What is your red flag in relationships?

[whoisvolkan]

Relationships are not easy. Especially the red flag is important. What is your red line in relationships?

[SomewhereElse]

- frequent lying. White lies here and there are fine, but if they happen too frequently, what else are they willing to lie about? Are they compulsive liars?

- irresponsible with money, how much money they have is not important though. Just how well they manage what they have.

- mental health issues that they aren't actively seeking help for. Everyone can develop depression, anxiety and the like, but if they are not looking to improve, they should not be dating.

- disrespectful towards parents / grandparents (unless there is a very strong reason for it such as the family member is a violent drunk)

- doesn't offer a seat to elder / ladies on public transport

- lack of table manners

- doesn't listen

- "me" mentality, it's fine to put yourself first, but if that's all you put first then goodbye

- excessive drinking / drug / cigarette consumption

- listens to loud music (specific and not in itself a red flag, I just really hate it)

- reckless driver

- littering in nature / public

- public urination

- poor hygiene

- bad teeth

- bad posture

- obesity

[jennifer_bloom]

I think a stingy guy or a guy who refuses to help others without compensation, I’ve met two guys who thought I owed them dates because they gave me a ride home from church and one guy hated me because I criticized him for slandering me after he drove me home a few times, he disrespected me and said terrible things about me but thought I owed him loyalty because he gave me a ride home a few times.

[BJP21]

Physically/Mentally/ Emotionally Abusive (Especially if they have no filter and Yes Girls do it too, which why I'm now single)

Not a celebrator (Holidays or Special occasions)

Man Hater

Insecure

Lazy

Compulsive

Disrespectful (Family or Interests)

Liar

Self Absorbed

Financially Insecure

[tzdc21]

Smokes

Does Drugs

Frequently posts sexy photos online

Frequently goes to bars and clubs

Bad Attitude

Disrespectful behavior

Manipulative

Feminist (The type that basically hates men)

[Anonymous]

- jobless
- lazy
- always asking me to lend him money
- poor hygiene
- lacking education (even in general knowledge)
- closed minded
- believes in alpha/beta/dogfuck shit
- hates feminists (hating on toxic feminists and manhaters is fine)
- shit at conversating
- doesn't care about his wellbeing
- hobo looking
- smoker / drinker
- narcissistic
- too many mental health problems
- not a boyfriend or hubby material
- not a family man
- came from a fucked up family background
- doesn’t know how to cook the easiest or simplest food
- doesn’t know how to clean or do basic chores
- submissive (in daily life or sexually)
- no manners

[MCheetah]

Feminist/woke.
Implies/hints at "being into other women."
Likes "free bleeding."
Smokes or does drugs; especially marijuana.

[Anonymous]

- She is a feminist or other types of sjws

- She willingly stays friends with radical people who post pro-sjw shit om the internet

- If she says no to have sex when she neither sick or on her period

- She wants a breast reduction

- Not willing to be a stay at home girlfriend / wife

- Lost her virginity to someone not me

[D_Bone_Steak]

Let us see how many guys agree with me on this one..."He's just a friend" I've been burned by that one... any of you guys too? How about the girls... seen it or done it?

[Topaz1979]

Liars, thieves, disrespect, ungenerousness, laziness, passive aggressiveness, grudge holders, narcissism, egotistical, immaturity.

[Topaz1979]

oh yeah I personally would never date a man who has a high body count, has been divorced and who has a child/children. I'm not judging those men I'm just stating my preference.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

If he has a kid: not actively trying to see his kid.
Regardless of kid status: being a jerk to wait staff at a restaurant/bar

[TroyDT]

Main ones:
1. Her trying to manipulate me.
2. Being rude to those whom she considers to be of lower station. Rudeness to a food server is a one-and-done for me.
3. Hints of racist tendencies.
4. Sense of entitlement.

[Belgie]

If you don't trust me by now, fuck off with yourself.

[FilmGuy93]

Lots angry posting online. Lots of sexualized pics online.

[_Just_A_girl_]

Liberal,
Dr, lawyer, pilot
Motorcyclist, smoker

[Googlemyahoo]

Dirty house

Needy

Jealousy

Cultural/religious retarded

Drug use

[LimitedBenefits101]

Feminist.

Pro choice.

Smokes.

can't cook " every female must know how to cook"

Supports lgbtq.

[Anonymous]

Gold diggers and cheaters.

I especially hate gold diggers! I hate them so much that I want to see them being humiliated in the public!

[slatyb]

Deliberately inconsiderate behavior.

[DermalPunch]

Dishonesty