Between lying and being too possessive.
I despise being lied to. I'm very open minded and I rarely deny my partners anything so long as they come to me and be honest with me. But don't lie to my face.
I don't like people who are overly possessive. I've had a partner that was all sweet and nice at first then started forbidding me to have male friends and control what I can wear. No. I'm honest front eh get go and I'll gladly show you what you're getting in to when it comes to any type of relationship with me. But under no circumstance are you to act like you have power over my being. As I wouldn't control who you can have as a friend or how you look, I expect the same courtesy in return.
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A person who doesn't have authentic listening skills. That person just talks about himself/herself. If the subject matter veers off this they will bring it back or all hell is to pay. They are not that interested in what you have to say. You are like a "sounding board" for them to talk.
Barring the obvious flirting with other men. Thinking the world revolves around her. Why haven't you texted me in the last hour, where are you going, what are you doing? I want, I want.
I briefly was with someone like this and the worst part she wrote long letters to me every morning, I mean long letters. Telling me, not asking; what she expected me to do. Then weirdly signed of with lots of kisses. I moved out after five days lol
How many relationships she's had. It's indicative of her decision making. If she's had 30 different relationships it gets really hard to believe she wants a successful relationship. She's either really dumb and doesn't learn from mistakes. Or she's just a serial dater that just chases the emotional. Either way I'm not interested in either type of woman.
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bragging about how much wealth he has 🤮 😬!
Feminist/woke. That's an immediate dealbreaker.
I'd say abusive, which is bad too and also a huge dealbreaker, but honestly, feminism and wokeness is much worse, to me.Lying if I had to pick only one.
Having questionable lifestyles including nudity and dumb social media photos and comments would be a close second.
Doesn't have a motorcycle.
(Kidding 😄)
If he's controlling.
Talking about his ex nonstop.
Checking out every girl we pass or are near.
Manipulates.
Really immature.Has OnlyFans, talks to people she fucked before, entitled and narcissistic, part of Trump’s cult, has Borderline PD, no goals, no career, wants my money too much, no effort, no open communication, sloppy, not smart.
When y all go out on dates and he never bring enough money and everytime you have to pay it sucks
If he forgets to take off his wedding ring, before picking me up for the date! Thats a REALLY big one!
lying! And it doesn't even mather what the subject is were she is lying over. If you lie I can't thrust you anymore
Trust issues no matter how hard I try thoughts always there 😐🤷🏽♂️
them: they get offended by you having boundaries
myself: i cannot be myself around themGuys who have tried to suggest I do or change things about myself to suit their ideal image of a woman.
Fortunately I’m married now and my husband has never done this.Lack of Unconditional love/lack of communication / dishonestly
Demanding access to my phone, social media, my passwords and snooping
No trust, no relationship
If he tries to isolate me from my friends and/or demands to see my phone and social media, obviously there are more but this is the biggest for me
Lying, because who knows what the hell they are really up to
When she wears your underwear home and doesn't bring them back.
I think it's being controlling for me. Major red flag.
Love bombing in the beginning and my intuition saying something is off with this person.
She loves scolding people around her. Doesn't like passionate sex often
Girls who post a lot of half naked selfies or showing off their bodies on social media.
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