Search Results: if you text the guy first all the time

Cutting contact with toxic friend. Should I tell him I'll cut contact or just do it?

I used to be friends with a guy from a mutual friend group. We often went to do things with the same group and spoke often. After a while I noticed that he kept sending flirty messages and double/triple texts with gifs...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I say something? If so, how long should I wait before saying something?

Hey! Need help 🙃 Long story short: I have been in a situationship with a guy since this summer, but we didn’t talk for like 3 months. Back in October he started liking my pictures again and somehow started talking...

xbaesevans

Xper 1 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Is it true that man are only nice to the women they like or have feelings for?

A while back in 2015 my “guy friend” had told me he had feelings for me at first I couldn’t believe it because we would argue all the time through text I known him since 2013 but we had finally meet on December 2014 when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Serious Question: Why Do Women Quickly Lose Interest in Me? Unraveling The Mystery?

I am just an ordinary Tall, muscular guy with distinctive features like short curly hair, earrings, and tattoos who has gone through some dating trouble recently. Fitness is my lifestyle essentially. I would definitely...

Josh_K223

Xper 1 Age: 26

Dating

Girls always end up immediately losing interest in me, why?

I'm a Tall, muscular guy with short curly hair, earrings, and tattoos. Fitness is my lifestyle essentially. I would definitely say I'm a very confident and social guy as well. A LOT of people that I've encountered in my...

Celticsaretrash

Xper 2 Age: 23

Dating

Why would a guy say he doesn’t want to see you again?

HE asked me out on the date. I said ok. We went on a few dates. I asked him where he thinks it’s going. He said he doesn’t feel anything at all for me, he never thinks about me, and he never misses me when he’s not seeing...

missgurl1029

Xper 3 Age: 30

Dating

What do I do next with my friend?

I have a friend. For my bday we went out she bought me drinks. I was having relationship problems with my ex ( we’re both bi ) and she told me I shouldn’t be with an insecure guy. I asked her why she hadn’t flirted with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Could she be the one for me?

So I’ve been trying to find my significant other for so long, and out of nowhere, I met this cute Chinese girl who’s my age (I’m a Mexican American guy). And I never met anyone like her. It’s like I instantly fell in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Could my friend be lying about liking me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I made out with my guy friend and now he's distant. Why?

I need some advice please... we've been friends for about 15 months and there's always been a certain vibe with us, always teasing and flirting with each other but we feel super comfortable with each other like we would...

talia44

Xper 1 Age: 21

Guy's Behavior

I miss him, what should I do?

So the beginning of last month I met a guy. He was a bit older than I am and at first, I thought it was a little weird seeing that we had a nine-year age gap. He is a college student like I am. The way he approached me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Should I date someone else or pursue my friend?

I have a work friend. For my bday we went out she bought me drinks. I was having relationship problems with my ex ( we’re both bi ) and she told me I shouldn’t be with an insecure guy. I asked her why she hadn’t flirted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Should I stop seeing this guy?

I’ve been seeing this guy that I used to work with off and on for a few months and I can just tell that he’s only after one thing. When we first started talking we went to this arcade twice but after that it would just be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

How to start a first conversation with a guy?

English AND DUTCH I can't get the boy who works as a barista out of my mind. I only saw him on 2 different days but I think about him all the time. We made eye contact a few times and if my imagination is not...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

He’s just playing games right?

So me and this guy have been hooking up for about a month. A lot. But there’s been SO much freaking drama and I already know this is toxic and will be probably the entire time it goes on. But for now it’s fun. We take...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

If a man doesn't communicate much in between dates, does it mean he's not interested?

Matched with this guy couple of weeks ago on Bumble and it escalated pretty fast. We were texting sporadically throughout the day almost every day and then he finally asked me out. Our date was amazing and I think I fell...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is this guy shy or what?

I met this guy, I am 28, he is 28 (so not that young). When I met him we were in a big group but he stood out somehow. He is not handsome or anything but I thought he was respectful and he was looking at me in a cute way....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is she friendzoning me after kissing me?

I have a work friend. For my bday we went out she bought me drinks. I was also having relationship problems with my ex ( we’re both bi ) and she told me I shouldn’t be with an insecure guy. I eventually asked her why she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What does this behavior mean, are guys like this?

I was with a guys that would stalk outside my dorm, try to keep me from family, sleep deprivation etc but what stood out to me was this: We made plans to see each other and I was looking forward to it. Then all of a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

A guy got me pregnant and he promised to be responsible. But now after gis family found out about the baby he claims that he's giving me space?

So I've been in a relationship with a guy for just under a year and by the end of June this year we found out i was pregnant. My first instinct was to abort because im way too young and i didn't know him well enough to...

Anonymous

(18-24)