I've been on about 7 or 8 dates with this guy...this is someone who is going to be in my life for a long time because his bro is engaged to my sis, so we're def gonna see each other again. But anyway, two nights ago we hung out with a group of friends. Every time we hang out, he acts like he's my boyfriend but then tells me he doesn't want a relationship. Yesterday he said he was going to call but he never did so I went to a bar with my friends. Long story short, I ran into him there. He said hello and then was really short with me and he went back to his friends. I didn't see him again all night and he didn't even say goodbye when he left. My friends ended up leaving the bar with some guys, so I was stuck with no ride home. So, I called my guy and asked him if he can pick me up since he lives literally walking distance from the bar and he said this "I'm sorry, I'm at home now and I'm drunk as well. You're gonna have to take a taxi" and I haven't heard from him since. He didn't even check if I made it home or not. Should I say something to him about it? I'm really hurt that he acted like that.
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yeah I'm not sure he likes you very much.
1. he acts like your boyfriend but he doesn't want a relationship with you
2. he says he will call but he doesn't
3. he didn't even say good bye to you when he was about to leave, not very boyfriend like
4. he didn't call to check up on you to see if you made it home safely
maybe he doesn't want to be your boyfriend
just leave him, and find someone who does and who will treat you better0