What's the biggest "Red Flag" for you in the relationship?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

1. Addiction. Drugs, alcohol, or even just destructive behavior.

2. Entitlement. You are entitled to what you earn, no more and no less. Just existing doesn’t entitle you to anything but the opportunity to pursue success - but it also means that you are responsible for your own survival and upkeep.

3. Low morals. Whether we are talking about criminal behavior, lying, cheating, fraud, or high body counts, low morals are a disqualifier.

4. Being a Feminist. Instant disqualifier.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Lying and selfishness and cheating of course , a girl that doesn’t wear my shoes the same way she expects me to wear hers , a girl that can never take accountability for her selfish decisions or behaviors, that always points fingers at you or someone else , instead of herself first. If a girl shows any of those signs, She is a walking Red Flag

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

Lack of honesty. Makes excuses for lying. Doesn't take accountability for his mistakes. Blames his mistakes on situation or others rather than own it and try not to repeat the same mistake again  Inconsiderate of others feeling especially mine. Often thinks about his own feelings and needs I have a long list of red flags but these three are the biggest red flags.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

- addiction -cheating/lying - overly sexual/feels entitled to my body - lack of communicate/lack of accountability  - low morals

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a coach, my aim is to spread love and understanding ❤️ A relationship red flag that sends my Spidey-senses tingling is dishonesty. If they're lying more than Pinocchio after a fibbing spree, it’s time to pause. Trust issues can sneak in like uninvited drama. Healthy love blooms with honesty! 🌹 Stay wary, my friend!

ohsheeT · Answer

THE BIGGEST. I s when you hear The Words. I want a divorce LO. L

Simslover92 · Answer

When they always just talk about themselves.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Lying and exploiting weak people.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

@iryna_209 choosing shorts over a skirt/miniskirt / or being obsessed with leggings/tight jeans - nobody wants someone who's too strict on fashion or only follows trends lol 🐑🐏 lol where's the individuality lol -

And finally - a woman with a humble, kind personality. Not someone who acts or flies off the handle the first sign of disagreement lol 🍳

OneViewpoint · Answer

Multiple felony convictions in 7 states. More than 3 bullet wounds. Constant sniffling and wiping nose. 5 kids and 3 baby daddies. Does not like dogs. Cannot cook Pop Tarts.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

Gaslighting
Lack of maturity
Low self awareness with Low morale character in general not trying to be a good person

If you have a understanding of psychology than
“Anyone that is not trying to improve their level of consciousness is a red flag. Key part is non red flags try to improve regardless of level.

dwreborn · Answer

Red flags would be like hiding your phone when texting, scheduling changes, and abnormal excuses. I can tell just from her voice when i ask certain questions if she's lying or not we know each other to well

aisha22 · Answer

The biggest red flag for me is dishonesty. If someone lies — even about small things — it makes everything else uncertain. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and once it’s broken, it’s very hard to build anything real or lasting.

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msc545 · Answer

A lack of empathy is the absolute worst trait a person can have, at least for me. I think that people who lack empathy are dangerous, deceitful, and malevolent, and I do not want to be anywhere near them.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Being a misogynistic right-winger.

Natasha1995 · Answer

Lack of commitment after a reasonable amount of time.

aceleon · Answer

being a modern day feminist covers everything i dislike in a woman.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I have a big Vietnam 🇻🇳 flag in my man cave.. does that count?

Ninania · Answer

Cruelty in any shape or form. If they ever do anything with malicious intent, I'm out.

Miristheiss · Answer

Lack of faith. Signs of low character. Signs that they are promiscuous.

stratford · Answer

When she thinks she's a 'catch' and expects me to worship the ground she walks on. A relationship has to be truly two way.

janemarie15 · Answer

I think, when it comes of consistency and invalidating my feelings! Very red flag! If I experience any of this, I will stop loving him!

McLlovin · Answer

When you’re talking to her if she comes off aggressive and combative like. Thats a red flag.

i_Jedi · Answer

When someone refuses to communicate and shuts down every time there’s an issue, that’s a huge red flag for me.

Sal_Monella · Answer

Even the tiniest hint of feminist ideology, even when it is sarcastic or joking. It isn't.  RUN!

loveslongnails · Answer

From the start, if she's a magat, it goes no further at all.

Anonymous · Answer

Lack of honesty and accountability. Lack of kindness and compassion  Being a feminist/leftist/democrat Wanting to change the man she is with.

Ironco · Answer

An ugly person, and I'm not talking about looks.

Anonymous · Answer

When it came to that asshole demi it was her constant cheating  When it came to Danielle it was her vicious temper she has a really bad temper and severe anger issues

BLUiiiS · Answer

When answers and messages start to contradict themselves and lyes tend to become further from truth.

Anonymous · Answer

If she has feminist or leftist views, it's a 100% show stopper for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not into girls who are passive/submissive.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

How many times does this question need to be asked

Lliam · Answer

#1 would be disloyalty.

chrissykerdock · Answer

he makes me do dirty things

lilBigPotato · Answer

Lack of trust, jealousy

Fireguy17 · Answer

drug abuse, including alcohol

exitseven · Answer

She uses illegal drugs.

RHK36 · Answer

Lack of accountability or poor communication

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

There's so many I can't think of any rn

oswaldcobblepot · Answer

Hard to say having never been in a relationship

Jennz6 · Answer

Men that cheat on you

Jay-_- · Answer

I want her all to myself. I admit 🤷🏽I'm sorry.

Kelly6 · Answer

@iryna_209 having no trust

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Girls who throw stuff at you.

Staximus · Answer

Being secretive

Pterodon · Answer

Drugs especially narcotics

beenherebefore · Answer

Inconsistency.

qwerty2469 · Answer

A woman with a nose ring, tattoos, or died hair.

mat678 · Answer

Them being toxic, selfish and not loyal

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Entitlement

glennos89 · Answer

Not being honest

Nonamez · Answer

Lack of hygiene

Ariesman81 · Answer

Equality

jusagirllol · Answer

Breaking promises

In_Trance · Answer

Poor dental hygiene

MasterKS · Answer

Bad sex!

adenniz · Answer

Lack of respect

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