Hey! Need help đ
Long story short: I have been in a situationship with a guy since this summer, but we didnât talk for like 3 months. Back in October he started liking my pictures again and somehow started talking again in November but not completely. We had things to talk about and met twice in December to talk, where we talked about what happened in summer and what was happening, he said strong words like in his head he knew I might be the right person but he is scared of getting hurt. After the first meeting I texted him I respected his fear and I was there whenever he was ready but I would not pressure him or run after him. He never addressed that text until last Wednesday when he asked me to explain it. We met for the third time and talked a lot. Long story short I told him I was interested in him but I would not do anything if he wasnât. I told him he confuses me bc I know why I want to see him but why does he? He asked me if I wanted him to be more than I friend and I said yes. His response to all this was first to hug me and kiss my head and then we kissed a lot. Things got heated but nothing happened bc I had my period. He acted like a âsweetâ boyfriend, wanting cuddles, kisses, stuff like that. Before going home I asked him âwhat should I wait for now?â and he said he was busy the two days after and added âletâs see!â and then said to give him a kiss before getting out of the car.
When we started talking he said he hoped I would take initiative and tell him what I wanted to say, whatever it was, always. Now, I havenât heard from him. He always does that, he doesnât text and then out of nowhere asks to hang out but Iâm so over it. I canât do this anymore and wonder everyday if I will hear from him or not, especially after the kiss which I thought would change something. I wanted to text him that his fear was hurting me and not him as he thought.
3 mo
Should I say something? If so, how long should I wait before saying something?
