What is the biggest red flag for you when someone hits on you at a party?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

It's not so much a red flag. But more like how does he hit on you... watch his eyes as he speaks to you. .. his eyes will tell you I f he's lying to you. Andvifbany guy is firm or Demanding. Listen to his tone of voice but his eyes will tell you Everything. If the guy is not having fun and not just goofing around with you being friendly and nice, then don't go out with anybody else.
A guy will really, really tell you. How much you like you? Just by the way he talks to if he just wants to get in your pants then he's going to be short brief and pushe in a way in away. And remember your the boss do leave with out your friend Not unless you know him really, really good and you trust him, catch them. I feel like your dad lol. He would tell you the same thing plus more

[Zack-Bann]

Insistence that I buy drinks


It’s easy to be taken for an ATM machine by a drunk girl at a bar if you let it happen


I’d gladly offer a woman a drink if I felt appropriate and wanted to share one with her


But on my own terms not at her request

[Anonymous]

I don't go living my life by a series of red flags that seem to be very important to people on here. They reject everyone they meet because they're on their list of red flags, and then wonder why they never get asked out.

[DishLady]

If they've been hitting on every other gal at the party and I'm just another person.

[SotiCoto]

If I somehow ended up at "a party" by some bizarre twist of fate... then absolutely anyone interacting with me in any way is a red flag.

[Chayce]

lmao elaborate

[SotiCoto]

@Chayce : The only way I'd be at a "party" is if I'd been somehow kidnapped and dragged there against my will... and consequently anyone who tried to stop me leaving would be regarded as the enemy.

[Nikki1989]

Drunken, pushy, obnoxious behavoir.

[purplepoppy]

Body posture, style of language, type of clothes, criminal hair cut

[OneViewpoint]

When her husband chimes in and cheerfully says he likes to watch.

[Staximus]

I would say the biggest one so far has been a sloppy drunk girl coming out of a bedroom with one guy and trying to pull me back into the bedroom

[Chayce]

Red flag? Probably if they're sloppy drunk and all in my face with bad breath. Boogers coming down their nose I don't know

[Yannae]

How they go about it is what makes the red or green flag. If you start groping me, we've got a problem.

[Himmothy]

They don't say anything that validates you. They just send you hints.

if I don't technically approach him he can't technically reject me.

but he did reject you so your wasting everyones time.

[Alex-Snow]

When they only talk about themself or if they are a slob or a cigarette smoker

[Anonymous]

If she is not my type, that's the only red flag if she is hitting on me.

[DryGermanGuy]

High as a kite / drunken stupor

[slatyb]

they are vaping

[Anonymous]

High. Disrespect. Ego.

[jamesgoldman]

Someone hitting on me is the red flag

[Chayce]

damnn g

[BarryLiverstone]

When they have a boyfriend

[CubaPirate]

Too drunk and smoking

[Anonymous]

How many other guys has she hit on.

[abc3643]

They are Trumpsters.

[In_Trance]

Bad teeth

[ethem438]

No. Not.