So I've been in a relationship with a guy for just under a year and by the end of June this year we found out i was pregnant. My first instinct was to abort because im way too young and i didn't know him well enough to want to keep the baby. Fast forward to now , both our families know about the baby and even though im the pregnant one whos life is on hold, his family reacted more dramatically. So since his family found out I've noticed that he distances himself from me, he tells me that the reason he doesn't call or text as much is because his mom wants him to focus on college. And i confronted him about it and how it doesn't make sense when it takes less than a min to send a text. Anyway after speaking about it i asked him if we were breaking up to which he replied with im acting crazy and he doesn't know whats up with me. And then afterwards he told me he doesn't call or text because he's guving me space. I never asked for space, im pregnant and in need of his support. So every time i text him he doesn't respond to all my messages, he doesn't ask about the baby or my health. These are things i have to say because he won't ask or show any interest in it. And now I've decided not to text him and he hasn't called or texted or at least replied to my last text. As much as i domt want to jump to conclusions or assume the worst i really feel unwanted, i feel like he's found someone else or he doesn't want to be with me anymore. Even though his family is playing a part in all this i don't think that if he actually cared he would go along with it. Am i just insecure or is he really not interested anymore. I have been there for hum so many times, I've asked him how i can make the situation better but he always navigates these conversations into a different direction. And when he calls the calls only last for 23 seconds on average and when the people around him ask who he's talking to, he calls me his cousin. I really want to know if i should just cut my losses and move on?
A guy got me pregnant and he promised to be responsible. But now after gis family found out about the baby he claims that he's giving me space?
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4 mo
Broke it off!!
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