What's your biggest red flag in a relationship 🚩?

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Sirenboobzilla · Accepted Answer

Between lying and being too possessive.

I despise being lied to. I'm very open minded and I rarely deny my partners anything so long as they come to me and be honest with me. But don't lie to my face.

I don't like people who are overly possessive. I've had a partner that was all sweet and nice at first then started forbidding me to have male friends and control what I can wear. No. I'm honest front eh get go and I'll gladly show you what you're getting in to when it comes to any type of relationship with me. But under no circumstance are you to act like you have power over my being. As I wouldn't control who you can have as a friend or how you look, I expect the same courtesy in return.

Cathy7734 · Accepted Answer

A person who doesn't have authentic listening skills. That person just talks about himself/herself. If the subject matter veers off this they will bring it back or all hell is to pay. They are not that interested in what you have to say. You are like a "sounding board" for them to talk.

PeteBy · Accepted Answer

Barring the obvious flirting with other men. Thinking the world revolves around her. Why haven't you texted me in the last hour, where are you going, what are you doing? I want, I want.

I briefly was with someone like this and the worst part she wrote long letters to me every morning, I mean long letters. Telling me, not asking; what she expected me to do. Then weirdly signed of with lots of kisses. I moved out after five days lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

How many relationships she's had. It's indicative of her decision making. If she's had 30 different relationships it gets really hard to believe she wants a successful relationship. She's either really dumb and doesn't learn from mistakes. Or she's just a serial dater that just chases the emotional. Either way I'm not interested in either type of woman.

Pinay_ako · Answer

bragging about how much wealth he has 🤮 😬!

MCheetah · Answer

Feminist/woke. That's an immediate dealbreaker. I'd say abusive, which is bad too and also a huge dealbreaker, but honestly, feminism and wokeness is much worse, to me.

Qdbrown · Answer

Lying if I had to pick only one. Having questionable lifestyles including nudity and dumb social media photos and comments would be a close second.

2Wheels · Answer

Doesn't have a motorcycle. (Kidding 😄) If he's controlling. Talking about his ex nonstop. Checking out every girl we pass or are near. Manipulates. Really immature.

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

Has OnlyFans, talks to people she fucked before, entitled and narcissistic, part of Trump’s cult, has Borderline PD, no goals, no career, wants my money too much, no effort, no open communication, sloppy, not smart.

butterfly113 · Answer

When y all go out on dates and he never bring enough money and everytime you have to pay it sucks

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

If he forgets to take off his wedding ring, before picking me up for the date! Thats a REALLY big one!

IJhonnyI · Answer

Trust issues no matter how hard I try thoughts always there 😐🤷🏽‍♂️

glennos89 · Answer

lying! And it doesn't even mather what the subject is were she is lying over. If you lie I can't thrust you anymore

MemeSupreme · Answer

them: they get offended by you having boundaries myself: i cannot be myself around them

RedStiletto88 · Answer

Guys who have tried to suggest I do or change things about myself to suit their ideal image of a woman.  Fortunately I’m married now and my husband has never done this.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Lack of Unconditional love/lack of communication / dishonestly

admles · Answer

Demanding access to my phone, social media, my passwords and snooping   No trust, no relationship

LostGirl9 · Answer

If he tries to isolate me from my friends and/or demands to see my phone and social media, obviously there are more but this is the biggest for me

Staximus · Answer

Lying, because who knows what the hell they are really up to

PositiveNote · Answer

When she wears your underwear home and doesn't bring them back.

Xiu92 · Answer

I think it's being controlling for me. Major red flag.

nspencer · Answer

Love bombing in the beginning and my intuition saying something is off with this person.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

She loves scolding people around her. Doesn't like passionate sex often

20thGreatRomances · Answer

Girls who post a lot of half naked selfies or showing off their bodies on social media.

maximumpower · Answer

Complaining, not working, not cleaning up own messes, generally not keeping up 50% on any part of the relationship. #1 is a preoccupation with my money.

HSalenko · Answer

Entitlement, usually means she's controlling.

HighValue · Answer

If she is a democrat I'd know we are totally incompatible.

Anonymous · Answer

Bratty, feels entitled to something especially just cause she’s a female, high maintenance.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Being disrespectful. I have a zero tolerance for that BS.

Shy_Steve · Answer

A Girl who doesn't care that much about my feelings.

dustybiker · Answer

Signs of a co trilling nature.

sheikalana · Answer

It's inconsistency for me.

Backwoodsbaby · Answer

Wealth bragging self centered control freaks

Revenant_Titan · Answer

Having your zodiac in your bio

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Shitty friends.

exitseven · Answer

If she lied to me.

Juan4574 · Answer

Choker, piercing, tattoo.

duttyjamagyal · Answer

Being a proabortion loser

Boogie_01 · Answer

Still in communication with an ex

LivingExample · Answer

Someone who has to have Everything their Way!

Zolly99999 · Answer

Catching them in a lie...

Anonymous · Answer

Brings up politics on a first date.

EaterPeter · Answer

Entitled, narcissist, princess

Anonymous · Answer

Feminist brain cancer

20yearsolder · Answer

Her boyfriend?

Anonymous · Answer

Relationship It's self is a red flag...

Ironic_Method · Answer

I take more than I recieve.

bean2k21 · Answer

A bag full of hypodermic needles

Iron_Man · Answer

A lying cheater

anon1903 · Answer

Pronatalism.

JustADudePlayinADude · Answer

Lying

MrTaboo · Answer

Attitude, entitled, brat

andy530 · Answer

Being sexually closed minded

Nahid1707 · Answer

i would say if she had guy friends 😊

driven159 · Answer

Thinking everything revolves around them

msc545 · Answer

Asking me for money.

Grond21 · Answer

Narcissism.

Anonymous · Answer

White women.

EmmaMary · Answer

Infidelity.

thatssuppy190 · Answer

Low libido

shortster · Answer

Lies.

In_Trance · Answer

Friends with an ex

Tina19 · Answer

Controlling

JosyJosy · Answer

"Cheating is ok"

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