The honest truth is I don’t have a lot of choices in my dating life. In fact, I have no choices. My girlfriend is with me because I was the only guy who would put up with her. She is very beautiful. Very gorgeous. She also has a lot of followers on all her social media but she is stuck up and conceited. She was an only child and her parents spoiled her to the fullest.
I can give examples on how. This one time we were at drive through for coffee and the girl working there couldn’t hear me so she got off my car and started yelling at her really bad. She was like “CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW!” I was just thinking to myself… this girl is making your drink. Be nice to her. She could do something to it.
But I always stay quiet. The truth is I still love her and I am honestly with her for three reasons. I like sharing my life with someone, she is hot and for the s*x…
In this world, this is as good as it gets for me as far as having a girlfriend goes. This is the best I could do. Nobody in my family also likes her. She has brought her own food to family get togethers because she doesn’t like how my family cooks. She is very extra work. She has told me she didn’t like my gifts due to the WRONG COLOR. To give her a successful gift, it has to be perfect down to the item and color.
This is the best I could explain.
I will try my best to explain but can you be honest and tell me if you would be with someone with a bad personality due to having no choice?
That is just atrocious. It may seem like the best girl for you and best option, but she’s ‘bottom of the barrel’ material.
There are kinder and still confident people out there.
She makes zero effort for you or anyone..
She seems loud.. that’s a headache.
She’ll hurt your ears, quiet your voice, hurt your feelings, anger your family, cause bitterness, and a miserable marriage or a violent separation.
If that’s her in the photo, she even seems selfish and almost narcissistic. I don’t know who that lady is, but I looked at the picture first, and she seemed that way to me. Not genuine, not tender.
I say you CAN certainly do better than THAT.
Can you do so much better, as to get a woman who ideally suits you? That part may take some time.
I say don’t tie the knot with that lady you mentioned.
I know it’s tough, but she won’t enhance your life in the long run. She’s only helping you ‘make-do’ for now… to just get by a bit, but soon you’d just see it’s not worth it, and that’s if you don’t become numb to it.
To answer your question- I can be honest, and say I have been with someone who had a bad personality with me. It’s tough, and I am still with them. That’s what happens to people who get tired of waiting for mr./mrs. Right.
I can honestly say, it’s just him not loving me and making what he can, and me taking what I can and just getting by. I put more effort in to it. He doesn’t. I know it won’t be forever, though. I know the truth. I also have factors that will help force me to move on at a certain point, whether I will have the will power or not.
You in the meantime, I would suggest to distance from an uncaring person like that while you have the truth, and will power to do so.
If you need to hook up with a rebound, try that I guess, but don’t linger in toxicity… eventually it’ll penetrate your skin.. 🛢🧪☢️🚫⚠️☠️
... she insults your family and their cooking, gets pissy because you gifted her things that were not to her standards, and is shitty to customer service. She sounds like a shitty human being. All of those are three big red flags in my eyes.
Dump her ass and move on for someone better. Embrace being single and improving your mindset instead of staying with a cunt of a woman.
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