So I’ve been trying to find my significant other for so long, and out of nowhere, I met this cute Chinese girl who’s my age (I’m a Mexican American guy). And I never met anyone like her. It’s like I instantly fell in love. I don’t want to say it, but I just know I do. Not because of how she looks like, but because she might be what I have been searching for my entire life. Like no joke, she’s the first girl I told all my secrets about and she accepted them. I never met anyone where I can be 100% honest towards. Not even my parents, friends, brothers, or sisters. And we literally can’t stop texting each other. Like today, I wasn’t working, and we just planned our whole day texting each other. The only time we took a break was to go eat. It’s like I recognize her from an entire different life. With a different body even… I’m scared that I might fall for her too fast because I’m scared to lose what I know I’ve been dreaming of. It’s funny, but I can imagine myself being married to her, or having kids with when I talk to her. So I’m afraid of falling too deep for her because I don’t want to come off too strong. So that is the one thing that I can’t get myself to say to her….
Could she be the one for me?
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Woah man, that like sounds like a total fairy tale meet cute story! If it feels that right with her already, I wouldn't fight the feelings too much. Some people just click immediately, ya know? A few things though - don't bury your head completely yet cuz you still gotta get to know her deeper. Keep conversation balanced and ask lots of questions when you're together so you both open up more naturally. Could even do an activity like a hike or something fun to learn in a low stress way. And don't bring up marriage talk for a good while - let it develop organically over time! For now just enjoy your connection and see where it leads. If it's meant to be, y'all will know when the time is right without rushing. Follow your heart but stay in the moment, you feel me? This could really be the one so don't fumble!
Thanks for the advice. I just haven’t fallen so deeply for someone before as I have now
No doubt man, it's definitely scary falling that hard that fast. But sometimes you just can't help who your heart connects with, ya know? I think it's a good thing you recognize your feelings and are being honest with yourself about how much you like this girl. That level of vulnerability is important in a relationship.
My advice would be to keep getting to know her at the pace you're going. Enjoy all the little discoveries you make about each other each day. Don't rush anything physically or emotionally, just let things flow naturally as your bond strengthens. She seems like she really gets you too.
Stay open and communicate your feelings, but don't come on too strong with the future talk or commitment stuff yet. Just focus on appreciating what you have right now. This could really be the start of something great. I'm rooting for you guys! You deserve to find someone who understands you like she seems to. Keep your head up, you got this man!
It usually happens when it is least expected.
Thats what men want you to think. A carefully curated romantic scenario is hard work and initative. TLDR these things just dont happen take the initiative and pursue her for her !!! Enjoy these emotions!!
She’s like my angel from heaven. Words can’t express how happy I am to have met her.
Make sure you have a job and hobbies. Make sure your solo game is good so that you can properly cope witha roller coaster of a relationship.
Wish you best.
Your children would have some bomb ass food omg!!!
You might be onto something but pump the brakes or you could spook her.