What's the biggest "Red Flag" for you in the relationship?

[Iryna_209]

[MrOracle]

1. Addiction. Drugs, alcohol, or even just destructive behavior.

2. Entitlement. You are entitled to what you earn, no more and no less. Just existing doesn’t entitle you to anything but the opportunity to pursue success - but it also means that you are responsible for your own survival and upkeep.

3. Low morals. Whether we are talking about criminal behavior, lying, cheating, fraud, or high body counts, low morals are a disqualifier.

4. Being a Feminist. Instant disqualifier.

[Finchie40]

Lying and selfishness and cheating of course , a girl that doesn’t wear my shoes the same way she expects me to wear hers , a girl that can never take accountability for her selfish decisions or behaviors, that always points fingers at you or someone else , instead of herself first. If a girl shows any of those signs, She is a walking Red Flag

[Genie23]

• Lack of honesty. Makes excuses for lying.
• Doesn't take accountability for his mistakes. Blames his mistakes on situation or others rather than own it and try not to repeat the same mistake again
• Inconsiderate of others feeling especially mine. Often thinks about his own feelings and needs

I have a long list of red flags but these three are the biggest red flags.

[Genie23]

Thank you for MHO!

[Ironco]

I think we all feel like this...

[Genie23]

I hear you 🙁

[Anonymous]

- addiction

-cheating/lying

- overly sexual/feels entitled to my body

- lack of communicate/lack of accountability

- low morals

[AI Opinion]

As a coach, my aim is to spread love and understanding ❤️ A relationship red flag that sends my Spidey-senses tingling is dishonesty. If they're lying more than Pinocchio after a fibbing spree, it’s time to pause. Trust issues can sneak in like uninvited drama. Healthy love blooms with honesty! 🌹 Stay wary, my friend!

[ohsheeT]

THE BIGGEST. I s when you hear The Words.
I want a divorce LO. L

[dwreborn]

Iam close at the separation stage taking it a day to a time it sucks

[ohsheeT]

Well if your don't want it figure it out

[dwreborn]

I want it to work out and she is willing to try which is promising but the statistics say 40% of couples divorce in their 40's and 80%of those are the womens choice but if you go to counseling and both want to work on it there is a 70% chance of success I will soon be on of these statistics

[ohsheeT]

Be a leader and make your

[Simslover92]

When they always just talk about themselves.

[jennifer_bloom]

Lying and exploiting weak people.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@iryna_209 choosing shorts over a skirt/miniskirt / or being obsessed with leggings/tight jeans - nobody wants someone who's too strict on fashion or only follows trends lol 🐑🐏 lol where's the individuality lol -

And finally - a woman with a humble, kind personality. Not someone who acts or flies off the handle the first sign of disagreement lol 🍳

[mysteriousNicholas]

Much like a frypan, you know, nobody wants someone who's not very tolerant 🥳 and argues easily - uh uh

[OneViewpoint]

• Multiple felony convictions in 7 states.
• More than 3 bullet wounds.
• Constant sniffling and wiping nose.
• 5 kids and 3 baby daddies.
• Does not like dogs.
• Cannot cook Pop Tarts.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Gaslighting
Lack of maturity
Low self awareness with Low morale character in general not trying to be a good person


If you have a understanding of psychology than
“Anyone that is not trying to improve their level of consciousness is a red flag. Key part is non red flags try to improve regardless of level.

[dwreborn]

Red flags would be like hiding your phone when texting, scheduling changes, and abnormal excuses. I can tell just from her voice when i ask certain questions if she's lying or not we know each other to well

[aisha22]

The biggest red flag for me is dishonesty. If someone lies — even about small things — it makes everything else uncertain. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and once it’s broken, it’s very hard to build anything real or lasting.

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[msc545]

A lack of empathy is the absolute worst trait a person can have, at least for me. I think that people who lack empathy are dangerous, deceitful, and malevolent, and I do not want to be anywhere near them.

[Nikki1989]

Being a misogynistic right-winger.

[Natasha1995]

Lack of commitment after a reasonable amount of time.

[aceleon]

being a modern day feminist covers everything i dislike in a woman.

[Purpleronnie]

I have a big Vietnam 🇻🇳 flag in my man cave.. does that count?

[Ninania]

Cruelty in any shape or form. If they ever do anything with malicious intent, I'm out.

[Miristheiss]

Lack of faith.

Signs of low character.

Signs that they are promiscuous.

[stratford]

When she thinks she's a 'catch' and expects me to worship the ground she walks on.

A relationship has to be truly two way.

[janemarie15]

I think, when it comes of consistency and invalidating my feelings! Very red flag! If I experience any of this, I will stop loving him!

[McLlovin]

When you’re talking to her if she comes off aggressive and combative like. Thats a red flag.

[i_Jedi]

When someone refuses to communicate and shuts down every time there’s an issue, that’s a huge red flag for me.

[Sal_Monella]

Even the tiniest hint of feminist ideology, even when it is sarcastic or joking. It isn't. RUN!

[loveslongnails]

From the start, if she's a magat, it goes no further at all.

[Anonymous]

Lack of honesty and accountability.

Lack of kindness and compassion

Being a feminist/leftist/democrat

Wanting to change the man she is with.

[Ironco]

An ugly person, and I'm not talking about looks.

[Anonymous]

When it came to that asshole demi it was her constant cheating

When it came to Danielle it was her vicious temper she has a really bad temper and severe anger issues

[BLUiiiS]

When answers and messages start to contradict themselves and lyes tend to become further from truth.

[Anonymous]

If she has feminist or leftist views, it's a 100% show stopper for me.

[Anonymous]

I'm not into girls who are passive/submissive.

[Jmmmfi4]

How many times does this question need to be asked

[lilBigPotato]

Lack of trust, jealousy

[Lliam]

#1 would be disloyalty.

[chrissykerdock]

he makes me do dirty things

[mat678]

Like what?

[chrissykerdock]

@mat678 makes me rim

[Fireguy17]

drug abuse, including alcohol

[exitseven]

She uses illegal drugs.

[RHK36]

Lack of accountability or poor communication

[ChicoFromThe305]

There's so many I can't think of any rn

[oswaldcobblepot]

Hard to say having never been in a relationship

[Jennz6]

Men that cheat on you

[Jay-_-]

I want her all to myself. I admit 🤷🏽I'm sorry.

[Kelly6]

@iryna_209 having no trust

[AngryCarl2]

Girls who throw stuff at you.

[Staximus]

Being secretive

[Pterodon]

Drugs especially narcotics

[beenherebefore]

Inconsistency.

[qwerty2469]

A woman with a nose ring, tattoos, or died hair.

[mat678]

Them being toxic, selfish and not loyal

[UniquelyBasic]

Entitlement

[glennos89]

Not being honest

[Nonamez]

Lack of hygiene

[Ariesman81]

Equality

[jusagirllol]

Breaking promises

[In_Trance]

Poor dental hygiene

[MasterKS]

Bad sex!

[adenniz]

Lack of respect