I had sex with my best guy friend?

[Tlk0104]

I’ve been best friends with this guy for over a year. It’s the closest I’ve ever been to anyone, he is my rock. I love him. I have deep rooted feelings for him, but I never thought he felt the same. The tension was always there though. One night we were hanging out and one thing led to another. I still can’t believe it happened. I’ve never been more confused about my feelings though. It isn’t awkward now, we are still just as close. But, it hasn’t progressed anywhere. It’s just the same it was before. Did he see it as just a friends with benefits type deal? Or does he truly have feelings for me. I really don’t know how to feel about all this and want and outside perspective, maybe from a guy.

[kyleelyn199723]

That we can’t honestly tell, however most men will be friend a woman to get closer to having sex with her, or because he has feelings for her. Maybe you should discuss that with him especially because you opened up to having sex with him. What you allow, is the outcome of the situation.

[vald9inches]

It honestly depends but i would think he is in the same position as you. I would just ask him directly as soon as you can so you both know where you stand ☺️

[spartan55]

Don't know. I don't believe in being friends with women I am attracted to.

[steveadams89]

When I was younger I’d had sex with a few friends and nothing really come of it but if your getting confused with feelings I’d say speak to him about it

[Wise4myage]

I think he does have feelings for you, but you really need to discuss this with him.

[Clarke498]

I have a similar relationship with someone. So if he feels even remotely similar, just ask him?

[eagle1951]

bet he has feeling for you as well

[Pterodon]

Ask him