I thought it was disgusting that she would make fun of somebody for being more obedient to God than her. I also got annoyed with her because she always told me my views were stupid and not valid when I had a difference of opinion as her and she would invent reasons to slander me when she was bored like suggest I was stalking the guy I liked - with no evidence whatsoever that I was stalking him, you don’t causally accuse people of big crimes with no reason unless you have no integrity. Also the fact she refused to see good in me - told me my goals were unattainable - told me my university degree was worthless - always photographed me from the ugliest angles when I asked her to take my photo - refuse to drive 5 minutes to the store to buy me tea when I offered to pay her back and I did not have a Costco membership. Why I do not initiate contact that much anymore.
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If there is a significant difference between how someone acts around you and how they act around others, that can be a red flag. It sounds like you're more invested and dependent on her than she is on you. You can share with her what you see as special about her, and maybe that will help her connect with you, but if she is showing no interest in initiating anything, maybe that's telling you she only tolerates you, not enjoys you. It may be time to expand on your circle of friends.
Yeah, I don't see what there is in it for you to stay friends with her
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