Is it weird I have sex with my guy best friend?

[Anonymous]

Ok so Ik I’m probably gonna sound stupid asf but I do have sex with one of my guy best friends occasionally. We’ve been friends for 3 years and our relationship is not romantic at all we aren’t touchy we don’t flirt with each other we talk normally and there isn’t any romantic emotional connection n Ik he doesn’t feel that way about me bc one he’s very bold and is super flirty and if he wants a girl he makes it known n In our friendship he has had gfs (we didn’t do anything when he had gfs by the way) he’s also kinda a whore n a little sex addict. For me I have no feeling for him I can say that 100% and I honestly don’t catch feelings easily. when we have sex it’s not lovey dovey and majority of the times it’s been when we’re drunk. People always assume things about us that we’re together which makes me kinda uncomfortable n he gets annoyed bc he doesn’t like when girls think I’m his girlfriend bc he thinks it scares them away. I don't know if it’s wrong I kinda feel guilty but I don't know why bc I’m single and so is he

[FilmGuy93]

It's unusual, but the fact you can do it comfortably is good. You enjoy having sex together and can stay friends. "Weird" has a negative connotation, but it doesn't need to be a bad thing. Have fun!

[one1wild00]

You guys are just fulfilling each others sexual needs until at least one of you finds a partner. not weird, practical.

[Asker]

Ya this is exactly how I would describe it

[one1wild00]

I would have enjoyed having a friend like that for so many years.

[mandyfire98]

I don't consider it weird if both of you are consenting adults and it doesn't negatively impact your friendship.

I was FWBs for a while with my best guy friend that I've known since highschool. We had sex many times. We no longer do but we still hang out from time to time and talk. I've also hooked up once with another close guy friend of mine and we are still close friends.

[Asker]

Ya I don’t see a problem with it it’s jus our entire friendship people have always assumed we were doing things even before they did but for some reason I’d always get called a hoe back when we were in school bc of it so I think that’s why i question if it’s weird

[RealMarek]

What would “scare” me away about your friend if I was a girl would be that he’s having sex with someone else. That’s a dealbreaker for a lot of people.

[Asker]

Ya that’s understandable but he’s loyal n wouldn’t try anything with me if he had a girlfriend n I would try anything with him if he had one

[RealMarek]

Right, but I think a lot of people would not get involved with someone who was recently sleeping with another person even if it was casual.

[exitseven]

It is not weird. If the two of you enjoy each others company and neither will be hurt it is okay. Personally I could not see doing this without falling in love with her.

[spartan55]

Friends don't fuck each other. Just because you claim you are 'only friends' doesn't make it true.

[Asker]

Mhm I don't know if we’re only friends I don't know how to describe the relationship but what I could say fs is there is no feelings

[Anonymous]

Would only consider that if I had feelings for my friend. Wouldn't do that with a regular friend otherwise.

[Asker]

I think about that but I think it depends on the person really but I could say we’re not regular friends

[Bklynbadboy12]

Are you listening to yourself if there is no connection at all then why do you fuck him why waste your time when you already have a boyfriend and does he know

[Asker]

I don’t have a boyfriend and it’s mainly just to satisfy eachother

[Bklynbadboy12]

Oh if that's the case then go for it he's a lucky guy

[ChrisMike1919]

No it's not weird. It's something quite usual these days.

[Anonymous]

No that seems pretty typical for most b****es today. 🤣

[Asker]

Why u disrespectful bc one of ur friends wanna fuck u?

[Berethor]

It friends with benefits at that point.

[Asker]

Lmao literally

[Staximus]

Sounds like you are both in denial

[Asker]

In denial of?

[mydadsbuyingmilk]

did u consider being fuckbodies lol

[Asker]

Well no bc we had our friendship before we started fucking around

[Nahid1707]

i agree with what Mandy say, are you happy?

[Asker]

Yes I just had a lot of people judge our friendship so I don't know if this was okay

[Nahid1707]

Are you two the only people you have and had sex with?

[Asker]

No we both have other people we mess around with but he has way more then i do

[Nahid1707]

That is ok and yeah you are happy 😊

[baserunner611]

You got a problem. So he knew that how you feeling

[Wise4myage]

Not as long as you both are enjoying it.

[Joker_]

yeah