I made out with 2 guys in one night?

[Anonymous]

so there was this party and i got a lot more drunk than i have ever been and i have had a crush on this one guy before and so of course drunk i was into him and we made out and hooked up, we went to bed together (not sex) and the only thing we did was cuddle and make out and i pretty much spent the entire night with just him, but there was also another guy who i made out with just because he was hot but i stopped kissing him after i realized what i was doing but now everyone knows that i made out with two guys that are really good friends and the guys treat it as just a meaningless hookup but i can't help but think are they going to think I'm slutty now? because what i did WAS slutty, but i only made out with them thats it, and i personally feel only the one counts as a hookup and that was the one i had a crush on and we have been talking for a while so... am i a slut and will no guys like me? :/

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also everyone at the party hooked up with multiple people if that makes it any better?

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I've also never done anything like that and plan not to again :/

[Paris13]

If anyone should Mention the Matter with "Two guys in one nite," Simply give them a chuckle, tell them you had One too many, and that included the 'Two friends' that you Made Out with...
To start fresh, for I know how bad you're feeling, how humiliated it must be, Continue with the 'Crush' like Nothing ever happened. Being you both 'Have been talking for awhile,' then Continue your 'One counts as a hookup' if he doesn't seem to have had a problem with this, and isn't making anything out of it. Apparently he doesn't think of you as 'Slut,' and I don't frankly either. You tied one on, you got carried away, and it wasn't as though you had this "Romp in the hay." Really------What's to "Kiss and----Say?"
If it's any consolation, my mom's motto in life has always been: This too shall pass." Tomorrow they all will find something else to 'Babble on' about. Just let it take it's course.
Good luck. xx

[Paris13]

I just saw Your Update: Looks like it was a---Party mix then...:)) xx

[pr3ttybr0wn]

girl there are people at that party who probably did worse than that, nobody will care about what u did! they might talk a little shit but it won't be a big deal. just know u can never have any hookups with a guy in that friend circle again. and be careful before u end up with sores all over ur mouth

[MissConfused93]

Everyone who's anyone does this at least once in high school. Don't sweat it, just don't do it again!

[Rail2k]

I'd probably think the girl just got way too drunk, though if she did things like that a lot then I'd think she was slutty. Of course the fact that she can get that drunk and do things like that probably wouldn't give me much faith in the girl to be honest, I mean if it happened once it can happen again -- maybe when I'm in a relationship with her.

What's done is done, I'd just try to make the best of it. Probably try not to let something like that happen again though.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

They may think you're slutty. Some guys are into sluts. Really the only thing that matters is how YOU feel about your behavior and how you think you should conduct yourself.

[femmeme]

Bingo. But they definitely will thing you're a slut. As unfortunate as it is, you're in highschool and highschoolers are some of the most ruthess and closeminded you'll experience and have to encounter every day. Plus, they're good friends. They're definitely going to talk about it behind your back. That's a given. But like this guy said, at the end of the day, it really only matters how you feel about yourself. Don't beat yourself up for it. You made a mistake and now you have to deal with the consequences.

[skeptic007]

i made out with 4 girls in one day one time so dont even worry about whether they think you're a slut or not doesn't matter

[Anonymous]

I don't think anyone will care that much