I need some advice please... we've been friends for about 15 months and there's always been a certain vibe with us, always teasing and flirting with each other but we feel super comfortable with each other like we would with out best friends. He's very emotionally unavailable and always jokes around instead of admitting feelings (very Chandler from friends vibe) but I've grown to know him really well and can guess how he's feeling most of the time. Anyways, two nights ago he came over for a movie night, we cooked together 🥰 and cuddled in like four different positions on the couch (he's not usually a physical touch person, at least with others). After the movie ended he kissed ne and we ended up making out with me on top of him and it was amazing!! I think it was his first actual kiss and I know he has never been in a relationship before. Now he's distant AGAIN and when I asked to grab a coffee together yesterday since he forgot a board game at my place (it wasn't awkward or anything) he was like "just bring it with you if you can when we go out with Nadia" (she's a mutual friend). The three of us will be going out for drinks in like 5 days or so. He hasn't called or texted me at all and I don't want to be that desperate and call him but I miss him and just want to know that he wants to spend time with me even if we're busy.. I can't be the only one who can't get him out of my head and want to spend time with him. Not talk about what happened or anything god I just love his company and we have the most incredible chemistry and such an amazing time together always.. Why is he acting this way?
I made out with my guy friend and now he's distant. Why?
