I'm a Tall, muscular guy with short curly hair, earrings, and tattoos. Fitness is my lifestyle essentially. I would definitely say I'm a very confident and social guy as well. A LOT of people that I've encountered in my 24 years of life, have told me that I'm very good looking or would simply just stare at me. I have had a lot of girlfriends in the past as well. I don't know if this is strictly an "attractive" guy issue, but I recently started to lose confidence after I would approach girls who would show they were attracted or stare at me multiple times, we'd have a great first conversation, then I would ask for their number or snapchat, they would give it to me, add me back, then act uninterested a day or two later. Its become a pattern nowadays. One situation in particular, me and this one girl at my gym kept making eye contact for like a month straight. One day, we just starting talking and had a good conversation. I even asked if she would be down to get food sometime. She then responds with "Yea, I'll give you my number". She literally offered me her number without me having to ask. She even brought up how she worked at this clothing store and said that she wanted to give me a discount on some purchases if I ever come to the store. The issue is that this girl would barely text back and sometimes respond after 1-2 weeks or not at all. I felt the energy and decided to just move on. This girl isn't even one of those girls that looks for attention constantly, she's super humble. Then 2 months later, I see her at the gym with another guy who's not even as attractive as me (Sorry to sound egotistical, but I have to make a point here). I don't even brag about myself, I talk to these ladies in a way where I can understand them and their interests. It doesn't really make sense. Drop a comment if you understand.
I feel for you bro and look at 29 in a romance sense I'm still not much further along, yet I appreciate other wonderful things in my lucky life. That said I just don't bother with women anymore. I'm not flirting with men or other genders either. I just simply have adopted the attitude of, if she's not going to ask me out or actually be upfront or drop hints, I don't bother with asking women out at all not even participating in their flirting. Polite yet cold shoulder is me. So I just feel like many women don't even know what they even thought they want. Lol. I do like saving more money as a single man 🙂🥳
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Do you actually ask for dates at a specific time and place? "Do something sometime" is a big nothing. Have you tried "Are you free Saturday? We could get dinner then go see the Flaming Freaks at The Dirty Dive"
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