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Search Results: red flags
What’s wrong with him and can someone explain?
I was on Yubo. Yubo is an app where you can find friends or relationships. This guy texted me new friends and he sent his number. I said I’ll text you after I get finished calling someone and he sent red flag emoji. How...
Anonymous
(18-24) Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, how would you feel if your boyfriend would NOT be mad if you ever cheated on him?
I don't mean "not mad" in the sense that he is quietly planning his revenge, but rather that he would be very calm and understanding about the situation and that he will love you the same. Let's say you cheat on your...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this a red flag?
Is it a red flag if my man used to comment on all his exes posts but rarely comments on mine? He was with his ex last summer, and would legit comment on every single thing she posted on IG, without fail. With me, it’s...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do people have such nasty irrational reactions?
What did I say, I assumed that you might have some fun on the trip too? I think it’s sad that a person with children could be this rude. I didn’t do anything. I guess it’s better I know now that they’re crazy. Since any...
Anonymous
(36-45) What do you think about the Tea app?
There's a controversial app called Tea Dating Advice where only women can participate and discuss (uploading pictures with names) men in their area. Talk about their experiences with them, add red or green flags, and even...
avery58
Guru Age: 27 Friends with benefits?
I briefly dated a guy (about a month). He let me know he didn't feel the spark he was looking for. He said he loved spending time together and would love to be friends. I can see how we are not a good fit based on a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I ghost or dump a man IMMEDIATELY once he shows ONE red flag?
I be hearing these stories of girls who go on dates or talk to guys and as I’m listening I’m learning one red flag after another. Like a guy randomly defending cheating, or a guy saying other ridiculous things that show...
Jekdnnf
Xper 1 Age: 90 “you deserve better”?
I dated my ex for a year before we ended, he’s a pretty insecure person & has messed up a lot with me in the past & present day. He tried to make a lot of things better but it’s really hard to move forward because the...
Sophia2795
Xper 5 Age: 30 Why would this guy break out date for my not driving? Is that a red flag for dating?
A guy told me he refuses to date a woman that doesn’t drive, no car because then hell end up being her driver and being used. First of all, I get around on my own. I take public transportation, Uber (if I need too). I’m...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Adixia
Xper 1 Age: 33 
Guys, Would this be a RED flat to you about me?
I’m in my mid 20s, still live at home (rent is too high to move out, should have moved out years ago), single, autistic…we’ll have aspergers, work a full time job and don’t drive but I do take the bus. See any red flags...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don't people see red flags when someone has multiple baby daddy's or baby momma's?
One can be explained away.. when you're talking about being in a relationship with someone who has children with two or more other people... I think some red flags need to start going up...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is this a bad age gap?
I’m 20 in a few weeks and I’m in the talking phase with a guy who’s 27. He doesn’t know that I’m 20 soon, just that I’m 19. He’s already graduated uni and is set in his career, whereas I’m not even in uni. He seems a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is it so easy for non-white women to overlook RED FLAGS of white men?
I remember on this very site, there was a female user from Trinidad, who said she looked down on local men and went into the arms of white men (many of whom were foreigners). The end result was that she got used for sex...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you worship celebrities?
I personally hate people, girls in particular that go to concerts and worship these celebrities. I think it’s embarrassing and is a red flag. Like those celebs are just people. Get a life.
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Is it a red flag if someone is constantly contradicting themselves?
Could this be a sign of some kind of mental illness like skitzophrenia? Some of the contradictions are logical as people's views do change, but others completely contradict facts and happened in a very short span of time....
KostasKouvalis
Master Age: 27 Do you have a relative who doesn't belong in the job they have?
Just learned this recently. One of my wife's female cousins, who is 45, is a gender studies professor, and a marriage counselor.. When I asked if she was married her self, my wife's response was "no, she hates...
Anonymous
(36-45) 