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I was inspired to ask this question when I came across the above photo on Reddit. It was apparently a post about a guy and his girlfriend who used to be very religious Mormons who always dressed "modestly" now becoming "ex-Mormons" who enjoy wearing "short shorts" together and don't pay attention to modesty anymore. And while I thought that was very sweet and "good for them," I couldn't help but notice the enormous length difference between the girl's shorts and the guy's shorts. And whether I liked it or not, it pissed me off. Not necessarily because of this isolated incident itself, but because of how common/widespread this phenomenon is in general. Even when it comes to children's shorts.

Like just look at the picture itself, it's a perfect example... her "short shorts" only have like a 2-3 inch inseam to them and stop at the very TOP of her thighs; while his "short shorts" have at least a solid 7-8 inch inseam to them and stop only SLIGHTLY above the knees, exposing only merely his very lower thighs.

Keep in mind these are supposed to be "short" male shorts too. Usually men's shorts don't show a few inches of thigh above the knee like in the photo. It's not uncommon for men's shorts to be knee-length or below the knee, with an inseam ranging from 12-15 inch inseam. So the length disparity is often even bigger than shown here.

Meanwhile, while the girl's shorts are indeed "short shorts" it's also hard to find shorts longer than that in the women's section, and as a result almost every woman wears that same length of shorts. So by female shorts standards they're not "short" but just "normal." And even the normal length women's shorts are short as fuck when compared to men's "short shorts"... you can kind of see the problem here.

It just feels like the fashion industry is unnecessarily sexualizing women and trying to get them to show way more skin/thigh than their male counterparts. It doesn't feel right.

So i'm currently bring courted by 2 guys and i'm haing a hard time choosing. So guy 1 he's sweet and nice and he really smellls nice not that thats important and he goes above and beyond to do stuff for me sounds perfect right but there is a minor flaw when we're kissing and making out in his car and clothes starts coming off, i stop him when he goes to my jeans but then he says he wants me to be more comfortable and he won't try t put it in but he does anyways after saying that. He pampers me and says he loves me and all that but thats the only issue i have with him. Guy 2 is a bit different yeah i feel like i can be a couch potato around him and not care how i look (idc with guy one either). But he's really big on consent and he asks before he does stuff he doesn't just do it guessing that i might be okay with it and he's also really sweet and we can talk for hours on end and it isn't just a one sided conversation we both each other time to talk and it just just feels comfortable being together and he's also not big on pda just like i am, guy number 1 i don't think he even wants us to be seen together with anyone he knows and most of his friends are married or he's ashamed or something guy 2 doesn't mind holding my hand at all in public or whatever. Our dates take place in open places, Guy 2 doesn't even want to bring me outside at all or he rents rooms for us to hang out or we hang out in his car or stuff i think he feels like he's doing it for my sake when he's not. And he doesn't give up the chance to show how much money he has and always offers to buy me stuff even after i've told him how uncomfortable it makes me. Second guy asks if i say no thats the end of the discussion. its not that i like guy 2 more i just feel like he gets me more. respects my decision more even.