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Should I say something to my boyfriend about his financial decisions? please read details?

Anonymous
My 34 y/o boyfriend and I are in a serious long distance relationship and next fall I am supposed to be moving to California with him. he's been making a reoccurring comment about looking into buying an iPhone XS Max solely for the camera- not to switch services. Mind you, he NEVER takes pictures or videos or anything. He also has a company phone with his job and then his main phone that we communicate on, so that means he will have 3 phones total, and I think with how expensive it is to live in Cali that would be counterproductive to the plans we have in place with moving me there.
The thing is,
1- he was unemployed until 5 months ago and didn’t have any money/spent all of his 401k from his previous job.
2- now that he is employed (making around 50k) he pays nearly $800 in child support every month
3- he lives with his mom

TLDR: Would I be wrong for telling my boyfriend that he is wasting money by buying a THIRD phone just for the 4K camera?
Updates:
28 d
Nevermind he just texted me saying he bought it -_-
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